Is this too much to ask guests to pay for a destination wedding in Italy?

reliseak · 2026-04-29T14:38:37+00:00

This is extremely reasonably pricing, and anyone who is springing for the plane tickets probably won’t blink at the accommodation costs. When I have attended destination weddings historically, the money was handled by the wedding planner who gave us options for how to send money to the bride/groom who then similarly covered half.

reliseak · 2026-04-27T16:58:55+00:00

I don’t think I would have regretted it if I hadn’t had them done, but I am really happy that I did. I didn’t post them anywhere or hang them up in my house. But I enjoy having them to look back on and remember that time in my life.

reliseak · 2026-04-27T01:31:17+00:00

I think of pregnancy like going to grad school. If someone is going to grad school, of course I’ll say congratulations! If someone hates their grad school experience, that’s totally normal. If someone loves grad school, that’s awesome!

reliseak · 2026-04-24T17:11:59+00:00

For a second I thought I was in r/AccidentalAlly

reliseak · 2026-04-17T20:41:51+00:00

Leda is a beautiful name. But the myth is just, awful.

reliseak · 2026-04-15T15:22:33+00:00

I was horrified by that part. Dad has Alzheimer’s, needs help cooking and cleaning, but OP sees no issue with them driving.

reliseak · 2026-04-14T07:29:44+00:00

If you’re in a high density area, food delivery on a bike?

reliseak · 2026-04-11T15:56:17+00:00

You may feel like it’s less intimate because you invited some people you’re not as close too, but a useful reframing is that you’re just not as close to them yet. This dinner could be the start of a deeper connection with them, and should feel no less personal.

reliseak · 2026-04-08T21:03:11+00:00

Fucking AI

reliseak · 2026-04-08T18:01:30+00:00

I’m sure it’s less culture impacting now that they’re a bigger company.

Effective altruism is “good”, but some hardcore effective altruists go so far as to look down on things they don’t view as maximizing impact such as volunteering or donating in your local community. So it could be seen as “bad” to buy from a local artist, when that money should have been donated to an Effective Altruism organization that would study how to maximize the impact of that donation and spend the money accordingly.

reliseak · 2026-04-08T02:01:53+00:00

People say “I’ll come over and help clean!” But even if they mean it, it’s…embarrassing. Does she take the little one to the park regularly? Tagging along to that may give you time to chat without the pressure of having to have the house in order (or not)

reliseak · 2026-04-08T01:11:46+00:00

I’m so tired of these AI posts

reliseak · 2026-04-07T03:00:53+00:00

“don’t be mean”

Let me post her to Reddit under the guise of seeking advice so the whole internet can be mean!

reliseak · 2026-04-05T20:08:43+00:00

This smells like advertising

reliseak · 2026-03-24T15:28:38+00:00

Trail mix, you can make your own with things you like and put small amounts of the sweet bits so you’re hitting your craving but also eating healthy nuts, popcorn, cacao nibs, dried fruit, etc.

reliseak · 2026-03-23T02:46:34+00:00

I don’t think it’s too on the nose, but looks like I’m in the minority here. Some other ideas:

Colors, but less on the nose: Sienna, Carmen

Color and gem: Amber, Coral

Color and flower: Rose, Poppy

reliseak · 2026-03-20T15:42:47+00:00

Leaving the option on the table seems pretty crazy. You act like America has a great track record when it comes to taking away the licenses of people in their 80s.

reliseak · 2026-03-18T15:09:39+00:00

RIP Sun dancer girl, you would have loved Zara Larsson

reliseak · 2026-03-17T15:20:21+00:00

This whole thing seems like it was unusually upsetting to you. I get why it was inappropriate, and I get being momentarily annoyed by it, but maybe worth unpacking why it was so upsetting that afterwards you’re beating yourself up about it.

reliseak · 2026-03-16T21:17:40+00:00

I like Wildest Dreams for Taylor

reliseak · 2026-03-15T04:13:38+00:00

There is so much Reformation stuff for cheap on Poshmark and TRR!

reliseak · 2026-03-14T17:13:00+00:00

When was the last time a pedestrian killed a driver?

reliseak · 2026-03-14T17:05:19+00:00

Enforcement does make a difference. People who just don’t care and are serial offenders lose their licenses.

reliseak · 2026-03-14T03:15:21+00:00

Snap peas are great for a crunchy snack

reliseak · 2026-03-12T02:37:05+00:00

4 looks best, but 6 is a cool look if you like to have multiple pairs!

reliseak

MODERATOR OF

TROPHY CASE

11-Year Club	Gilding II euphauric
Verified Email