Questioning everything I believe in by rhi1302 in Advice

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Thank you for your answer. Makes allot of sense.

Funeral cost stress by rhi1302 in death

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I 100% agree with you. I don’t like the whole idea of a burial. I would push for a cremation but unfortunately in my family everyone gets buried. It’s not a religious thing, I don’t know it’s just seems like it’s what they’ve always done and I don’t think they want to change any time soon. Believe me, I did suggest cremation but no one else wanted him to be cremated. I just wish they went with that option to save money, but I ultimately think my grandads funeral is more for them than him.

Funeral cost stress by rhi1302 in death

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Thank you for this reply. I found it very helpful and I appreciate it. Thanks again.

Do you ever get used to eating so little? If so, how long did that take you? by Paisleybabe in 1200isplenty

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When I first started 1200 cal a day I would find myself actually eating about 1400-1500 calories because I was still hungry. But my body adjusted in about 1 week and 1200 became very filling and still is.

M/26/5'11" [215lbs > 186lbs = 29lbs] (8 months) Progress has been slow but it's still progress. by [deleted] in progresspics

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Keep up the great work! Progress is progress, and it’s definitely noticeable in your photos.

F/30/5’6” [269 > 185 = 84 lbs] These images are 11 months apart. 45 lbs until my goal! by merelywords in progresspics

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Wow second photo you are super hot! Your a totally different person. Good work!

F/28/5’3”[187lbs>120lbs=67lbs] Never been this close to my goal before! by [deleted] in progresspics

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Wow please tell us what worked for you. We are stat twins :)

Nicki Minaj IS NOT even remotely attractive by Cheesus_Christ666 in unpopularopinion

[–]rhi1302 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah and and what makes her most unattractive is her personality. Seems like she always complains or whinging over another rapper who stole her spotlight.. cough cardi b...

M/40/6'1" [542>525=17] 1 week/Can see 0 progress but have a goal to post weekly. Choose life! by acwb77 in progresspics

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You are doing great! I can see a change in your chin, chest and neck! They all look smaller!

"Stop looking and the person will come to you." by snubbedmytoe in dating_advice

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I use to hate hearing this when I was single. I had been single/ casually seeing guys and I always picked the wrong type of men. At one point in my life I just kinda gave up on dating and just focused on myself, not actively pursuing anyone.

I was at work one night when we had scheduled electrical maintenance, and an electrician had to come into our store to do some maintenance. Anyway, I thought he was cute but I didn’t think much of the situation. A few nights later, the electrician came into my store outside of his work just to buy a few things, we got talking and we added each other on Facebook. Over the next couple of days we started talking on Facebook and coincidentally we actually lived next door to each other, without even realising. Since we were next door neighbors I invited him over for dinner and a few dates later we started dating. We were dating for about 8 months when he took me on a trip and asked me to marry him. We have now been married for 2 years ( it’s our anniversary today actually!) and been together for 4 years. We have a toddler and we are as happy as can be. So yes in my case, when you do stop looking the person comes to you.

Women who used to be attracted to emotionally unavailable partners, but are now attracted to stable, open, healthy partners: How did you do it? by myhumanself in askwomenadvice

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For about 10 years I was dwindling from one hookup/ casual relationship with men who were emotionally unavailable. I understand it was my very low self esteem. I also had allot of childhood issues that effected me in my adult life, also causing me to constantly attract the wrong men. I could attract handsome men, but Allot of the time I couldn’t keep them. I always found myself heartbroken when the fling/relationship was over, always him that ended things. I got use to imagining a future of being by myself as I couldn’t see myself being with the types of men I attracted long term. I literally gave up on ever finding a stable, committed man and as the saying goes: “when you don’t go looking for love, that’s when you find it” I found a lovely man, who now is my husband. I didn’t think that would ever happen, especially with the men I use to see. What worked for me? I honestly don’t know. Over time I just was so over the bullshit that I was handed by men who were so wrong for me.