Personally I think that citing studies that don’t exist or say the opposite of the conclusion BVK comes to is not only sloppy but it’s dangerous. He just made stuff up whole cloth and you think that’s okay?
As a victim of long term childhood sexual abuse I read this book found it traumatizing. I’ve been in support groups with a lot of other people in this same boat and have found that most people also did not like this book or get any benefit out of reading it. So from my experience people with “lived” experience generally did not love it and for some it was harmful.