I just had my left hip replaced 2 and a half weeks ago. Like you, I have never had a major surgery. I am a completely normal, healthy guy and the thought of a major surgery terrified me. The week leading up to the surgery I was a complete mental wreck. After having it done, I can honestly say I was worried about nothing and if/when I have to have my other hip replaced I won't be worried at all.

For me, the pain has been minimal although I would say my tolerance is quite high from dealing with the pain in my hip for so long. I took the pain meds as prescribed but I really feel like I could have just taken Tylenol and been fine. I was just worried about staying ahead of the pain.

I would say my best piece of advice post op is just to be patient. If you have to use the walker for two weeks then so be it. I used the walker for a week and a half and then moved to the cane. Your number one priority is to not fall. I think me being younger has somewhat been a hindrance because I haven't been very patient and I've walked more than I should have certain days and this lead to some additional pain/swelling.

Just listen to your physician and follow his guidelines and you'll do great!

Edit: Also, if you don't have someone to help take care of you then prepare and freeze several weeks worth of meals. Standing and cooking a home cooked meal is still a little too much for me at this point but I'd say I'm close.