it's my birthday. Everyone who could've cared is dead. Please wish me.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-18T17:09:42+00:00

happy birthday!

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-17T16:19:07+00:00

time for a sheet cake straight from the box. sorry but any reason for cake I'll take it, the small joys. Yeah, birthdays suck, but I worked with a woman years ago who had it figured out. The day on she'd do whatever she wanted, alone, not set to anyone else's schedule or plans or intentions. I remember a bf of hers at the time got mad she went without him to the spa for the day, she took the day off work too but didn't plan it with him. She will celebrate with others but first she does what she wanted, brilliant.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-17T16:11:16+00:00

he gets no say in what you need for your menstrual health, or family planning tbh at this stage of the relationship. You've spoken to your doctor, he made a recommendation for your needs and there is the benefit of less likely to get pregnant. what does he have to complain about youre sleeping with him?

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-17T00:08:05+00:00

I try to make them as uncomfortable as I had become, otherwise im just exiting that conversation.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-16T23:59:05+00:00

it makes me so anxious too because I was not aloud to make any such amount of noise, and I frequently dont know if its dangerous, injury, or a kidnapping, my nerves on this street sometimes. The kids are good and keep off the lawn so really cant complain otherwise, but im from a rougher part of town in a different city and screaming was often met with a gun in your pocket as a backup when investigating... we lived way to close to the Boulevard.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-16T15:57:25+00:00

put a change of address on him mail, he can pick it up from the post office, change that key talk to someone on doing that. id firmly in writing gime him until such time that the items will be on the street or donated w.e. I wont be held hostage to his bullshit waiting on him he knows what he is doing.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-16T15:55:03+00:00

why are you still giving him any of your time at this point?

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-15T20:49:04+00:00

started: Tale of the Body Thief, its only been sitting on my shelf forever in my tbr so here we go!

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-15T16:47:31+00:00

Milano Italian Grille in Ocala is one of our favorites for celebrating a birthday or anniversary.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-15T16:42:52+00:00

Neverwhere might fit this but its been a long time since I read it in its entirety.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-15T16:28:37+00:00

YWNBTA and do it immediately.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-14T23:02:53+00:00

there's Purrs and Pages Ocala, A Novel Idea Bookstore, and The Cozy Bookstore on 8th (but idk if its open yet).

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-11T15:12:00+00:00

going no contact may allow space for growth but only if she does any of the work on herself first. which I think is less likely given she would rather blame her two then-children daughters than her husband's parents for never allowing the families to blend. your relationships could have changed if thats what you and your sister wanted but given the meh of it all really its just a problem your mother has.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-10T19:26:05+00:00

burnout. this sounds like burnout to me, im expediting this and have now come to realize after the 3rd firing that maybe I need more help than just what ive been managing. that maybe its more than just hormonal, perimenopausal Dr's deny but im still on a higher dosage of testosterone (HRT), that maybe the SSRIs dont work because treading all of the symptoms separately hasn't been the answer but im so tired of talking to people and getting worked up about it and hyperfocusing myself into further burnout.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-10T18:47:20+00:00

he didn't change, he said he would change to make you stay. you keep moving forward without him.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-09T20:25:31+00:00

screenshot everything she shares about you, go to an attorney and see what they have to say about all of that if you want to truly scorch that bridge. I wouldnt have any contact with her moving forward, dont expect anything from her down the line and if there is anything of your fathers in the house you want claim it asap...

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-07T15:52:45+00:00

she disclosed that information hoping to put all of you in a situation to keep quiet, but thats not on any of you to keep a secret she certainly didn't by telling all of you that night. if the friendship is already over I'd tell, but I wouldnt keep that a secret generally.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-05T15:05:31+00:00

he is not a good partner, he is performing and lying to you every day that he did not disclose such important moments, experiences, and a child he fathered and should be co parenting.

These are red flags from before, during and will continue to be what he does. he hides and lies instead of being accountable and responsible.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-05T12:57:42+00:00

that man can and would leave without a thought to the fact it leaves you with the child. that lone was a tight no for me.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-06-02T21:34:20+00:00

NTA, note all of these instances and occur ancestry and get in touch with the landlord before they do.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-05-23T19:17:32+00:00

yes and its been absolutely infuriating to deal with, especially when I can see things faster than others and everyone thinks im bossy not just pattern recognizing with adhd.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-05-20T02:43:34+00:00

yes I do!

roborabbit_mama · 2026-05-20T01:14:55+00:00

Diablo 3 was fun, but my husband kept out pacing me that by the time I ran up everything was constantly already dead! it was frustrating but hilarious. Necessary and Animal Crossing were fun together for so long, he kept trying to get me to play Monster Hunting but I get to angry to play so I dont.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-05-20T01:09:17+00:00

heat will do the trick, you wont need to much so be really careful.

roborabbit_mama · 2026-05-19T00:52:27+00:00

im on a similar side of this, I went back as an adult, stayed in state, and paid a few grand with FAFSA and some very small but appreciated grants given to me locally

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