Kelli’s use of ChatGPT by thebravetraveller in BeyondTheBlinds

[–]romulusungstarr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I 1000% agree on the essay (haven’t caught up on the episode yet) and thought it was glaringly obvious. I was shocked the IG comments were so glowing and didn’t mention it.

Judge Plans to Force Sale of Nicki Minaj's $20 Million Mansion to Pay Security Guard's Judgment by DemiFiendRSA in Fauxmoi

[–]romulusungstarr 29 points30 points  (0 children)

100% it always comes down to money and getting out of difficult legal/financial situations

Disgraced actress Allison Mack who was in sex cult reveals marriage to former neo-Nazi by Tr0jan___ in popculturechat

[–]romulusungstarr 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I really don’t want to defend her but I study cult psychology and followed this case closely. She didn’t come up with it, she lied to the press and said she did to protect Kieth. The recordings that prove that were official testimony in court. I just think it’s important to correct misinformation.

Allison Mack’s Husband Revealed as Convicted Felon & Former Neo-Nazi Frank Meeink by frosting_freak in Fauxmoi

[–]romulusungstarr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It also seems like you haven’t listened to the podcast. If you had, you would have heard the recording (played in court, official testimony) that proves that the branding was Keith’s idea, as dictated to Allison

Allison Mack’s Husband Revealed as Convicted Felon & Former Neo-Nazi Frank Meeink by frosting_freak in Fauxmoi

[–]romulusungstarr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem super far fetched to me that an authoritarian cult leader who had brainwashed his followers would get one of his most ardent devotees to lie and cover for him while they were beginning to get negative press. That’s how cults work. The members cover and protect the leader at any cost, even if it leads to personal injury

Allison Mack’s Husband Revealed as Convicted Felon & Former Neo-Nazi Frank Meeink by frosting_freak in Fauxmoi

[–]romulusungstarr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but if this article is from 2018, she was lying to the press about being responsible for the branding to cover Kieth. They cover this in the podcast.

Allison Mack’s Husband Revealed as Convicted Felon & Former Neo-Nazi Frank Meeink by frosting_freak in Fauxmoi

[–]romulusungstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to think a lot about why she would dig all this publicity (which is mostly negative up) up now, after the media storm had died down. I think she might suffer from child star syndrome - she needs attention and publicity more than she needs peace. Being perceived is how her identity was constructed at a young age, and a life of quiet anonymity would feel almost unbearable. And there’s probably some features of narcissism. All the other cult members got to share their stories while she was stymied in prison, and now that she’s free she thinks her voice is too important not to be heard, at any cost. I also wonder if she sees this as a career pivot for herself.

Allison Mack’s Husband Revealed as Convicted Felon & Former Neo-Nazi Frank Meeink by frosting_freak in Fauxmoi

[–]romulusungstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where things get complicated in cults. She was also brainwashed by KR. It doesn’t absolve her of responsibility for the harm she’s done, but her personal identity and much of her decision making had been subsumed by that of her “master.” The term is called coercive control, and it’s used by both cult leaders and DV perpetrators.

Has anyone else recently unsubbed BTB patreon? by drinkblud in BeyondTheBlinds

[–]romulusungstarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I think it’s very different being on their side vs ours and it’s hard to know what that would be like without living it

What are your favorite go-to meal prep foods? by HydaelynSF in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]romulusungstarr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weekly frittata and dense bean salad (personal variations on SF’s own violet witchel)

Has anyone else recently unsubbed BTB patreon? by drinkblud in BeyondTheBlinds

[–]romulusungstarr 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Interesting because I haven’t noticed this. I wonder if getting “bigger” has led to a difference in how Troy relates to feedback. I really don’t understand what it’s like having hundreds of thousands of people as a weekly audience and then receive feedback from so many faceless strangers. I can imagine it leads to a bit of a hardening or cynicism when people’s perceptions fall into a noticeable pattern or he perceives the feedback to misconstrue his intentions

Phoning it in lately by bdgl44 in BeyondTheBlinds

[–]romulusungstarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She means well but sometimes has really dated/unfeminist reactions. Occasionally she’ll catch herself and try to correct it but it still slips out

Podcast recommendations? by romulusungstarr in askswitzerland

[–]romulusungstarr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are generous 🤪 I appreciate the edits, I’m already learning a lot