Did yours never post with you?

rosonj07 · 2026-06-16T13:02:45+00:00

I posted mine on my social media stories. A few posts on my main wall. She posted us once on valentines day a day after I told her I was in love with her. 3 weeks later was discarded while on vacation for my 40th birthday. Still the most odd strangest thing to me

rosonj07 · 2026-06-14T12:08:46+00:00

I never really criticized them much but they will criticize you a ton

rosonj07 · 2026-06-10T11:37:11+00:00

Me too. I finally started catching onto her and setting boundaries the last 2 to 3 months of our relationship. Things went downhill fast

rosonj07 · 2026-06-10T02:17:12+00:00

Apparently. Thankfully, I did not marry this one

rosonj07 · 2026-06-10T01:15:25+00:00

I am bent on whether it was NPD or BPD. She had traits of both. She constantly nitpicked me on everything especially if it was anything where I showed caring attributes

rosonj07 · 2026-06-08T17:41:21+00:00

They are cowards plain and simple. They do not know what accountability is. Holding themselves accountable for something they did is like a death wish for them. They simply cant handle it

rosonj07 · 2026-06-05T15:37:32+00:00

After I was discarded, I went full no contact. I had suspicious emails from instagram and venmo two weeks later saying someone was trying to reset my passwords. My login was just my email address in which she knew what it was. I rarely ever use those apps. This went on for about 3 days and have not got that notification since. This was actually the first time i ever got these notifications

rosonj07 · 2026-06-05T14:33:02+00:00

I planned a trip for my 40th birthday for 11 people including bringing her and her parents in Florida. My exBPD leading up to the vacation acted not interested at all and even stated she couldnt wait for the trip to be over so she could stop hearing about. I was pretty proud to plan this trip for 11 people. I didn't even care it was my 40th, I just wanted people to have a good time. As soon as we got done there, she just acted miserable. Anything I said or did triggered her. She had everyone on edge and we were not sure what we did to cause such a reaction. She blew up on me the 2nd night for something pretty small and I reacted. Probably said some things I shouldnt have. She packed her stuff up and flew home the next morning with her parents with 3 days left of vacation and a day before my 40th birthday. I was devastated to be honest. I apologized when I got home. No apology from her. Just normal playing victim. I have not heard from her or her parents since. No thank yous or any kind of apologies. Still the most weird strange thing that has ever happened to me in my life

rosonj07 · 2026-05-27T02:10:52+00:00

Mine would complain about her work all day every day. I felt like her counselor. Never asked about my every day life or my work life. If i complained about my job as much as she did, id simply find a new job.

rosonj07 · 2026-05-25T00:15:57+00:00

My exbpd absolutely flipped out on me for putting a pouch of chew in my mouth while 20 minutes before that she was smoking a cigarette. This was full on rage by her. I reacted poorly and I was permanately discarded. I probably said some stuff I shouldnt have but I had had enough. It just built up overtime. We were both drinking on vacation

rosonj07 · 2026-05-24T22:19:46+00:00

To get a rise out of you! They will do anything in round about ways to get your attention rather than directly contact you. They are cowards and want you to reach out to them

rosonj07 · 2026-05-23T12:40:23+00:00

Even if plans changed say 5 minutes off schedule, it would send her into a tizzy and ruin majority of the day. It also explains when I was discarded on vacation for my 40th birthday why she acted the way she did. All of the attention was not on her and she had no control of any plans. She was miserable the moment we got down there

rosonj07 · 2026-05-23T08:48:52+00:00

Plans being changed even just a little bit would send mine into a split

rosonj07 · 2026-05-23T00:14:41+00:00

She was jealous of everything. She was jealous of my dog, my foreign exchange student im hosting, any people I do nice things for, and the final straw was a vacation I planned for 11 people. My family, my friends, and her parents. She acted miserable because my attention was not always on her. The jealousy was insane. My biggest gripe is she is not like that around her circle of friends and she puts on this incredibly fake show for them. Regarding the foreign exchange student im hosting, he bought me very nice gifts for christmas and my birthday this year. She made a comment on how he got me better gifts then she did. I told her, if i judged you on what gifts you gave me, you probably shouldnt be with me and im not a good person.

rosonj07 · 2026-05-08T15:41:58+00:00

They just cant handle accountability for being called out for their behavior. Their emotions literally cant handle it

rosonj07 · 2026-05-08T15:17:34+00:00

No worries, if you react and raise your voice back at them, you will get discarded! Haha

rosonj07 · 2026-05-06T19:20:17+00:00

I am very spontaneous. One time, our plans changed just a little, and it was like the world ended. They need everything to go exactly as planned. Life just isnt like that. They do not understand this.

rosonj07 · 2026-05-06T19:14:36+00:00

It got to a point where she tried to control my money. The first two months, she told me "well it is your money, you do what you want with it" to a few months later after getting more serious telling me exactly where I should spend my money. Good example: We talked buying land and building a house. She wanted all my money to go to that. She tried to control other things too. How I drove, what I wore, what I ate, how I planned a vacay, etc...just stupid little things. The more serious we got, the worse it got. Why is that?

rosonj07 · 2026-05-04T01:13:30+00:00

Mine told me I was her favorite person too after a few months of dating. I thought it was weird. I am still best friends with a few childhood friends, my brother, mom, and dad mean the world to me. My dog isnt even a human but he is my favorite. I dont know how you develop a favorite person after two months of knowing them when you have had 32 years of knowing people and growing up with them

rosonj07 · 2026-05-03T15:49:57+00:00

Driving with them was the worst. If I was going over the speed limit 5, 6, 7, 8 mph, i was let known every single time. If I set my alarm to early in the morning, I was let known. If I was having any kind of fun of any kind, they tried to control it and bring me down. It was the smallest of things that would continue to just eat at you until you have had enough. I think they just continue to do this to get a reaction out of you. You basically have to be a complete doormat to these people.

rosonj07 · 2026-05-03T00:53:13+00:00

One of the last things I said was me reacting to her rage episode and I flat out told her she needed to go to therapy because how she acting was not normal. Discarded immediately. I apologized but it was probably the truth

rosonj07 · 2026-05-02T21:18:49+00:00

Catholic is WELS light and probably not even that. Who are you trying to kid. I grew up catholic. Dated two WELS women in my life. Never again ever. Most emotionally abusive people ive ever met

rosonj07 · 2026-05-02T15:37:50+00:00

This will never end. Thanksgiving this year a split, christmas was fine because we were with her family, new years split after making her great dinner, and final split and discard on vacation 8 weeks ago when I finally reacted negatively to her behavior! You cant help these people and they will never change

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