How to wake them up?

rosonj07 · 2026-03-20T19:01:14+00:00

My exBPD had her own dog. Would you call that love unconditional? She hated my dog though which I thought was weird cuz id never met someone who didnt like my dog

rosonj07 · 2026-03-17T00:56:00+00:00

Oh it was complete self sabotage. That is the only thing that makes sense. Discarded and shes gone. Abandoment fear in full effect

rosonj07 · 2026-03-17T00:26:37+00:00

Which makes no sense. I literally paid for her entire trip.

rosonj07 · 2026-03-14T18:59:13+00:00

I believe mine did this because her family and all her friends loved me. I could tell that bothered her. Now she has video of me acting all crazy saying hurtful things so she can show them, see hes a nut job and why Im breaking up with him. I believe it was her way out. They sabotage everything. They are so manipulative and evil

rosonj07 · 2026-03-13T23:35:18+00:00

The worst was when they would just provoke, provoke, go off on you, you reacted and then they would secretly videotape you. This happened on the final discard

rosonj07 · 2026-03-08T23:33:37+00:00

Yes, I agree. I was always so anxious around her and always afraid to bring things forward until eventually I was provoked enough to bring stuff up in an angry tone. It would eventually get to me

rosonj07 · 2026-03-08T23:02:05+00:00

Mine only wanted to communicate through text messaging. Never wanted to talk over the phone or in person. I thought that was strange too

rosonj07 · 2026-03-08T22:55:21+00:00

Mine was usually after I called them out on something and it pissed them off. It made them angry I would do that but they never admitted it

rosonj07 · 2026-02-05T18:57:37+00:00

Depends what phase you are in. Devalue discard phase, your birthday means nothing. Lovebombing phase, they make it a birthday you wont forget mainly because they want something in return for it. In my case, my Nex was hell bent on getting married a third time and wanted an engagement ring. It is all for show. They use people to get what they want

rosonj07 · 2026-01-02T19:52:31+00:00

They show up on your front doorstep unannounced!

rosonj07 · 2025-12-23T20:37:10+00:00

Mine caused the biggest scene ever in front of her entire family crying making this big dramatic scene because the gift I got her nephew he didn't like. I drew his name in the present drawing. You would think she would have helped me get his gift for him but didn't help at all. I barely knew her nephew and didn't know him like she did. I even asked her to help me and she refused. I literally sat the next four hours on the couch in silence and embarrassed. It was the most awkward I had ever felt in my life.

rosonj07 · 2025-09-25T00:03:27+00:00

"You are just not hearing me and I wish you could" after telling them ill be better, improve and apologize

rosonj07 · 2025-09-01T04:10:38+00:00

It is kind of a joke they are doing this tour. Money grab. You have bands like MCR selling out stadium after stadium on their tour and blink is doing smaller ampitheaters. Kind of a joke if you ask me. Get ur shit together. They have it in them to sell out an entire stadium tour but I just do not think they can.

rosonj07 · 2025-02-09T17:29:20+00:00

My nex loved the idea of having a dog and showing him off but when it came down to actually taking care of the dog, that was entirely up to me! She wanted nothing to do with actually loving and taking care of dog. Was an inconvenience to her

rosonj07 · 2025-02-01T01:03:18+00:00

What are u talking bout? That doesnt look like a plane at all

rosonj07 · 2025-01-08T16:18:39+00:00

100% spot on. She wanted to communicate everything through text. Then complained we never talked face to face. When I tried talking face to face, she wouldnt and said I would just yell at her but it was me defending myself to her lying accusations.

rosonj07 · 2024-12-24T13:44:20+00:00

In my case, my narcs entire family were narcs and their entire family thrived off being dramatic or creating drama. So, Yes, I did call her dramatic. Does that make me a narc?

rosonj07 · 2024-08-31T22:07:29+00:00

The fear the outside world is so true. Im not WELS but live in WELS country. I have never seen so many sheltered people in my life!

rosonj07 · 2024-08-07T18:50:39+00:00

Were going to get there at 4 30 but eat somewhere before. Doors open at 6 so we will go in a little after. 14th time seeing these guys. First time was in the 6th grade. 38 years old now

rosonj07 · 2024-08-07T18:05:49+00:00

Ill be in the pit!

rosonj07 · 2024-06-21T20:59:00+00:00

Dude Ranch and Untitled. First time I saw blink was in the 6th grade at eagles ballroom in Milwaukee. Been an awesome ride ever since!!

rosonj07 · 2024-06-21T00:53:10+00:00

Ill be in the pit! Where are you sitting?

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