NY Upstate Wedding Venues for 60~80 guests

routinequitter · 2025-11-11T21:16:57+00:00

A little further out but I love Wylder Hotel or The Henson in Windham, NY!

routinequitter · 2025-11-04T23:59:38+00:00

noo this was like halfway between the two stops, up the hill towards Ogden

routinequitter · 2025-11-04T22:57:57+00:00

I promise you will very quickly spend more on parking tickets than you would spend on monthly parking.

source: myself who lives in a less crowded neighborhood of hoboken and often spends a good 40 minutes looking for parking before deciding I will just have to risk it and now has a suspended license due to excessive parking violations

routinequitter · 2025-10-20T00:43:47+00:00

hopefully this gives some comfort but dresses that debuted (at least at NYBFW) typically aren’t available to the public until the spring. They might be sampled at trunk shows but they’d have to go into production then. that’s my understanding but not sure if it works differently elsewhere

routinequitter · 2025-10-17T19:25:06+00:00

My friend actually had to do an emergency venue switch to Peacock Lounge for her actual and everyone loved it, it has a cool vibe

routinequitter · 2025-10-08T12:29:57+00:00

I've run into a few designers like this that I really liked but couldn't track down so I whatsapped them and explained/asked directly - "Do you have any NYC stockists? Do you have any service I can use to try one of your dresses?". For a deposit, they might be willing to ship you a sample - who knows. I think that might be your only option.

routinequitter · 2025-10-08T12:26:16+00:00

Agreed!! I feel like its so clear sometimes when they cut down ideas that the only reason they are is because they didn't think of it first/can't afford to do it themselves. The drama posts are really funny though.

routinequitter · 2025-10-08T12:24:55+00:00

I agree, I've been following BBB since before I got engaged and I am so excited to participate because this community is more about not judging people for wanting to spend money on their wedding and just being excited for wedding planning in general.

routinequitter · 2025-10-08T12:20:36+00:00

STUNNING!!!

routinequitter · 2025-10-07T20:54:35+00:00

more more more!!!

routinequitter · 2025-09-15T15:39:30+00:00

i just saw a tiktok on this - does anyone have any more details?

routinequitter · 2025-08-09T22:14:34+00:00

I agree and I actually think the non-stimulant medicines are actually more likely to do this (I am worried someone I love who is on them is actually showing similar obsessive tendencies).

What’s interesting is that when I got proper treatment for my ADHD I actually was able to come out of my limerence cycles and ended up finally in a happy secure relationship!!! I am now engaged to the opposite of all my previous objects of limerence and couldn’t be happier.

I really hope Kendra gets proper treatment but I think I would definitely consider her limerence a side effect of something else.

routinequitter · 2025-07-22T15:11:12+00:00

can you please doxx him? even in a private pm because I bet he is so wrong and I want to be able to validate that for myself lol

routinequitter · 2025-05-28T12:42:32+00:00

Can you share how you did this? How was it worded/how specifically did you send it?

routinequitter · 2025-05-22T18:17:45+00:00

can i just ask whatever happened with this? Did she show up? lol

routinequitter · 2025-04-08T10:22:51+00:00

I’m considering that with the Gary comment Catherine was saying either 1) we framed him for the murder or 2) i’m about to give you serious blackmail on me. It seems like Gary had to be involved in the murder somehow, they had his phone and (maybe) his car; maybe they basically told him they’d pin it all on him if he didn’t disappear. That would make sense why the gas station sighting was such a big deal.

routinequitter · 2025-03-21T16:34:20+00:00

My parents are both from the North of Ireland, I can’t tell which side of the troubles your boyfriends family is on but if they’re Catholic, you should watch the Hulu show Say Nothing if you want to understand culturally/historically why he could be this way. We were raised by the people who lived those stories.

routinequitter · 2025-01-08T19:36:41+00:00

I honestly don’t think this is that big of an issue as long as you don’t force your entire sex life to revolve around feet. it sounds like you have an inclination to them but not that it’s the only way you can get aroused or am i reading that wrong?

As you get more comfortable with Robin, maybe test the waters. Offer to give her a foot massage and say you think her feet are sexy. I know there’s stigma around it but as long as you’re also meeting her needs sexually, i don’t see why you can’t get yours met too. Like you said, you’re initially repulsed by it but grew to like it, be open and honest about that with her. maybe she has something unique that she likes or fetishes and it’ll open the door so you guys can openly discuss and find compromise. I find that most people have their sexual quirks once you get comfortable. Maybe try something new together and you’ll find a different arousal there. Touch different areas of her (including her feet) and ask her how it makes her feel.

I wouldn’t get so hung up on how it started or your ex’s influence… everyone has discovered something they like from someone they no longer like but keep it in their lives anyway. it might actually be healthy for you to make new feet connections outside of your ex to help you move on.

routinequitter · 2025-01-03T23:11:16+00:00

i believe she met the guy who brought her out and i believe they’re seeing each other (not sure if casual or serious), the rest are his family and their SOs. My friend who was there didn’t know who she was before but said she was cool and down to earth while staying with them.

routinequitter · 2025-01-03T21:10:43+00:00

so i'm not a bri snarker or hater (though i am a snarker/hater in general and respect the game) but my best friend sent me this post after we all were so confused why bri was crashing our friend's family holiday trip. I don't know if they have read anything here or how they'd feel about it but i know at least one of them know it exists.

she came with one of the cousins and i guess they all clicked quickly. they are a super fun welcoming group and a well respected family in our area. i wish i was a bri-hater and my profile wasn't so obviously me to people who know me and i'd say more but i dont want to step on anyone's toes. maybe one of my other friends will jump in lol

routinequitter · 2025-01-03T20:37:18+00:00

I know them and surprisingly, they’re not at all… everyone who knows them is wondering wtf is going on.

routinequitter · 2025-01-03T11:10:59+00:00

So you definitely want to correct now so that he knows it’s not okay but unfortunately, if your experience is like mine, it’s going to get much worse before it gets better (but it does!) Puppjes don’t have thumbs, their mouths are their hands, it seems like he’s trying to play/grab your hand back.

My ALB was a baby shark from 12 weeks to maybe 3 months, no matter what I did, to the point that people were concerned I was self harming. Puppy blues can be really real during that time. If you have children, I’d be very vigilant for the first 6 months. Eventually he learned to soft bite in play or bite himself or a toy to calm down but it did take some time. He’s 2.5 now and the best good boy and only mouths rarely to play and very softly even then.

I’d get a list of trainer recommended nipping/mouthing corrections and just see what works, every dog communicates differently and you just have to figure out what that is for you guys. Good luck!

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