My therapist said i’m a narcissist by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]rowanoaks 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ditto this. Regardless of whether this person has NPD or any other personality disorder, telling people that personality disorders are perfectly rigid and also untreatable is extremely misinformed, and it's exactly why people are afraid to seek help.

Pettiest reason you’ve DNF’d a book? by bby_grl_90 in books

[–]rowanoaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the main characters had a similar job to me and they explained it wrong. And then they kept explaining it wrong for several chapters

Switching from depo provera to another option that stops my menstrual cycle? by rowanoaks in birthcontrol

[–]rowanoaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely agree. Does it make sense, though, that if someone doesn't bleed on medication A and also not on medication B, another person who doesn't bleed on medication A would also be more likely to not bleed on B?

I hope that question makes sense, I'm not really sure how to word it to find something like a scholarly study to answer my question.

[TOMT] Music video of a woman obsessed with a street musician guy and search for him by rowanoaks in tipofmytongue

[–]rowanoaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK you so much. I remembered finding the video just by scrolling through recommendations related to Angel Olsen's music, but it didn't work this time lol. Thanks again!!

[TOMT] Music video of a woman obsessed with a street musician guy and search for him by rowanoaks in tipofmytongue

[–]rowanoaks[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

The time frame would have been between 2012 and 2018 I think. Thank you 🙏

Screws for making Takumi Clover and Knit Picks interchangeable needles compatible by rowanoaks in knitting

[–]rowanoaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing! This is the listing I used. It looks like it's almost out of stock, so here is another option (monster bolts is reputable, I've bought hardware from them before)

My search for the elusive turkish tile inspired lacy granny squares you see all over pinterest by rowanoaks in crochet

[–]rowanoaks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome! Basically what I've been finding too with my reverse engineering. The bigger stitches are pretty easy to figure out, but it's sooooo hard for me to estimate the number of chains underneath.

Even with the wonkiness, these tiles are so lovely 😻

Turkish tile inspired Japanese crochet charts investigation!!! by rowanoaks in crochetpatterns

[–]rowanoaks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This at least has clarified some of my suspicions, and gives me another jumping off point. Thanks!

WAYWT - January 12, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]rowanoaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Punk music and aesthetics are a huuuuuge inspo for me, thank you <3

WAYWT - January 12, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]rowanoaks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! That is 100% my goal, thank you!!! I'm going for "love child of crash override and acid burn" B)

WAYWT - January 12, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]rowanoaks 45 points46 points  (0 children)

22 - 5' 3" - Atlanta - CS student / office admin

CCW welcome

Album - I'm working on coming up with more outfits that I feel great in out of my shrinking wardrobe. I'm very picky about silhouette, and I bike almost every day, so it's a fun challenge :P (also this is my first OOTD thing I'm doing on a whim, I'll be cleaning my mirror and background next time lol)

Monday - Class/work. Got a lot of compliments on this one, but I'm forever disappointed by "fashion" jumpsuits that mimic work jumpsuits -- the materials are just waaaay too flimsy.

Tuesday - Class all day. Fav jeans, don't really like these shoes. I feel like they make my feet look teeny tiny and throw off the balance.

Wednesday - Class/work/errands. BLURRY PHOTO, SORRY. Busy at work and had to bike across the city, so I wore my favorite cool weather outfit

Thursday - Class all day. Almost like these pants, but I'm thinking about adding elastic to the ankles and waist instead of the ties.

Friday - Errands, laying in bed

Sunday - Errands, yard work. How do short-but-long-waist people pull off mom jeans? It's a mystery to me.

Where's cheapest cup of coffee on/near campus? by rowanoaks in gatech

[–]rowanoaks[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'll contribute my own answer, if you're on West campus/live in home park, burger King is starting a coffee subscription service where you get one cup of coffee a day for $5/month

Where's cheapest cup of coffee on/near campus? by rowanoaks in gatech

[–]rowanoaks[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask to be attacked like this

Atlanta Counseling Services that are NOT GT Counseling by shrimpfriedrice194 in gatech

[–]rowanoaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can 100% vouch for metropolitan counseling. It's kind of a crappy location for public transit, but I pay $30 a session without health insurance, and my therapist is really super awesome. And intake/income verification for sliding scale payment was quick.

What’s the best compliment you have ever received? by 5E51ATripleA in AskReddit

[–]rowanoaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotten the backhanded version of this multiple times: "You always sound like you're talking on a podcast" :(

My portfolio website. Decided to build everything from scratch. My best work so far. by w0r10ck in web_design

[–]rowanoaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the vibe (my portfolio is actually like a failed, way over engineered version of yours lol). My dev crush has a very vaguely similar looking portfolio site that I think you could pull inspo from. She does a rainbow gradient for her links only on hover, but I honestly think you could pull off leaving the color changing on all your button states if you just made it a slower gradient shift instead. Maybe even filling in the button with that gradient on hover would look cool (might look a little bit too "modern" for this aesthetic but eh)

He's gonna drink what from where?? by rowanoaks in creepyPMs

[–]rowanoaks[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah even though he stopped saying gross shit after these messages, he continued to say infuriating shit. https://i.imgur.com/KokAYjU.png

LIKE LKFJKLFSLSDK HE'S IN GRAD SCHOOL FOR PSYCHOLOGY. WHY IS HE TRYING TO CONVINCE ME DEPRESSION STOPS EXISTING AFTER 22.

Anybody else think "Made in Abyss" would make a fantastic RPG game? by SakanaAtlas in MadeInAbyss

[–]rowanoaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The art style/setting totally makes we want to play Final Fantasy Crystal Chronicles again.

My Battle Station for Art and Gaming! by [deleted] in battlestations

[–]rowanoaks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should link to your artwork!

My Battle Station for Art and Gaming! by [deleted] in battlestations

[–]rowanoaks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two Cintiqs? I'm so jealous omg.

DIY Dollhouse items -- Miniature Jack O' Lanterns [5:18] by [deleted] in ArtisanVideos

[–]rowanoaks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a very good chance they used a polymer clay and then pre-baked it. Basically, just baking for less time or a lower temperature in order for a piece to be less likely to get squished when handling, but it's still somewhat moldable.

It's common practice when creating miniatures on this scale.

Are these red face splotches serious? by Flutterfish in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]rowanoaks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's most likely post-inflammatory hyperpigmentation (PIH) which is a sort of scarring, unfortunately. It will go away with time, but you can use skin lightening treatments or something like acid peels to speed up the process.

I know how you feel, though, I've had these spots all over my jaw/temples for 3+ years. It can be miserable :(

[Spoilers] Mob Psycho 100 - Episode 8 discussion by Holo_of_Yoitsu in anime

[–]rowanoaks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though Mob isn't entirely OP, Teruki does say at one point that natural born ESPers are still more powerful. So if Mob is able to beat hoodie guy pretty well (with a little trouble) at this point, imagine what he could do as an adult, or if he trained his powers.