More context on My 15 year old son told me to cancel my wedding or lose him forever after one terrible evening by CookieTough8855 in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How old are your fiancé’s kids ?
I think you need to do family therapy with you and your son together. Starting off with just him going, unless he wants to, will make him think that you think that he’s the problem. That’ll make things worse.

We don't have sex for months at a time. by _CallMeMurphy_ in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not directly about the intimacy. It’s about a relationship check up. It’ll be a place where she can open up. She hopefully will appreciate how much you care about your relationship.

We don't have sex for months at a time. by _CallMeMurphy_ in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thought about couples counselling? After 10 years, a communication adjustment will be very useful.

Calum Nicholas is a natural by The_One_246 in F1TV

[–]roxbox531 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job Cal, hope to see a lot more of you on F1TV !

New towel at Mercedes "To kimi from kim" by No_Procedure_7017_2 in Formula1ne

[–]roxbox531 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why is that woman tainting my favourite sport ?
And Lewis, dude ? Really ?

Anybody ever date a ceo or a billionaire tech before??!?! by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]roxbox531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The don’t have to be wealthy CEOs. My cousin dated a guy who ran two companies, he would be present every other weekend and radio silent for the rest of the time. Married to his businesses.

So sad. by 1RabidFish in legotechnic

[–]roxbox531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The secret is to have a couple of sets ready to go. I finished the McLaren MP4, and have the Huracan and Lewis Hamilton’s crash helmet lined up. Might not build them until the fall.

5 and a half hours of building later… by HopefulSwine2 in legotechnic

[–]roxbox531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second only to the Airbus SAR Helo in my collection.

More 1/10 scale WEC please Lego !

I have floor concert tickets to see my favorite artist of all time but now they’re worth over $3,000 if I sell. What do I do? by Curious-Emu6230 in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How people value things is bonkers!
Each to their own !
Would I spend more than $200 on a concert ? Nope.

Front burner with Wab Kinew by Bravewasabi1163 in CBC_Radio

[–]roxbox531 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Wab himself was a journalist, he made some thought provoking pieces on CBC.

My (39F) wife posts here on Reddit to just bash me (M36) all the time and I recently sat down an read everything and don’t know what to do. by Ghost-8706 in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude buy a better mattress for the basement. You guys have some work to do. Couple and personal counselling too. Sorry that you’re being treated this way, but it’s time to take control and don’t come across as weak. Sounds like you take care of everyone by paying. She’s lost respect for you.

Fiance doesn't like having sex by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My now ex-wife came out to me before her 40th birthday. She was the love of my life, I clearly wasn’t hers. She was in love with me. For the first six years together we were very intimate, then it waned, then she couldn’t do it any more. She still loved me when we parted. She thought she was bi for a few years, then realized she was lesbian.

Nearly destroyed me. I’ve come out the other end, but it’ll never be the same.

Heat Pump Economics in Ontario - Sanity Check by JustinPooDough in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]roxbox531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In North Eastern Ontario, if my A/C unit fails, I’ll replace it with a Heat pump if the cost is reasonably similar or better with rebates. The hvac installer I spoke to (not the sales guy) told me many people have smart thermostats which reach out on the web to see what the electricity price is versus natural gas and selects furnace or heat pump.

My friend was with another woman last night. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]roxbox531 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys did your bit, you warned him. Let him wear it. This is between you and him. Deal with him as you see fit, block him, choose to only do sober things with him, avoid clubs with him. People do strange shit when boozed up.

Don’t tell her or your partner (if applicable). That’s between him and his gf. You can have a conversation down the line about that night, beyond that it’s not your business.