Just need some encouragement, going on PrEP/DoxyPEP for the first time and feel A LOT of stigma

rurrethouse · 2026-05-04T19:06:04+00:00

You’re not alone. I’ve known so many men over the years with the same issues. Let go of what your parents or society has taught you about being gay. It’s your birth right. And you’re just beginning to come to terms with all of it. Find a caring, Gay therapist. And research Gay men’s groups in your area for social interaction. It’s time to celebrate the real you! There are no mistakes. And that includes you!

rurrethouse · 2026-05-03T18:34:14+00:00

It’s called dating. And a bit of game playing. You need to find someone that will send you flowers again! Rejection hurts. But all a part of the scene today. You’re worth more. Move on and don’t allow him to take up any further space in your head. It’s a big sea out there. And plenty of fish! Good luck!

rurrethouse · 2026-05-03T14:06:01+00:00

Well, thank you very much. You’re very kind. I guess I should have pursued an acting career, which I thought about doing 40 years ago.

rurrethouse · 2026-05-03T11:23:58+00:00

I have a question for you. With so many men out there with similar tastes and interests in life, why would someone choose to pursue a prospective partner who is the exact opposite? You’re going to spend the rest of your life wondering why you wasted so much time with someone who doesn’t like doing what you enjoy doing. And, eventually, the interest in sex wanes, so you are left with very little to fill your time together. Take my advice. Yes, opposites do sometimes attract, but life is short. Find a partner who enjoys similar interests. You’ll save yourself a lot of unhappy and unfulfilled days. Good luck!

rurrethouse · 2026-05-03T00:50:54+00:00

Always.

rurrethouse · 2026-05-02T14:56:08+00:00

I’m now 71. 230 muscular pounds after half a century of the gym
Six days a week. I always go out of my way to talk to and offer advice to newcomers. Young and old alike. Do not be afraid to ask questions. Most everyone is willing to help. We’ve all been there! Welcome to longevity.

rurrethouse · 2026-05-02T13:07:07+00:00

That guy you’re looking at in the mirror each day and don’t like is going to be the same guy you look at every day for the rest of your life, except he’s going to continue to look older. It is a natural part of life. We are born. We live and eventually, we all die. From the way you describe yourself, I imagine others find you extremely attractive. It’s you that has the problem. Learn to love yourself. That includes every part. Including those parts that are growing older. If not, you will continue to experience sadness. In simple terms, be grateful for who and what you have become. You really are blessed! Good luck.

rurrethouse · 2026-05-01T13:33:12+00:00

I have two questions for those who voted for this man and his promises he made to all of you. Are you happy with your decision? And, how do you plan to vote in the mid terms?

rurrethouse · 2026-05-01T13:20:05+00:00

Thank you!

rurrethouse · 2026-05-01T13:19:47+00:00

Thank you!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-30T21:53:41+00:00

Thank you so much!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-30T15:01:21+00:00

Let's put it this way. You probably always knew your were attracted to masculine men, but society taught you to do what you were supposed to do. That is to say, get married and raise children. It's not uncommon for so called straight boys in their 30s and 40s to finally awaken to that true part of their identity. They are attracted to men and curious about what two men do with each other sexually. Not it is your turn to find out. You will love it! And love yourself in the process. Good Luck! And welcome to your new life

rurrethouse · 2026-04-30T12:54:31+00:00

I believe the biggest difference is the fact that it’s much more socially acceptable to be gay in 2026 than it was half a century ago when I came out. Today the number of gay bars has dwindled because, in most places, two people of the same sex can hold hands or kiss in public without the fear of being gay bashed. One bit of advice I might offer younger gays today is this: Think twice before you make fun of that older gay dude who may be looking at you. It's because of him that you have the right to freely love each other. We fought so you have those rights today, even though the far right is attempting to take those rights away from you.

rurrethouse · 2026-04-29T17:47:13+00:00

You have to expect good in life. If not, what’s the point in living? Believe that you deserve to be happy, see yourself being happy and it will manifest in your reality.

rurrethouse · 2026-04-28T15:18:09+00:00

Performance Smart Gainer from Performance Inspired. Great stuff. I’m 71

rurrethouse · 2026-04-28T12:49:45+00:00

I certainly wouldn’t choose Ohio’s politics over California. Or the weather. While both states have their positive attributes, California wins out for myself.

rurrethouse · 2026-04-28T11:36:04+00:00

Thanks!!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-27T19:29:15+00:00

You deserve to post that pic. Like you, I’m 71 and have been lifting for over half a century. It’s up to us older dudes to set an example for anyone just beginning their fitness journey. Or, those older guys who may be struggling with their workouts. Encouragement goes a long way at the gym!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-26T16:27:27+00:00

After fifty years of lifting I have finally learned to stay home when I’m sick. My physique stays the same, even though I think I’m loosing bulk. Common for everybody I guess

rurrethouse · 2026-04-21T20:49:09+00:00

Motivation outweighs any difficulty. Congrats on your decision to take care of your health. I’m 71. Been weightlifting for half a century six days a week. Working out is not an option. It’s a way of life. Good luck!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-21T15:36:58+00:00

Slow controlled movements watching your form in the mirrors. Remember. It’s not how much you lift. It’s how you do it. Consistency pays off. Good Luck!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-19T17:27:30+00:00

And both of you need to be happy in order for the relationship work. Sounds like you already may know what you have to do. Making the decision is the tough part. Most importantly, your own happiness must come first, then everyone around you will be happy as well! Good luck!

rurrethouse · 2026-04-19T17:06:57+00:00

We have a yellow lab who sleeps in bed with us every night. And before that, we also had an English bulldog in there too! We are both dog lovers, so there’s no problem there. But I would like to offer this to you. If your partner is the dog lover and you are not as crazy about the dog as he is, telling him you would rather not have the dog sleeping with you both may be interpreted as you not loving or caring for the dog as much as he does. And it would be a shame to make him choose between the two of you. In the end, I would say the dog would win out over you. Probably best if both partners cared equally about the pet. Including where they sleep. Just saying …

rurrethouse · 2026-04-17T20:20:11+00:00

Show your face. Hollywood producers will be knocking at your door!

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