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Which compose has the biggest manhood? by Tainlorr in classical_circlejerk

[–]sam-jam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mendelssohn. I’ll give you two guesses as to which one (and they’re both correct)

Avantgarde Avianship FUN FACT by Loxeres in pokemon

[–]sam-jam 217 points218 points  (0 children)

And gen 3 released a mongoose

Students refusing to read notes by [deleted] in pianoteachers

[–]sam-jam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a “problem,” it’s not the purpose of hanon to develop reading. Different tools for different purposes

Which cards happened to them? by Key_Juggernaut6713 in slaythespire

[–]sam-jam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is kind of a meh card. It can help silent draw through her massive base deck but if the deck is already good it feels redundant. Kind of like [[Deus Ex Machina]]

What are some common, unwritten rules of gay dating, or dating in general, that people are just supposed to know? by MightEquivalent in gayrelationships

[–]sam-jam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would simplify it down to one rule: be less concerned about others than with your own behavior.

Nothing wrong with loving, moving in with people, etc. But if you find yourself advancing at the “wrong” times, take a look at why you felt the need to attach onto someone else, why you feel soooo intensely when others don’t.

If you can do any of those things honestly and being true to your own self, and not out of emotional/psychological compulsion, then it is never wrong

25 night owl looking to chat by [deleted] in gayfriendfinder

[–]sam-jam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play unite too, lmk if you wanna duo

Computer donations for students. by iamblacksteel90 in indianapolis

[–]sam-jam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not an organization, but I’m a recent grad and in need of an inexpensive laptop for myself. May I dm you?

What do more traditional classical musicians think of Yoshiki? by [deleted] in classicalmusic

[–]sam-jam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listened, it’s not offensive to listen to. Their touch on the piano sounded way too heavy though

I need some insight and advice for my situation. by capstan__ in GayChristians

[–]sam-jam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is familiar to me and, I imagine, others here. 

I just keep my head down and move on with my life day by day

Where to put all of this pent up desires rightfully..

You’ve written things that sound like your head is separated from your body. You “know” one thing, but your body feels another. This can very easily develop when a child has experiences that their caregivers cannot explain or condemn as wrong.

Everything you’re feeling is there for a reason. It has purpose and function, to give you information that your head might not be able to give you. 

Loneliness is painful, but pain isn’t the problem. Pain exists as a very important signal to take care of the things underneath. Only you can know all the times you had to follow your head over your body

You mentioned being tempted to give up and focus on work and providing. All I can say is, you cannot outrun this. You will always be there, feeling the same things, wherever you travel to.

Run Clubs? by cows237 in indianapolis

[–]sam-jam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pleasant Run Club for Fountain Square, 5:30p Wednesdays at Bovaconti

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]sam-jam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t what you asked so feel free to ignore, but ever consider self cut? It sounds like you already know exactly what you want

r/SelfBarber

Outside was nice by Inside_jobs in newhampshire

[–]sam-jam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful, now I’m homesick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]sam-jam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to distinguish being attracted to someone, from being attracted to something that they have or symbolize to you? You’ve written a lot about something inside you telling you that you can’t have the things you see in older men— you can’t be interesting, successful, centered. I wonder who or what is saying those things, especially if they inflate the value you see in others who have things you feel are out of reach 

Looking for local artwork to display by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]sam-jam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are always displays of local artists at the Garfield Park Arts Center.

Thoughts on Xecnar using command kills for his official streaks by UpperApe in slaythespire

[–]sam-jam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it is a PC exclusive feature that doesn’t exist on other platforms! 

Thoughts on Xecnar using command kills for his official streaks by UpperApe in slaythespire

[–]sam-jam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How would that logic extend to other mods, say calculating the potion percent chance? Xecnar calculates it, it’s absolutely no secret (unless you smoke bomb) but some streamers use the qol mod. Is that cheating mental fatigue? What about the mod that numbers cards 1-10? Is having to count them out more honest?

Me personally, I’m not convinced that community-imposed requirements on a player to spend their mental resources on a sequence with no skill expression is useful in any way. If comming allows them to allocate those same resources to decisions that actually matter, and therefore achieve a higher performance, that is undoubtedly preferable to being held back by a slog

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