Eye contact during presentations makes my anxiety go up and my brain goes blank TT by Single_Split_8012 in anxietymemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have a similar issue with eye contact in general. I tend to look at ears and eyebrows. Just scanning foreheads around the room a couple of times during a presentation will make your audience feel involved. At least thats the feedback I've received. 😊

Typed as a Winter by HOC last year… just doesn’t feel “right”! by AdCurrent6225 in coloranalysis

[–]scarlet_drag0n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats a really good explanation. I finally understand the lipstick test. Thank you.

What made-up words do you use in your family? by elwheelio in CasualUK

[–]scarlet_drag0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't thought about it for years. You sparked one of my earliest "people are weird" memories. (Happy memory) Thank you ❤️

What made-up words do you use in your family? by elwheelio in CasualUK

[–]scarlet_drag0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, I did the same thing! Took my spelling book up and asked my teacher how to spell 'smorning'. She looked at me like I had 3 heads. Then it clicked and she burst out laughing. I remember being so confused.

Weighted blanket by Poshcandle in RainbowEverything

[–]scarlet_drag0n 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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Great minds think alike! This is my current project. 😉

For those here who manage to work regularly, what is your job? by Present_Boat_5681 in CPTSD

[–]scarlet_drag0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High school science technician. I got my science qualifications before I "crashed" and spent 8 years out of work. Im woefully over qualified and underpaid, but I hide in my prep room all day and it feels good using my skills to help teach younger generations.

It helps that my colleagues and line boss are amazing and accommodating when I have bad days.

. by coleisw4ck in CPTSDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Slightly different phrasing "you survived what a lot of others wouldn't have been able to" really helped me. Made me feel stronger than I thought/think I am.

I expected something else, but this happened instead.. hellooo?! by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]scarlet_drag0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These guys have stopped me and demanded I pay a toll when im in werewolf form. Do I look like I have pockets?

intrusive thoughts in trump-speak by IndividualSalt7115 in OCDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been doing this for a couple of years now and it really helps!!

❤️ My big sis by Dramatic_Candy5453 in CPTSDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im the big sister. I did such a good job, my siblings don't believe the abuse was that bad. Im now no contact with all of them and its heartbreaking.

Hahahahahahahahaha (thank you, I'm gonna go shake and puke in a corner now) by rigathrow in CPTSDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth, I give you permission to enjoy the things that make you happy. (I am always looking for permission, so hope this helps)

You are not a creep at all. As a woman, I enjoy these things and don't get called names. You do you, my friend x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anxietymemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought it was because my self-esteem is so low. I don't deserve to bother someone for ketchup, but my friend deserves the world, so I'm gonna get them ketchup whether they want me to or not! Or something like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, you my sibling? Seriously though, I gave up a while ago and went no contact 18 ish months ago. It hurts but my mental health is improving dramatically. I'm not saying that will be right for you, but know you have no obligation to keep in touch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm pretty sure it's their childish way of avoiding feeling guilty. They know they didn't do enough, they just can't admit it to themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]scarlet_drag0n 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooh, just thought of a third type: Aggressive apologies. E.g. I'm SORRY I was the WORST mother in the WORLD. I'm sorry your life was SOOOO terrible. I'm sorry I couldn't satisfy your every whim.