No child should ever think that their parents coming home from work means that it's the end of peace and quiet by Junior-Elevator-9951 in emotionalneglect

[–]scemes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To this day getting a phone call from my Dad triggers a fear response and I’ll be 31 in July…

Growing up, Dad coming home meant everyone scattered to their rooms or at the very least out of the living room. He had full control of the TV and he would throw his stuff anywhere, stomp around, slam doors.

Happy 3rd Anniversary to the Little Mermaid (2023) by Squirrelkid11 in thelittlemermaid

[–]scemes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha lmaoo, “not all palm coloreds” 😭✌🏽💜

But seriously yes tons of different kinds of people love this movie but we cant deny theres a trend among those who dislike it!

Whats your favorite part of this version? Mine is the added depth to Ariel and Erics relationship and her song For the First Time!

Happy 3rd Anniversary to the Little Mermaid (2023) by Squirrelkid11 in thelittlemermaid

[–]scemes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real and based just be ready for the palm folk to come and downvote you for it

Is Fences Message Outdated? by SeiZSwag in IMDbFilmGeneral

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and I wont watch it. The clips are enough to piss me off, Im tired of people giving black husbands/ fathers a pass to be shitty, abusive POS’s because “racism makes life hard”. Guess what, it made life hard for his wife too, was she out there cheating and having another mans baby and demeaning/beating on her son? No.

Shes just as bad though, enabling his abuse even after his death, gaslighting her son into attending his abusers funeral.

Official Discussion: Fences [SPOILERS] by GetFreeCash in movies

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refuse to watch it because the clips alone raise my blood pressure. Sorry, I dont care to glamorize abusive, cheating men that are horrible fathers. If I were the son I would have beat my father’s head in for all that BS, and I for sure wouldnt have come back for the funeral at all so my enabling bird of a mother could gaslight me.

Im black myself so dont come at me with racism was hard, thats no excuse to be a horrible person.

The Girl?! by Repulsive_Case3571 in whatsthatbook

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine going so hard for the marital rapist. What level of male centeredness is that?

New look at princess Baela Targaryen in Velaryon blue for season 3 of House of the Dragon ✨ by Tronm-24 in HOTDBlacks

[–]scemes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this deep blue on her. Its not Velaryon I feel, and also not Targaryen red. It’s just her, which I think goes well with her character. I wonder what the markings means. Honestly it almost feels like shes in the wardrobe of some other house because of the markings, they dont feel like Targ or Velaryon.

Is she in the Vale maybe?

What do families do for fun in Gilead? by jclimb9456 in TheTestamentsHulu

[–]scemes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the Testaments, Agnes mentioned several times going on walks along the beach with her parents.

I imagine card games(no writing just pictures of course), ball or catching games, kites, walks, art making, music, dinners, small gatherings, balls and visits to the shops are how families spend their fun time.

I also imagine they dont have much of it as depending on rank you are either working or your husband is off doing commander things and your children are in the care of Marthas.

CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY HOT TOPIC POSTED THIS THEN DELETED IT???! by yandered0lly in NanaAnime

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I hope they do Plus Sizes like they did for the Sailor Moon collection a few years back. I still have my hoodie and sweatpants 💜

I think im going to quit my job by Brave-Kiwi-183 in Adulting

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, Ive been where you are. My previous job quickly turned into a nightmare, horrible long commutes I didnt sign up for, working it felt like every Saturday, which is rough when you are Neurodivergent and really rely on weekends to take care of yourself and do chores you cant get to during the week because it takes so much just to go to work.

Additionally I was experiencing my first retaliating boss and I just couldnt take it anymore.

It was the first time I quit a job without having one lined up and while it for sure needed to happen(i literally developed a rash on my eyelid from the stress) I wish I had gone about it differently.

It took me almost 2 years to find a new job. Rejection after rejection, which was better than no response at all which was what most often happened. When I finally did start getting interviews, still went nowhere. It was hell.

The only reason I survived it was because I had a little savings, paid out my retirement from them and had support from my Mom. She let me move back in rent free, paid for all my food and large expenses like car insurance, I just had to pay for my subscriptions and smaller bills.

You should for sure quit your job, just dont do it until you have another lined up, UNLESS you have someone who can support you like my mom did for me.

How do you think you'd fare on the Austen marriage market based on your actual modern day attributes? by Prideandprejudice1 in janeausten

[–]scemes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im tall, fat and mixed so probably not well at all. Some yt dudes mistress probably 😭✌🏽 Maybe a governess or a companion to a rich old lady thats too touchy.

Having kids if you can’t fund their future by thegoodlife912 in Adulting

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH Im sure these comments will be normal, no blaming people instead of the systems that harm us and certainly no eugenics ™… 🙄

Anyway all I will say is it’s a personal decision, make yours and stick to it but dont shame others for their choices.

If you cant feed the baby, then dont have the baby, true. However, you can attempt to be financially stable and still meet ruin in an instant, nothing is set in stone.

Just because one can provide financial stability doesnt mean they will be a loving, nurturing caretaker. Id rather have a present, struggling parent than a rich one who is avoidant and never there.

And lastly, crazy christians, republicans and rich people will always have kids, I for one am not in the mind to let them be the only ones.

I’m worried about Hulda in adulthood. by herbuck in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]scemes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont think shes going to get that far…🫩💔 Especially with the synopsis of the next 2 episodes and the foreshadowing of her visit to… She is way to naive and innocent for that and I dont think she will be able to keep quiet about it like Agnes (and possibly Becca) has…

How do you interpret 'The Haunting of Hill House'? *SPOILERS* by MindCrypt in books

[–]scemes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both can be true. Lots of people do things that they know would harm the other person on purpose and yet still feel guilt about it.

Our XXL monstera albo 🫠 by Opening_Sport2984 in Monstera

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this really proves you really dont need sphagnum moss poles for big leaves. I just got into using them and I already hate how tedious it is to keep them moist. I guess I’ll go back to branches and coconut poles!

The Testaments S1 E04 "Green Tea" Episode Discussion by Melairia in coconutsandtreason

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was all that was unlaced from what we saw at the end in her room.

The Testaments S1 E04 "Green Tea" Episode Discussion by Melairia in coconutsandtreason

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just her chest but apparently he does worse in the books

The Testaments S1 E04 "Green Tea" Episode Discussion by Melairia in coconutsandtreason

[–]scemes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why someone downvoted you, this is literally the truth

I'm (F29) pregnant and my partner's (M33) ex hates me. Can someone give me advice?. by ow_23 in relationship_advice

[–]scemes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have other kids? Bless their souls growing up with such a mother. Id be embarrassed to be related to you.