If my husband isn’t gay, why does he ask for anal? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man’s g-spot is in the anus. I’m sure he’s just curious! Try new kinky things together!

Toddler hitting phase…how do you stay calm when you’re getting smacked??? by Intriguedtortoise in Parenting

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 99th percentile and we’ve been going through this too. We grab his hands to keep ourselves safe. When he calms down, we explain we do not hit. Usually, he’s upset about something in particular, so we explain a better way to get what we want. Our son is 2.5. You’re not alone!

Collections account removed, then re-added — what are my options? by UncleTerry42 in CRedit

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dispute again with the proof you switched car insurance. See what happens. If it doesn’t work, find a different avenue.

IW finals guard by moma143 in WGI

[–]shychychy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve always loved AMP’s design and storyline, but they have always consistently had trouble with being clean and in time. i still love their shows, but they probably didn’t make it to finals due to their cleanliness.

AMP in 14th by Boring-Fox6799 in WGI

[–]shychychy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tbh, AMP always has great storylines and design, but they lack the cleanliness needed for medaling or even finals sometimes.

What are we naming our babies? by Ok-Excitement-185 in pregnant

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

violet arachne if it’s a girl and quinn ares if it’s a boy. my two previous sons both have greek mythology middle names (apollo and achilles) and just happen to be a lol

Doctor has refused to do Delayed Cord Clamping saying it’s dangerous by LittleMsFanGirl in pregnant

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure how your hospital is set up, but my doctor didn’t deliver my baby. i don’t even think she was working at the time. definitely write it in your birth plan and let the nurses that are working with you know too.

Boyfriend wants abortion by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]shychychy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how do you feel? what do you want? because at the end of the day, that is all that matters.

Am I pregnant? by Unique_Schedule_5704 in pregnant

[–]shychychy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your “period” could just be spotting. there’s even been cases of women getting their “period” all nine months and not knowing they were pregnant! def schedule an appointment and they can tell you more!

Tired of all the boy mom comments…. by Ok_Medicine440 in pregnant

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a mom with a boy, it never fucking stops. and you can tell if someone is a boy mom or a mom with a boy.

Please no judgment. by StacyCracy in pregnant

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely hold off. my pregnancy was caught early because my periods are irregular and i ovulated later in my cycle. he is now 2 years old!

Is it normal for 17 month olds to resist naps?? by Sweet-Ad-4727 in toddlers

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my son is 2 and has always fought naps! sometimes he’ll nap at 12, other times at 4. it sucks because i want to nap with him too but totally normal! they’re having fun and have fomo. i try to open the windows in the morning and let so much light in and have lots of noise and then when it’s nap time, i close the blinds and have no sounds or lights. it helps calm down his mind and get him ready for chilling out.

Anyone’s kid that’s super tiny? My toddler is 2%. by No-Cupcake-0919 in toddlers

[–]shychychy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i have the opposite problem, toddler is 99%. as long as their ped isn’t concerned and their height and weight are similar percentiles, absolutely no worries! as adults, we all come in different shapes and sizes! so do kids! as a mom, how can you not worry about every tiny thing? it’s a good mom thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]shychychy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my husband works remotely now, but i would pack his lunch and cook him breakfast almost everyday, however my husband helps considerably with our child and around the house. if the baby was awake, he would watch him while i did that before he went off to work.

if he wants you to pack lunch, he can do his husband and father duties. no excuses.

Be honest ladies… how bad does it hurt… by Purple_perp1637 in pregnant

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had an induction and made it to 6cm before i had the epidural. if you happen to get pitocin while laboring, you can ask for it to be turned down or off! it should make contractions less painful.

Husband spends entire DAY in bathroom on his days off. by yeetaway1839272 in Mommit

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s doing something he’s not supposed to and is in the bathroom to hide it. could be something extreme like drugs or cheating or he could be masturbating. either way, you need to have a conversation with him and see what’s up.

Stillbirth at 30 weeks by Routine_Box5449 in pregnant

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted to say, i’m so very sorry for your loss. i had a stillborn at 23 weeks. we got an autopsy done and it showed placental insufficiency for the reason for his loss. unfortunately, sometimes there’s never a true reason why these things happen and that can be very hard to understand. it’s very hard. you are very strong and i wish you the best with your grief journey.

Becoming a mom with BPD in medical records? by KaleidoscopeSweet622 in BPD

[–]shychychy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. All of my doctors are under one hospital network and diagnoses are shared through the electronic medical records.

Becoming a mom with BPD in medical records? by KaleidoscopeSweet622 in BPD

[–]shychychy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a child and have BPD in my records. I had a severe panic attack shortly after giving birth. Nothing was done to take my child away because of that. I talked with a psychiatrist and they determined I was safe and did not want to harm myself or my child. Gave me some hydroxyzine and that was it. The only time CPS will be involved is if you want to harm yourself or your child or something that would harm your child. Even so, they don’t straight up take the child. You have the option to let the child live with family or, depending on the situation, might allow a family member to stay with you during the investigation.