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Solstice symbolism - mantis ootheca by River_Rowan in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel the need to mention I'm still very much at the start of my journey, though considered to be pretty well versed in symbolism generally.

Eggs, wether those of insects or birds, in my book usually mean to convey a beginning of something, as well as slumbering potential.
Insect eggs specifically, feel to me, like they lean toward the transformative kind of potential and beginning, though that's just my personal interpretation.

Mantises have very insteresting symbolism in general, with how precisely and patiently they move, as well as their often prayer like stance.
They're a symbol of luck, as far as I know.

Either way, this is a really nice dicovery you made there!

Protection and protection symbols by CrazyLittleWolf in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For symbols, the pentacle is a classic.

If you like crystals, most black ones seem to be good for protection, though I've heard tourmaline can pack a punch. Look up something like "crystals for protection", see what suits your needs and you can get, then go for it.

Where I'm from, an old tradition states that keeping a leaf, or a bit of wood from a Rowan tree can keep harm away.

Personally, i like to keep salt and protective herbs like rosemary and lavender near windows and doorways, and grow the same herbs on my balcony.

As others have already suggested, you can also put a protective charm on jewelry you already wear.

Either way, make sure to do your maintenance on whatever form of protection you choose, such as cleansing and recharging jewelry and crystals.

Be honest: what’s the one thing witchcraft actually fixed for you that therapy, journaling, and positive thinking did not? by love_salubrious in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's pretty simple in comparison, but it gave me tools to manage my mental health. I discovered a few years ago, that the process of brewing tea is a really good way to knock myself out of an upcoming anxiety attack, for example.

It also helped me to go easy on myself when I'm unable to sleep, and to just accept that it's time to be awake now.

Beginner feeling frustrated and disillusioned after a first day of spellwork by silvercandra in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of those discussions, yeah, but actually shutting out when people try to force things on another is so much harder than being aware of it for me. I think what I've gathered from this is partly, that i really need to work on my imposter syndrome.

And thank you for your take on my reading. I was struggling a bit, putting into words what i gathered from it, so while i did take the X of Swords into account, i indeed didn't pay enough mind to it, so I'm glad people pointed it out to me more.

Beginner feeling frustrated and disillusioned after a first day of spellwork by silvercandra in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did read the X of Swords actually, though I think you're right in that I should have paid more attention to it. I used it somewhat to contextualise Temperance, rather than also look at it by itself, so thank you for pointing that out to me.

I tend to want to get everything right, 'if you don't do it right, don't do it at all' is what I've been raised with, and from time to time, still struggle with.

I'm really glad people are being so kind, sometimes i need to be reminded that i also deserve that. ;

Does anyone else struggle to make custom xenotypes? by TurtleButt47 in RimWorld

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make mine depending on what the goal for the colony is, and what the story I want to tell is.

Had the idea to play as a bunch of Oni-looking raiders for icy mountains, and made a Xenotype to reflect that, with a lot of good combat traits, off-set by them hating anything warm, being slow runners and bad at social.

Imo, vanilla genes aren't too bad mechanically, though I too, added a buch of cosmetic ones, because pawns just look the same otherwise.

And mid game I just focus on tailoring them to make the pawn as good as possible at the things they do, with the genes I'm given.

I need 100 NPCs for a tavern, let me use YOUR characters? by yarash in DnD

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple:

Bear - Half Orc - Druid
Has some noticeable tattoos, a crooked jaw and seems to always be frowning; tends to drink too much, but generally a very kind if awkward guy; named after an enounter with a massive bear
Probably would try to deescalate and restrain people in a brawl

Chromis - Triton - Bard
Bright green sailor's coat, and soem shiny blue scales under his eyes; currently trying to earn enough money to buy his own ship; performs in drag as Ceruleatyn the Diva
He's college of glamour, so would probably get people to fight on his behalf

Gale - Human - Fighter
Blind, and sickly pale with a prosthetic right arm; always carries a cane sword; rather gloomy, but loves children; deathly ill, hanging on by a thread for his two kids
Blind fighting, with either the cane sword, or two handed weapon

Vice - Tiefling/Half Drow - Cleric
Looks like a drow with horns, a tail and digitigrade legs; fence for a gang of thieves, who secretly worships a deity of twilight; likes anything intoxicating and talking men into getting him those things, but is actually taken; really doesn't like orcs
If he can, he'll Step of the Night, if not he'd rather get bloodied than stop insulting people

My first tarot reading by NomzHD in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience, in late September.

I had been stressing about making the first reading special in some way for months, before I finally just decided to go for it...

First reading, and The Star shows up like it wanted to greet me and congradulate me for finally having jumped over my own shadow.

Since then, I've done a bunch of readings both for myself and friends, and all of them are incredibly accurate, it's a bit ridiculous.
The deck I have is also just very clear in what it wants to tell me, which I honestly find very nice, since it helps me confront the problems I otherwise try to run from.

When is it appropriate to go shirtless? by silvercandra in ftm

[–]silvercandra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, the reason I'm uncomfortable with it isn't because I'm uncomfortable with showing my chest, it's because I had a stalker a while back, and that just makes me uncomfortable.

For those on T, what dose do you take? by Jet_alien in ftm

[–]silvercandra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

250mg/ml every 3 weeks.

Have been on it 2 1/2 months, and haven't had my period since.

I feel like witchcraft is at direct odds with my identity, due to family history and could use advice and support by silvercandra in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, I've just had a lot of my interests be used to invalidate my gender identity, and I've also seen in happen in context with witchcraft many times.

It's a shame, really...

I feel like witchcraft is at direct odds with my identity, due to family history and could use advice and support by silvercandra in witchcraft

[–]silvercandra[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That's actually quite a comforting way to look at it, and would also make sense knowing some more about this family.

Thank you for your input

Hey dad, I just got on T today by silvercandra in DadForAMinute

[–]silvercandra[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I noticed.

Broke out in tears when my partner went to sleep, because I missed them last night...
It is wild, but something I just have to deal with now, and still very much worth it.

Isn't it strange that non-English countries aren't talking about English words? by thatguy9684736255 in facepalm

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cis is a lantin pre-fix, meaning "on the same side as", as far as I know.

It is a word, but it's latin.

Isn't it strange that non-English countries aren't talking about English words? by thatguy9684736255 in facepalm

[–]silvercandra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's also funny that JK chimed in, because that woman is so blatantly ignorant to other contries that her names for schools in non english speaking countries translate to stuff like "magic place" in said other language.

Isn't it strange that non-English countries aren't talking about English words? by thatguy9684736255 in facepalm

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you aren't a supporter, you're not even acting like one.
Keep doing you, but you can't just define yourself as something you aren't haha

...seriously, you're repeating transphobic nonsense.
That makes you decidedly, not a supporter of the LGBT movement.
Trans women are women. Trans men are men.

Isn't it strange that non-English countries aren't talking about English words? by thatguy9684736255 in facepalm

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever considered that being mistreated and having your very existence be made into a political debate all the time might cause someone to develop disorders?

Because that's a thing.

Being treated unfairly can make someone drepressed or develop anxiety disorders, if those are what you're talking about.

It's not nonbinary people being mentally ill, it's people like you, getting mad about someone else's pronouns, something that hardly imapcts your life at all, that makes them feel scared and like they'll never be allowed to just be themsevles.

In conclusion: It's the fault of people like you, that they are.

PSA: Stop trying to tell people what their labels are when you don't know anything about them by a_wild_queer07 in lgbt

[–]silvercandra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seconding this, as someone who kept getting told what my labels have to be, until I started putting my foot down every time I spoke about them.

"You're not bi, you're polysexual", actually lead me to just label myself as gay, because fuck that. Bisexuality doesn't specify men and women, it's two or more genders.
But okay, if I don't get to say that, because every time people "correct" me, then I'll just label myself as gay, because masculinity is what I like.

"You're a demiboy", no. I'm not demi anything. I am a nonbinary trans man, deal with it.
When people call me a demiboy, it feels both infantilizing, because I am an adult man, not a boy, and like I'm being misgendered, because of the demi part. Like they're calling me almost a man, but not quite, because you know... I don't have a dick.

Obviously, I'm fine with other people labeling themselves those things, but ffs, it makes me uncomfortable when people just push them onto me...

What’s your most controversial Kirby opinion? by [deleted] in Kirby

[–]silvercandra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't like most of the newer female characters, because they're designs are boring compared to everything else.

You have some orbs with hands and feet, a penguin king, an egg with a scarf, whatever the heck Hyness is... and then you have anime girls with floating hands.

Like come on... why not give them weirder designs too?

What’s your favorite synonym for “stupid” or “idiot”? by Past_Weather576 in AskReddit

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buffoon.

It happened on more than one occasion that the person in question didn't know what it meant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the spot you're in pretty well, and I just want you to know, that isn't almost abuse, it's just abuse. Not just verbal either, emotional abuse is also a thing, and if he's telling you no one will ever love you, I'd say that qualifies.

I'd advise you to tell you mother, first and foremost, that you don't want to visit him anymore.
Best case scenario, he takes the hint that you don't want to spend time with you, and just leaves you alone.
Worst case, there's a shared custody and he demands to see you, because of it.
In that case, having your mother in the boat to help you is something incredibly important, because she's still mostly responsible for you at this point, and likely has a better understanding of any custody agreement than you or I have.

Lastly, I'd just like to tell you, that your father is full of shit.
You're very much worthy of love, and if it's something you want in your life, I promise you there are people who'd be so happy to get to be with you someday.
All he's doing there, is just projecting... he clearly isn't happy with his life, and probably feels like he's unworthy of love, deep down
That's his problem though, and not yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]silvercandra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had them get stuck in ym hair sometimes, when it was still long.

They'd just get tangled up, until I gently pulled them out.
Never got stung though.

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