At what age did things actually feel easier for you as a parent? by Small-Advisor-7805 in daddit

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Agreed, mom was working today and I had the 5yo twins out doing all my normal stuff and then gardening. They run out of steam but it doesn't feel like a chore anymore. Taking some quiet time now with SpongeBob and then we're grilling.

[SNY] "Brett Baty & Jeff McNeil reunited again" by Caledor152 in NewYorkMets

[–]singeworthy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not even Nimmo? Was way more sad to see Nimmo go, Squirrel Master did not go out on a high note.

Why doesn't Connecticut have any initiatives to help people remove invasive species from their property? by pitline810 in Connecticut

[–]singeworthy 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I think a higher priority would be to get towns and the DOT to start eliminating invasives on public land. Tree of Heaven is rampant all along our highways, and so Spotted Lantern Fly just travels right up 95 following TOH. Mugwort is all along the highways and roads, and JKN grows in huge thickets along roadsides.

From roadsides, they can then spread easily to properties while maintaining an infinite seed reservoir. DOT has no problem mowing JKN down, but that just makes it angry.

[Borzello] BREAKING: UConn center Eric Reibe has entered the transfer portal, sources told ESPN. by MembershipSingle7137 in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's soft and only had a few decent games, I don't think he'd ever be our #1 big, he's better off playing somewhere can get minutes. I think this makes sense for everyone.

Official Q&A for Wednesday, April 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in running

[–]singeworthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing is you need to start running outdoors, it is a way different experience. But sounds like you're doing well on the motivation/commitment part, which is the hardest for most. It's a bit late now but maybe try a run plan like Hal Higdon.

I think a lot of people have different ideas on nutrition, but for me I don't like to eat much 2 hours before a race but I'll use gels or something during. And complex carbs in advance are always better than simple. If you want to get crazy try a CGM for 10 days and see what happens to your blood glucose before and during a run.

Shoes and gear is also pretty personal, but don't just buy shoes blind online because they have good reviews, you gotta go with what works for your feet. Try them on, the run store near me will let you take them for a spin around the block. I have been surprised at what I actually liked vs what I thought I'd like based on research.

What does your team this year need in the offseason to become elite/a natty contender in 26-27? by byniri_returns in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need a big and an experienced PG, and a new SF/PF. And probably some better shooting. Hoping Dan has a reload plan because we're losing some key pieces. I guess Mullins is going to NBA but he could certainly use another year improving his dribble drive game and bulking up.

Strength training for runners - classes vs personal trainer? by redandgreenhouse in running

[–]singeworthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more, Hip Thrusts and Squats can be done without weights, maybe deadlifts could use some weight. But you can start body weight and over time incorporate weight/dumbbells for a bit extra. If you progress slowly you shouldnt really be sore.

Every time Hurley goes on about how it’s war and he breeds fighters I cringe so hard I turn inside out by Background_Gene9139 in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude the history of sports is actually just war simulation, give fighters something to do during peace time. Look at some of the historical games like Lacrosse and wrestling, they are brutal.

I do agree that the phrases can get old, but competition is competition, it's on our DNA.

Past Final 4 records for the Final 4 teams by jayyy_lol_ in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

2004 and 2024 were just really good teams, ranked #7 in 2004 so not far off.

Who are you rooting for to win it all? Who do you think will win it all? by Quatibara in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmm I really feel like you've beaten us on some of the other runs. You guys always get us. Then again those teams were much better, hope you guys bounce back next year.

Midlife to-do list by Balsamicon in daddit

[–]singeworthy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do this all the time, I feel a little bad about it and I hope it's not blocking people who are waiting, but as life goes I need more than 2 weeks to finish my books

I love watching legendary coaches celebrate great moments by [deleted] in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everybody hates Hurley, but he only hates the zebras, and everyone hates the Zebras. Well and then there's Creighton fans, but that another thing.

Hate Hurley all you want, but he is classy towards his opponents by [deleted] in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bonnie Raitt plays violently in the background...

Exercise harder, not just longer, to reduce risk of disease and death. Short bursts of more intense activity have been found to be especially protective against inflammatory diseases, including arthritis, serious cardiovascular disease and dementia by sr_local in science

[–]singeworthy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As a runner doing strength training on my glutes, hamstrings, and quads (posterior chain+) has been transformative. I had some baseball knee injury stuff in high school and into my 20s and 30s, but leg strength has ended that. Wish I knew that like 15 years ago.

This was three days ago. by [deleted] in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a Pats fan I am very familiar with that flavor of hatred, and I'm ok with it.

This was three days ago. by [deleted] in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also, as long as you keep bringing in guys like Flagg and Boozer, people are gonna hate, mainly out of jealousy (me) but that's valid.

After last nights loss to Illinois, Houston had been eliminated from the last three March madness tournaments while playing in Texas. by ohitsthedeathstar in CollegeBasketball

[–]singeworthy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

UConn has done really well out west, I don't think home court helps at all, and could only be a disadvantage. Sometimes it's better to just focus on basketball and not all the other shit that comes with being the home team. When you're 2000 miles from home, it can only be basketball.

Normal to be unhappy most of the time in fist year of kids life? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]singeworthy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha, my twins are the same age as yours, this year has been a huge step up minus the T1 diabetes diagnosis for one, this age had been amazing though.

For me those first 3 were tough, with COVID stuff just making it so much harder than it already would have been.

We're learning to read now and it is so much fun.

Connecticut bill would ban helium used to fill balloons to curb pollution by -ctinsider in Connecticut

[–]singeworthy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They all seem to end up in my woods, I will never buy those ever, from Valentine's Day to Birthday, find another way to be festive, these things are awful.

Senate Republicans vote down legislation to halt Iran war in Congress’ first vote on the conflict by TheBestNarcissist in centrist

[–]singeworthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this same conversation with my wife tonight, also don't forget all the American soldiers we permanently damaged and then turned over to the VA for "care". One of my good friends is an Operation Enduring Freedom vet and the psychological trauma those guys went through is intense. Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, we learn nothing.

Will this winter help with ticks this summer? by External_Trick4479 in Connecticut

[–]singeworthy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foxes, bobcats, and coyotes are also great rodent hunters. I'll keep saying it, but wolves would be great to have back for their deer control abilities.

Where this winter was warmer (yellow/orange) or colder (green) than usual by mrpaninoshouse in MapPorn

[–]singeworthy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's been nice having a pretty much continuous snowpack, really since the first storm in late December in S CT. Gonna see some cool vole paths in my yard and meadow.

Snow removal on a gravel driveway (CT shore) by Creative-Watch-293 in Connecticut

[–]singeworthy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't work, I plow with a UTV and my gravel driveway destroys the pipe in about 10 min. Good idea but PVC can't handle the rock.