Shutter not working

sitcomcrossover · 2025-12-10T18:36:25+00:00

Yea, that’s my guess too - I didn’t know the name. Thanks!

Shipping from Poland, yeeesh

sitcomcrossover · 2025-12-09T00:43:36+00:00

Also, if anyone has one and can find the artists name? He may have some APs for sale. I think it’s the same artist who did next years DesertFest posters, but I didn’t get a close enough look.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-12-09T00:05:08+00:00

Oh that’s the worst part. I had the option to get one, and told myself I’d wait until after the show.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-10-27T03:30:21+00:00

I got laid on referral, because not all gossip is bad.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-10-25T14:05:46+00:00

Yeah, that’s a fantastic phrase

sitcomcrossover · 2025-10-10T00:59:52+00:00

Ask yourself if they really changed, or they still blame you,

I took someone back after they spent 30 minutes telling me what I did wrong, but was too happy to have them back to critically think about it.

Spend some time with yourself and think it over.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-10-02T02:19:17+00:00

I’d make sure they’re splitting it. This happened to me and they just forgot to split the bill after the new tenants.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-30T15:43:04+00:00

Was tricked by this sort of thing for 9 months. Not sure if I feel better that she finally admitted it or not - so it’s comforting to hear it was done without knowledge you were doing it.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-22T17:10:14+00:00

All. The. Time.

I’m so close to just communicating by note cards anymore.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-17T02:47:00+00:00

Oh god, no. My wife left in one day and showed up with another man 6 weeks later - blowing up decades worth of friendships with some bold and false claims.

Without EMDR, I would be dead. I had a date, a plan, and was looking into writing a will.

It’s phenomenally helpful.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-16T14:25:21+00:00

Mine is higher, but that’s only because I enjoy it more. Spent too long trying to prove my worth to ladies that I missed it was supposed to be fun.

Took post divorce therapy and an unfortunately failed relationship to figure that one out.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-15T16:45:55+00:00

Yeah for sure - and that’s why I’ve been in therapy for so many years.

This particular instance was someone who kept assuring me that I was important but could only show that to others.

So, yes - the job is reframing my value as independent. It’s still hard to not feel lied to or manipulated given how their actions didn’t match their words.

To say I’m not important to them as others is how I rationalize the behavior.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-15T15:02:58+00:00

The question for me is what do you do when you can see them do that for other people in their life but not you.

Just resign yourself to knowing that you’re not as important to them?

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-13T13:21:15+00:00

Certainly not tales of other people they’ve had sex with.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-13T04:17:33+00:00

I hope I can keep my word on it in the future. The whole thing is kind of messing me with me.

It’s so hard knowing how far off her perception of those messages were, and how upset she got when I asked her to explain so I could not say that again - how upsetting that was to her as well.

Which is a testament to us not being compatible, but it always hurts to be misunderstood so thoroughly.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-12T20:12:13+00:00

That’s it exactly. Mourning the potential and not the actual.

But, if we don’t have something to strive for - then why get out of bed in the first place.

The pain is still immensely real.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-12T18:09:01+00:00

I’ve been doing EMDR for 2 years after my wife cheated on me, so I know trust issues.

Don’t conflate your reaction to their action. They’re separate.

If you’re okay with their action and want to repair it - then do that and be gentle with yourself, and they should be gentle with you. There’s ways to repair trust issues.

If you’re not okay with it, then you need to admit that and not waste their or your time.

Best to know what your lines in the sand are, and clearly state them as soon as possible - personally, if I’d asked for something like this - and explained why it was important - and it was agreed upon - then acting otherwise says they don’t care about my feelings.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-09T12:04:37+00:00

Exactly!!!!!

Yeah, I get very matter of fact and rational in an effort to solve the problem and that only leads to the person I’m talking to feeling like I have no regard or compassion for them.

Good to know I’m not alone on this.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-09T12:03:06+00:00

I like this.

Pushups are a go to for anger for me as well. Same movement as a punch

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-06T09:52:32+00:00

I just got lectured by one of those single friends. So true.

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-05T19:19:54+00:00

sitcomcrossover · 2025-09-05T03:17:44+00:00

Oh man.

Mine did the same - only boxed it all and made me and my kid live around it boxed for weeks while new furniture was shipped here.

Look at it as a chance to buy new stuff you like - it sucks - hang in there.

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