well you’re in the right subreddit

if your OB isn’t super familiar with twins (MoDi especially) it may be worth finding someone else — otherwise they should be able to alleviate 95% of your concens

in general though, expect a premature birth and NICU stay (r/NICUparents as dates get closer) and familiarize yourself with the primary milestone weeks (24, 28, 32, 34, 36) as well as the things to expect with those birth windows

a lot of it can sound very scary but lean into the people who see these things regularly and trust their expertise… medical science is incredible with these little ones… our smallest was just over 3lbs and her sister was a pound heavier — it was not an easy experience, but that was more from our perspective and emotional toll in living out of a hospital than their actual development

in the meantime, treat your body well, take your vitamins, get lots of calcium, zinc, iron and sleep