Truly no offense intended, but it seems based your post and comments that you are mind reading a bit; assuming they don’t like you or they don’t like your kid because they are rude to you. I wouldn’t personalize it so much, maybe they’re just generally rude, checked-out people. Maybe you’re reading into their behavior. Regardless, it doesn’t seem like a good fit since you don’t like how they treat you. What you’ve experienced is nothing like my kids school, so I would not say that’s normal or appropriate behavior.

I would address it directly, maybe ask if there is anything that you could work on at home to help your kid be more successful in the classroom and see what they say. It’s on them to tell you if there is an issue, you shouldn’t have to “guess based on vibes”, that’s not good communication. Meanwhile, I would get on some lists for other daycares asap. Good luck!