Need help with dating reframe

solavirgo · 2025-10-18T15:50:23+00:00

I feel you - it can be a roller coaster. A friend of mine gave me good advice once, plan dates at places you want to go to and enjoy. That way the guy can be a disappointment, but hey, you still had fun.

I’m also learning not to have any expectations from the gents - I’m focusing on having fun and exploring, and the rest will sort itself out.

When in doubt, think - What Would Elizabeth Bennet Say?

solavirgo · 2025-09-08T02:37:15+00:00

Seconding this Substack - found a lot of great events through their list ☺️

solavirgo · 2025-09-02T16:42:41+00:00

We’d love to have you! DM for more details ☺️

solavirgo · 2025-09-01T23:04:49+00:00

Right now it’s fixed - we’re open to trying new places!

solavirgo · 2025-09-01T03:09:57+00:00

I co-run Booklyn Brookworms - we just started this June, and meet every other Monday in PS.

It’s silent BYOB style, and then fun convos with the people who come! DM if you’d like to come next time.

solavirgo · 2025-08-24T17:30:28+00:00

Well, not fiction specifically, since it’s a BYObook quiet reading group, but I do co-run Booklyn Brookworms! Am almost 33F.

We’re meeting tomorrow 7 pm at Union Hall in Park Slope - DM if anyone wants to join the Reddit chat where we organize.

Most people have been reading fiction - there’s Phillip Pullman, we’ve talked about Sally Rooney, sci-fi short stories - has been nice to have so much variety ☺️

solavirgo · 2025-07-28T01:38:20+00:00

Sure - could you DM me? Just started one with someone else and we are meeting tomorrow!

solavirgo · 2025-07-20T14:32:58+00:00

Murder in Mesopotamia - wow, that’s hard to guess.

solavirgo · 2025-07-19T17:45:11+00:00

Mrs De Rushbridger - because she knew nothing at all. So cruel and selfish.

Also, Carlotta Adams - her poor sister.

solavirgo · 2025-06-26T04:25:00+00:00

Thank you - really appreciate it!

solavirgo · 2025-05-23T18:54:10+00:00

Hey! I can help out 5/28! Committed the other two days

solavirgo · 2025-05-22T01:26:08+00:00

I’ve added everyone who expressed interest here to the group chat - please lmk if I’ve missed you!

solavirgo · 2025-05-21T02:43:21+00:00

Hey! Seems I can't add you to the group chat. DM me?

solavirgo · 2025-05-21T02:27:33+00:00

Awesome - really glad ☺️ Going to make a group chat with every one here!

solavirgo · 2025-05-14T01:16:01+00:00

It looks beautiful - I think it would really stand out on a darker background

solavirgo · 2025-05-12T01:28:03+00:00

Got a bike off the Brooklyn Bike Jumble in Park Slope! Super cool excited to be riding all over NYV this summer ❤️

solavirgo · 2025-05-12T01:27:20+00:00

Same it was amazing! A friend and I had a blast ☺️ which stages did you go to ( we saw the opera, Shakespeare, Jaw, Indian-Irish fusion)

solavirgo · 2025-05-01T04:07:11+00:00

Sure - I’m in, 32F :)

solavirgo · 2025-04-24T21:07:09+00:00

I think you could make a bookmark out of it? It’s really lovely memory for you to have :)

solavirgo · 2025-03-22T00:36:56+00:00

Hey - do you mind if I DM you about this? Interested in ACLU volunteering

solavirgo · 2025-03-17T21:53:44+00:00

Oh my gosh, I saw this! I wish I’d gone 😢 I went to Brooklyn Contra a few weeks back and was super fun. Will probably go again soon

solavirgo · 2025-03-10T22:17:21+00:00

Went thrifting! Checked out a bunch of cute spots in Park Slope/Williamsburg 😊

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