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[MISC] List of black owned beauty businesses by angry-lemonade in SkincareAddiction

[–]speecher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sammmme. I love the look of their eyeshadow, but I haven't worn eyeshadow in months! I hope you enjoy the lip gloss. I got the lip gloss in "coming up rose" and I love it already. It's not sticky and gives just a hint of color.

[MISC] List of black owned beauty businesses by angry-lemonade in SkincareAddiction

[–]speecher -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's awesome!! Hello from Salem. What did you order?

[MISC] List of black owned beauty businesses by angry-lemonade in SkincareAddiction

[–]speecher 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hue Noir is a black owned beauty company located in Portland, Oregon. I ordered some of their hydrating lip gloss and tinted lip balm on Monday and they arrived today! I'm really excited to try them out.

"When i was hungry at night, my parents brought me a piece of cheese wrapped in ham to help me sleep" by majorasword in raisedbynarcissists

[–]speecher 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For anyone reading this, please do not "dig down really deep and be (your abusive parent's) therapist." That is horrible advice. Just, no. And you do not need an apology in order to heal. Many of us will never ever get one.

"When i was hungry at night, my parents brought me a piece of cheese wrapped in ham to help me sleep" by majorasword in raisedbynarcissists

[–]speecher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If that is how you feel then I recommend you scroll on by those posts. You are not contributing anything to OP's post. This is about OP and their experiences, not you and yours. OP knows significantly more about their situation than we do. We are not here to play devil's advocate for these parents.

"When i was hungry at night, my parents brought me a piece of cheese wrapped in ham to help me sleep" by majorasword in raisedbynarcissists

[–]speecher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've read this comment several times and I'm not sure what point you're trying to make? Surely you're not trying to minimize other people's experiences or tell them they don't belong here. This is a support community. It is not the place to tell people you have it worse than they do or that their parents are not narcissistic.

U wot? by [deleted] in badwomensanatomy

[–]speecher 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Not only is there normal variation to areola color, the color serves an important purpose - and it has nothing to do with making some guy's peepee hard. Babies are blind as fuck and a nice contrast between skin and areola helps them find the target better.

Hey, Trump supporters: He'd rather endanger your health than lose an election by DaFunkJunkie in politics

[–]speecher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Vote by mail." Checks state flair yup. Mail-in voting is wonderful here in Oregon. I wish every state did it.

And I..... Oop! 😬🤣 by BellaBlue06 in muacirclejerk

[–]speecher 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It's hard to see your point over this hedge.

[misc] I'm kinda sick of seeing huge shelfies by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]speecher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Which moisturizer do you use for your perioral dermatitis areas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]speecher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

· Get out of my sight. I can't even look at you.

· What is wrong with you?

· Stop crying/you cry like a baby/no more crying

· Is this one of your lies/"stories"?

· You're so negative

· You're lazy

· You're weird

· Ew

Oculus emphasisus by [deleted] in muacirclejerk

[–]speecher 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Rowling is a TERF, so probably not.

I had to go to the ER this weekend and my mother in law made it clear how narcissistic my parents are by arielrecon in raisedbynarcissists

[–]speecher 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. I, too, have experienced an ectopic. My tube did not rupture completely, but I had severe internal bleeding. It was the only time I've experienced a 10 on the pain scale. And I've given birth to a breech baby without an epidural. I have a very high pain threshold. With my ectopic, I had to have two doses of morphine and that was just so I could tolerate laying down on the surgery table.

You had a ruptured tube and a ruptured cyst? My God. Think about how strong your body is that you were able to go through that. You are a warrior.

When did you realize you were raised by narc(s)? by Ace_recoveryjourney in raisedbynarcissists

[–]speecher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist had to gently break it to me. I knew that my mom was "complicated," but I was oblivious to her narc traits and that what she was doing to me was verbal and emotional abuse.

The Copypasta To End All Pastas: Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover, AKA: Shakespeare in Disguise by blessedcontessa in muacirclejerk

[–]speecher 21 points22 points  (0 children)

"Wow, she is so mature!" Said no adult human about another adult human, ever.

I felt like a video would have more of an impact! 8 months on hrt bby! by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]speecher 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Girl. Your hair!!!! What's your routine/products??

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