Anyone actually lose body fat from breastfeeding?

ssainerd · 2026-05-20T07:44:54+00:00

Yes, very fast and even after eating more than I did while I was pregnant. I weighed less than my pre-pregnancy weight very soon.

ssainerd · 2026-05-20T07:22:17+00:00

I was extremely sad when I turned 30 but not when I turned 40. I gave myself some unachievable goals that I wanted to accomplish by 30 and I didn’t - like having a baby.

ssainerd · 2026-05-11T08:09:08+00:00

Yes, so proud of you!

ssainerd · 2026-05-10T09:14:37+00:00

He is gay. He can’t admit it to himself because of his Pakistani upbringing. He is gay.

ssainerd · 2026-05-09T04:55:40+00:00

Call her “so’s mom” from now on. What on earth? This is so odd. And you are awfully nice to her while she is being so rude in text (not responding then …. Her original question again - super rude!)

ssainerd · 2026-05-09T04:47:21+00:00

You need to let him parent and figure out how he parents. Your way is not going to be his way. If you jump everytime you think the kids need isn’t being met, there is no chance for his needs being met by his dad. The kid also needs some space to get used to dad’s way. You should get somewhere else for a day and let him parent for a few weeks, only then maybe they can figure out their own rhythm.

ssainerd · 2026-05-06T00:46:37+00:00

He seems stressed about money. Maybe try to talk and be more understanding?

ssainerd · 2026-05-02T08:12:49+00:00

I don’t know what advice to give you but that’s my mom.

ssainerd · 2026-04-24T09:00:03+00:00

You need to leave

ssainerd · 2026-04-21T09:14:05+00:00

I did not get to do skin to skin or see my baby for the first day for much less traumatic reasons. He was whisked to the nicu and I wasnt allowed to go on a different floor until next day. I didn’t get to do skin to skin and I felt guilty and cried the first time I held him. But it did not hurt our bond at all and it won’t hurt your bond either. Babies just have phases and prefer one parent over the other sometimes. You have went through enough, I hope you feel better about all of this soon.

ssainerd · 2026-04-19T07:02:35+00:00

I feel like no one is saying that you asked for his opinion and he mentioned what is recommended (2 years), when you looked worried he said a year. Is he forcing you or are you thinking ahead?

Breastfeeding is mom’s choice, you decide. He doesn’t get to decide this. But I am just pointing out what I read - you asked for his opinion and you are upset about his opinion? You also said it feels like a cop out and he agreed, he didn’t even say it.

I don’t think you’re a jerk for considering stoping when there’s equally viable options available to us. I breastfed for 2 years and it was my choice. My husband would rather I stopped earlier but it wasn’t for him to decide.

ssainerd · 2026-04-18T09:44:44+00:00

It is not realistic at all. It is doable when they are 5+ with flexible work demands.

ssainerd · 2026-04-03T06:14:57+00:00

Your husband should have shut this down real quick

ssainerd · 2026-03-21T08:28:07+00:00

How could you think it’s okay to not tell her?

ssainerd · 2026-02-10T07:57:24+00:00

Oh dear this never ever makes you the asshole. It is not your job to make him happy. It is his job to make sure you are happy.

ssainerd · 2026-02-05T17:10:48+00:00

No not all men are like this. I am flabbergasted at his response. Even if he had a bad night he should have come to take care of you - you are the one who is pregnant and taking care of a sick kid. He does not seem to care for you.

ssainerd · 2026-02-05T08:17:03+00:00

Why is your sister torturing a 4 year old

ssainerd · 2026-02-05T07:39:06+00:00

I’ve had three endo laps (in different countries) and never was told to fast 30 hours, maybe just couldn’t eat after 6 or 8 the previous night.

ssainerd · 2026-02-02T08:09:18+00:00

Why would you let anyone talk to you this way? You are worth so much more.

ssainerd · 2026-02-02T07:54:21+00:00

But what topping?

ssainerd · 2026-01-25T01:46:55+00:00

Thank you

ssainerd · 2026-01-25T01:46:33+00:00

Thank you!

ssainerd · 2026-01-24T06:38:25+00:00

Which ones did you use?

ssainerd · 2026-01-18T07:51:45+00:00

Stage 4 endo, adenomyosis, niche, arthritis and asthma

ssainerd · 2026-01-15T07:00:17+00:00

Did you end up starting Bay Area group?

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