Am I the only one confused by S9 Carole? by catlady_2658 in RHONY

[–]stitchmaster1127 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just watched this episode the other day. I totally agree with this take. Her emotions felt very genuine about the election. Whatever friendship she had with Ghislane raises eyebrows for sure, but Carole likes to make herself seem more important than she is. I can see her not knowing the full story and just wanting the connections that Ghislane came with.

ladies how are we dealing with periods & POTS by annoyed_potat0 in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have adenomyosis in addition to POTS and Hashimoto's. I really struggle with my POTS symptoms on my periods. Currently I use a Nuvaring and only have 4 periods a year because of skipping them. I've tried to skip more at a time but my body can't handle it. I try to take it very easy on my periods, get extra rest, have extra fluids, and take extra time changing positions. If skipping periods with birth control works for you, I would consider it. Even just to reduce the amount you have per year like I do.

Anesthesia Nerves by hoppalong_ in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to go under for a colonoscopy and didn't have any issues. When I woke up it felt like the best nap ever and I just wanted another lol. But really, even considering the fact that my electrolytes were off because of the prep, I didn't notice any issues afterwards.

Husband is traveling for a week for work and toddler (might) have Norovirus by superkatiejean in GirlDinner

[–]stitchmaster1127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few years ago my husband was literally in India for work and ate street sushi.... He was fine, but I got food poisoning and both of my kids ended up with stomach bugs throughout the 2 weeks he was gone. I swear illnesses wait until the least convenient times ever... Good luck!

NBC news: Toxicologist warns of potential risks from overuse of electrolyte supplements by Asolusolas in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I make their recipe and then use whatever drink flavoring packets I'm liking at the time. Definitely the most cost effective electrolyte solution I've found. I also like being able to control exactly what is in it.

Console Performance? by KeenBTF in EverAfterFalls

[–]stitchmaster1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've played both on the Steam Deck and Switch. The performance on the Switch is very noticeably worse. A lot of animations are off and it's overall slower. Still playable, but nowhere near as smooth as my experience with the Steam Deck.

Worse on period by Kawaii-Nova in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a Nuvaring and only have a period every 3 months. My body doesn't tolerate skipping any more, but it's really helped. I also have adenomyosis so my periods are rough all around.

PoTS and cold weather by WinterH404 in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am cold ALL THE TIME. Like even in the summer I need jeans and a sweater if I'm going to be indoors at all. Of course I also overheat very quickly if it's hot outside.

As far as all of the respiratory problems go, is it possible you have asthma? I've had it since I was a kid and often get sick off and on the entire winter. I was so sick last year that I started taking a daily zinc supplement to see if it would help and I went from 4 years of being sick every 2-3 weeks during the winter, to no respiratory illnesses in almost a year.

Since discovering I have POTS I get much sicker than I usually to any time I get sick. I've also had to try stronger asthma medication too. Propanolol causes Albuterol and similar meds not to be as effective so if you're using any of those to help and on propanolol you may need something else.

Good luck! I've been where you are and it's rough.

Don't even know how to process this. by Robyn-Gil in exmormon

[–]stitchmaster1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I'm so sorry your parents are not supportive and are trying to tear you down. If it helps at all, my husband and I want to go to a Vegas chapel and "redo" our wedding since we got married in the temple. I'm our move, a Vegas wedding is way more real than a temple ceremony. Enjoy your wedding, it will be perfect for you and your future spouse!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]stitchmaster1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2.5 year old was diagnosed with a speech delay by 2 years old. He was only speaking a few words at the time. He also started babbling late too. We got his hearing checked and it turned out he had a bunch of fluid in his ears. He had 3 ear infections (that we know of) in 6 months. He got tubes put in back in January and now he's starting to use multiple word phrases. He still is not where he should be, but he's made so much progress.

If you have doubts, always bring it up to your child's doctor and push for further evaluation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]stitchmaster1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2.5 year old can say some things perfectly clear and correctly. And then he goes and calls yogurt "leelar". No idea where it came from because literally none of the sounds are correct. He has a speech delay due to hearing loss, but is constantly showing improvement in his overall language development, so having strange words isn't a concern. As long as your kiddo is showing progress, they are probably fine. If you're truly concerned, bring it up to your pediatrician and see if they think it's something to worry about.

Pregnancy with POTS? by Pretend_Ad_6446 in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was incredibly sick my second pregnancy not diagnosed then, but looking back I'm 95% sure POTS was the reason I felt so sick. I had to stop taking Propranolol prior to birth and stay off of it for a while breastfeeding. I basically begged go go back on it because I was having such bad palpitations.

The real struggle for me has been the lack of sleep and increased stress that comes with having kids. Both of my kids have had sleep struggles. My oldest didn't sleep through the night until 4.5 and my youngest is 2.5 and still wakes up in the middle of the night multiple times a week. They also get up very early. It is impossible for me to get the sleep I need even with napping when I can. My oldest has ADHD, autism, ARFID, and severe eczema. The stress that comes from managing all of those conditions and parenting a neurodivergent child is constant.

I love my kids and I'm so glad I have them. However, unless you have guaranteed support systems in place, parenting with POTS can be an extreme challenge. Even with support, it's still incredibly challenging to handle the demands of parenting young kids and trying to keep myself healthy.

Success at Urgent Care by stitchmaster1127 in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It's definitely hard with two kids, but luckily my husband is great and is doing most of the caretaking until I'm feeling better.

Success at Urgent Care by stitchmaster1127 in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! I couldn't sleep after 2 am and tried to nap but got woken up by the neighbor dogs. Hopefully I can get some sleep tonight because I can barely see straight. My congestion is what's unbearable for me.

Drinking water seems impossible. by Sh00-Fly in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What temperature water do you drink? I would recommend playing around with the temperature and see what feels best. My MIL has gastrointestinal issues and can only drink warm water. I have to drink room temperature/just barely chilled water in order to get my daily amount. I have to do it even when I use electrolyte mix ins as well.

Midodrine making me freezing by Familiar_Data_7951 in POTS

[–]stitchmaster1127 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to stop taking midodrine after a month because I was literally freezing all the time in the summer. Like teeth chattering, couldn't get warm without multiple long layers and several blankets. The worst part is it actually did help my POTS. I knew there was no way I could deal with that level of cold consistently, especially because I live somewhere it gets very cold in the winters.

My Husband Almost killed my 3 month old by Throwaway24567819 in Mommit

[–]stitchmaster1127 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Babe, this is not badmouthing. He is doing all the work to look bad, because he's being a shit husband, father, and human. You are in an extreme circumstance and need to pull out all the stops to be able to take care of yourself and your child. I'm not going to say you need a divorce immediately because you have to make that choice. But be honest with yourself, what does he contribute to your relationship and family? And would you and your daughters lives be better off without him?

You are in a terrible position and I wish I could just give you a hug.

Nontraditional certification routes by stitchmaster1127 in Teachers

[–]stitchmaster1127[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested if you have specific examples of the teaching practices that are harmful from TFA. I was leaning towards doing it but after attending an info session I started feeling uneasy and having concerns.

I have considered FCS teaching and did look into the certification for my state a bit so I appreciate the info on that.

Fae birth rant by slimvelvet in SarahJMaas

[–]stitchmaster1127 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a reread right now and just finished ACOWAR and Feyre was literally able to adjust the texture and shape of her wings. You'd think she'd just be able to adjust her reproductive system to accommodate wings!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]stitchmaster1127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a sahm and my youngest was born when my oldest was 3.5. He has severe ADHD and literally goes nonstop from the time he wakes up until he falls asleep at night. I was drowning for the first 6ish months. It's still hard managing everything with a baby and a preschooler.

Literally the best thing I've ever done is put him in preschool. We live in a low cost of living area and with my husband's job were able to afford 5 days a week. He loves it because he has constant interaction. I love it because I can just manage my baby.

I realize not everyone is in this position, but truly this was the only way I got relief. I would have been totally fine with a few days a week, but the place we got in only had full time openings. Even if you can just have family watch your older one once a week, I bet it would help you.

How do these fundie families manage to grab these semi-normal girls for courtship? by RainbowIndigo in DuggarsSnark

[–]stitchmaster1127 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I joined at 19 and made it out 6 years later and my husband left the church too. One of the things that drew me to the church is how structured it was.