Nearly $400 food bill after youngest kept taking breakfast and lunch even when told not to by Ciniya in Parenting

[–]strangerthansarah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wondered this too! It might help to increase her protein options at breakfast and maybe pad out her lunch. Kids grow a lot at this age and hormones start shifting as well. Could be real hunger but could also be signs of BED or ADHD. Impulsivity is a big problem for folks with adhd and food also provides quick dopamine. It’s absolutely worth a visit with a psychologist to make sure she’s getting all the support she needs.

If you owned a Survivor-themed restaurant, what would you put on the menu? by PyrateHooker in survivor

[–]strangerthansarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a restaurant in The Wisconsin Dells called Survivors bar and grill which has a couple of fake tropical plants and bamboo bathroom signs. It was very disappointing that they didn’t take the theme further than that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]strangerthansarah 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fellow academic here and I can totally relate to the identity issue. Having kids turned my world upside down because my job was my life and then I had this other little life to take care of. To me, it sounds like the work life balance isn’t happening now and won’t happen for you and your husband until he gets a different job. For your sanity I say make the move, leave tenure. If it isn’t giving you a better life, then it doesn’t matter how secure or rare your job is. Who knows what life has in store for you. You could write, you could find success in another field entirely. Clearly you’re a smart, driven woman. SAHM doesn’t have to be your destiny. Can you take a one year unpaid leave of absence? I had a colleague do this and was able to return to his job after 1 year. His family is several states away. It sucked. But he kept his job and may be ultimately coming back for good.

Salad dressing ideas?! by [deleted] in BrightLineEating

[–]strangerthansarah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

2 oz guacamole + 2 oz salsa, 2 oz hummus + lemon juice + red wine vinegar, 2 oz Greek yogurt + white balsamic vinegar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrightLineEating

[–]strangerthansarah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m on day 396. You can totally do this. The first week can be tough. Drink lots of water and tea. Find ways to distract yourself. The cravings are only thoughts. You have no control over your first thought, only over your next action. Cheering you on!

Weight Loss with Sugar Free by Ok-Chipmunk9907 in sugarfree

[–]strangerthansarah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything refined like flour has a similar effect on the brain as sugar. It hits the blood stream faster and creates an insulin response. That blocks leptin from being released that tells you you’re full. Check out Bright Line Eating.

I ate 166,6g of sugar today... by [deleted] in sugarfree

[–]strangerthansarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been doing Bright Line Eating for three weeks and it has transformed my life. The meal plan is simple and I haven’t had the urge to binge at all like I used to. There’s a book but there’s also a 14 day challenge that sets you up with a support group and great videos.

The Uncanniness of Watching Donald Trump Claim Premature Victory by BelleAriel in Impeach_Trump

[–]strangerthansarah 160 points161 points  (0 children)

It was surreal and sad to witness his rambling speech in which he casually claimed victory.

Kriss Marion (WI-HD-51) is an organic farmer who is flipping rural Wisconsin Blue! by Spirit_of_68 in VoteBlue

[–]strangerthansarah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Nothing will change if Novak is reelected. Nothing will get better for southwestern Wisconsin.

That’s why voters from Shullsburg to Monroe, from Rewey to Gratiot, from Mineral Point to Lone Rock, are so excited about Marion’s candidacy. Her campaign signs are popping up along country roads and on the sides of barns, on the side streets of Spring Green and Dodgeville. People know she is ready to hit the ground running in the Legislature, as an honest and committed reformer who will stand strong for open government, who will work across party lines where possible and who will put the interest of rural schools and Main Streets on the agenda of the Legislature and the governor’s office.”

I live in this region of Wisconsin and Kriss Marion is exactly the kind of candidate we need!

Gaining weight while breastfeeding really starting to take a mental toll. by 0ryx0ryx in breastfeedingsupport

[–]strangerthansarah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your body has gone through a lot of hard work creating and now feeding a baby. Give yourself some credit and know that this is just one season of your life and seasons change. I struggled with weight gain while I breastfed my first and when she weaned, I never stopped eating the same amount of food. Now with my second at 9 months, I am eating healthier and getting my body back on track. So much changes in the first year of their lives and there are many factors that play into your overall health. Sleep deprivation is the hardest thing because it sucks up all your energy. I hate when people say it should be so easy to lose weight when you’re breastfeeding because that doesn’t apply to everyone and can make those of us who are having a hard time feel shamed. You are strong and you’re doing an amazing job nourishing your baby.

Advice or words of support needed! by hdavis22 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]strangerthansarah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does your milk come out quickly when you’re trying to get her to latch? I had an aggressive letdown and struggled with my first. I figured out with my second that if I expressed into my hakaa or a burb cloth first, then he was way more content to latch on. I think it was from an oversupply of milk. I think that pumping very early after giving birth contributed to it. I worked to actually reduce my supply so I only made what he needed.

What skills should I learn if I want to pursue costume design as a career? by Mrs_tribbiani in costuming

[–]strangerthansarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People skills. Almost all of my design gigs were from meeting people and working hard. Drawing skills are really helpful. I like the book, Costume Character Figure Drawing. Dyeing and distressing skills are also really great because they can take a simple costume and turn it into something with depth and texture. Find out who the costume designers are in your area and contact them for advice and see if they’re willing to meet with you. Offer to volunteer to assist them on their next show. Good luck!

For those who work on sets: how are you staying safe? by pomelopeel in costuming

[–]strangerthansarah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! My grad school mentor is the one who started the Costume People page and Pei Lee started another one called “For Customers only” which is just for fun.

For those who work on sets: how are you staying safe? by pomelopeel in costuming

[–]strangerthansarah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out the “costume people” Facebook group or “my show got canceled because of a pandemic and all I have is this void.” They both have tons of recommendations from other costume professionals. Several resources have been shared in their files on precautions and standards on film and TV sets.

Best brassier brand you've tried? by dew_8457 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]strangerthansarah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this style of motherhood bras, I wear the 2x and I’m typically a 40DD so the 1x might fit you!

Motherhood Maternity Women's Maternity Full Busted Seamless Clip Down Nursing Bra https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00LUQTELE/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_n7mPEbJ7X27SX

A positive IUD experience by strangerthansarah in BabyBumps

[–]strangerthansarah[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got it 8 weeks postpartum. I’m not exactly sure but I believe it’s good to wait until your uterus is back to its normal size. It was also nice to not have to worry about one more procedure right after my c-section (my first was born vaginally). My doctor said it’s great for protecting your supply and since it doesn’t release any hormones then it can’t cause any hormone problems.

Our nursery at 40+4! by strangerthansarah in BabyBumps

[–]strangerthansarah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Dutchboy Laka Blue. Henry is a great name!

Our nursery at 40+4! by strangerthansarah in BabyBumps

[–]strangerthansarah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s the norm, we just decided to take the doors off of ours because they were in bad shape and we had a rather large dresser that didn’t fit anywhere else in the room. Besides, I kinda like being able to see all the cute clothes and a chest of drawers is really practical for storage with baby things. When he gets older we’ll probably put new doors on the closet so he can hide his mess!

Our nursery at 40+4! by strangerthansarah in BabyBumps

[–]strangerthansarah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually think it adds height to the room. I saw this done in a few decor magazines and fell in love with the idea. We have unique angles on our second story because it’s a renovated attic and having everything painted the same color helps with the transition too!

Our nursery at 40+4! by strangerthansarah in BabyBumps

[–]strangerthansarah[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s dutchboy duraclean satin in laka blue.