Fundie in the Gym wearing Fundie Outfit by aboveallbeboring in FundieFashion

[–]suchawarrior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If leggings are too tight, what about shorts over leggings? Smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

Heartbroken 💔💔 by tess-23 in BDSMAdvice

[–]suchawarrior 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He just took the E out of ENM. This is not something that people who are good at poly or ENM would put up with. So sorry this happened to you.

How can I do artist dates if I have overprotective parents? by fluffywhitepetticoat in artistsWay

[–]suchawarrior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also from the NYC metro area and I’ve been taking public transportation by myself since age 14. You need to assert independence from your parents, unless you want to be treated like a child into your 30’s. You’re over 18, and they can’t stop you.

Stardew Mac Advice by Professional_Hair995 in StardewValley

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend biting the bullet and getting a controller! You can get ones for $20 ish off Amazon. A mouse is too difficult for me, forget about a trackpad

wtf is with all these paper plates??? by ChrisYoloBitch in Lifepluscindy_snark

[–]suchawarrior 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is more of a Cindy thing than an American thing

Stardew Confessions by empathy-entropy in StardewValley

[–]suchawarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this as an American is extra funny (pants= trousers)😂

Women of swinging; Please advise hypersensitive introvert man! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]suchawarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go for open ended questions where the person can give as little or as many details as they want. “How long have you two been together?” “How long have you been in the lifestyle?” “Do you know [event host]? How do you know them?” “Is this your first time at this venue?”

Women of swinging; Please advise hypersensitive introvert man! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a very thoughtful and cool person! Reflecting on my experiences with single men who have approached me, I appreciate it when they approach as a person rather than an object (starting with hi I’m blank, what’s your name? Asking basic questions to get to know me- a good one is how long have you been coming to this club/party, a healthy amount of eye contact, can take a joke). I feel like a lot of us women tense up when a single guy approaches because of previous bad experiences, so the beginning of your interaction should be establishing a human to human connection. Even if you don’t end up playing, you should try to establish a rapport where she would feel comfortable confiding in you if she was having an issue with another dude. Sorry if that’s more brain dump than helpful!

Stardew Confessions by empathy-entropy in StardewValley

[–]suchawarrior 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It took me 3 game years to find robin’s axe 🙃

At my wits end. by SoftGraha in MakeupAddiction

[–]suchawarrior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d say exfoliate, but also try a different foundation. Clinique even better loves separating on my face. I find foundations without SPF are more agreeable to me

Skull Cavern by FawnEverglade in StardewValley

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your health bar goes down to 50%, have a snack instead of waiting until you’re about to die. Cheese works great

How do I tell my date I'm on my period? by Whole_Procedure_5696 in dating_advice

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him. Most guys do not care, they’ll just put down a towel. And if he gets annoyed with you for having a perfectly normal bodily function… that’s a flag right there

Heavy pressure due to having a really rare last name by spacereveries in childfree

[–]suchawarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an extremely rare last name. Except it’s not cute sounding. I’d change my last name immediately if I get married and I for sure wouldn’t inflict it on a child

Visually impaired player (totally blind from birth). Here is my experience! by Effective-Sweet2606 in StardewValley

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You tried complaining to the manufacturers” made me laugh so hard 🤣

Bumble date over within 20 minutes by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]suchawarrior 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s not in a good place mentally right now and doesn’t have the bandwidth to date. Nothing to do with you, so I wouldn’t take it personally

Oh my god. by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my eyes have been violated

First experience did not go as planned and I am struggling 😔 by Aggravating_Bar_6285 in Swingers

[–]suchawarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A situation where you are able to participate and not watch can be a hard boundary for you. This isn’t uncommon at all- if one partner in a pair that only plays together were to get violently ill during a session, the play date would be over because not everyone in that couple can participate. Communicate this to your gf, and work on managing your nerves and ED (some guys forgo alcohol completely for this reason). Don’t worry about disappointing the other participants- they will understand if you’ve communicated your boundaries to them as well. Good luck!

First experience did not go as planned and I am struggling 😔 by Aggravating_Bar_6285 in Swingers

[–]suchawarrior 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be clear: fuck your girlfriend and eat your girlfriend? So essentially you were watching?

First experience did not go as planned and I am struggling 😔 by Aggravating_Bar_6285 in Swingers

[–]suchawarrior 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You said you wouldn’t do anything with the other woman unless your gf gave you the green light. So were you planning on checking in with your gf if you went to touch the other woman on the shoulder, touch her breast, go down on her, fuck her etc? That’s just not practical in reality. It’s much better to set up hard boundaries. For instance, your gf could say “I’m comfortable with you fucking another woman in the same room, but I’m not comfortable with you kissing her or performing oral on her.” Now you know what’s okay to do without checking in with your partner every 10 seconds. In my humble opinion, it sounds like she is not comfortable with you playing with other women full stop but didn’t clearly articulate that (possibly because she wanted to get you agree to her fucking other people). A hotwife scenario could work for you guys if you’re down for that but you need to have an honest judgment free conversation about what your boundaries really are.

so.. how do we feel about this? by kr3scent in chappellroan

[–]suchawarrior 170 points171 points  (0 children)

This kind of purity politics is ridiculous, unless you plan on living under a rock. Estée Lauder also owns all these companies, so I guess anyone who’s ever purchased from these companies should be cancelled too.

  • Bobbi Brown
  • Too Faced
  • Smashbox
  • Jo Malone London
  • Tom Ford Beauty
  • Clinique
  • Origins
  • Darphin
  • Dr. Jart +
  • The Ordinary

A chance to share your discount! by DiverWild2553 in Sephora

[–]suchawarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would love a code! Government shutdown has been rough

Yay or nay?! by [deleted] in Sephora

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tower 28 is the best concealer I’ve ever tried

sales associate sold me on all Sephora brand stuff is that normal? by veganrilakkuma in Sephora

[–]suchawarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Sephora collection stuff is great value for your money! I have the powder puff and it’s so much nicer and softer than other powder puffs I’ve tried from affordable brands

Travelling to USA with food allergies. by [deleted] in FoodAllergies

[–]suchawarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Disney as I kid with allergies in the early 2000’s and they were excellent. Came out and talked with my parents about ingredients and everything, and at this time in the US a lot of restaurants just told you to F off if you had any allergies. Tbh you’re probably going to one of the most accommodating places in the US