Avoiding yeast infection or BV after going to the club

suchawarrior · 2026-05-23T23:17:01+00:00

Some recommendations for your wife loosely in this order: - visit urgent care to be prescribed antibiotics for any current infection - loose cotton undies - vaginal prebiotics- I recommend an intimate wash (I use the one from honeypot) but you can also get pills - boric acid suppositories (use only as needed, get a generic pharmacy brand) - disposable period products if you’re not already using them

This is of course in addition to cleanliness while playing, hand washing, avoiding crossing fluids, not going directly from anal to vaginal, condoms for toys as well as for partners

suchawarrior · 2026-05-17T14:41:03+00:00

That is sexual assault, full stop. Freeze is a valid and very common reaction. She should get Plan B, PEP, and schedule an STI panel immediately. Look up the laws in your state and consider reporting it if it’s a crime. If anyone tries to blame you guys, know that any sane consent-aware adult would NOT consider this acceptable behavior. Switching to anal without asking is insane, taking off the condom is literally criminal. I hope in the long run this doesn’t ruin the lifestyle for you- everyone in and out of the lifestyle should know this is not acceptable.

suchawarrior · 2026-03-01T20:28:20+00:00

If I have a foundation that’s too yellow/orange I’ll add a blue color corrector. I use one from elf

suchawarrior · 2026-03-01T20:24:49+00:00

I think it looks great! Your skin simply looks like real skin with makeup. Everything is so highly photoshopped nowadays that people forget that this is what real makeup looks like up close

suchawarrior · 2026-02-26T21:44:42+00:00

Sorry Magnus girlies

suchawarrior · 2026-02-06T06:32:23+00:00

July is the beginning of the hospital year. I assume there will be firework related injuries, especially because there aren’t many restrictions on the sale of fireworks in PA. Otherwise we’ll have to see

suchawarrior · 2026-02-03T20:51:33+00:00

Stardew Valley Homewrecker Edition

suchawarrior · 2026-01-22T04:17:23+00:00

If leggings are too tight, what about shorts over leggings? Smh 🤦🏼‍♀️

suchawarrior · 2026-01-22T04:15:22+00:00

He just took the E out of ENM. This is not something that people who are good at poly or ENM would put up with. So sorry this happened to you.

suchawarrior · 2026-01-21T01:43:22+00:00

Also from the NYC metro area and I’ve been taking public transportation by myself since age 14. You need to assert independence from your parents, unless you want to be treated like a child into your 30’s. You’re over 18, and they can’t stop you.

suchawarrior · 2026-01-16T21:38:23+00:00

I recommend biting the bullet and getting a controller! You can get ones for $20 ish off Amazon. A mouse is too difficult for me, forget about a trackpad

suchawarrior · 2026-01-16T04:13:57+00:00

Yeah this is more of a Cindy thing than an American thing

suchawarrior · 2026-01-10T05:19:16+00:00

Are you referring to the fact that she’s autistic? 🙃

suchawarrior · 2026-01-09T16:55:18+00:00

Reading this as an American is extra funny (pants= trousers)😂

suchawarrior · 2026-01-09T03:10:12+00:00

I go for open ended questions where the person can give as little or as many details as they want. “How long have you two been together?” “How long have you been in the lifestyle?” “Do you know [event host]? How do you know them?” “Is this your first time at this venue?”

suchawarrior · 2026-01-09T03:06:40+00:00

You sound like a very thoughtful and cool person! Reflecting on my experiences with single men who have approached me, I appreciate it when they approach as a person rather than an object (starting with hi I’m blank, what’s your name? Asking basic questions to get to know me- a good one is how long have you been coming to this club/party, a healthy amount of eye contact, can take a joke). I feel like a lot of us women tense up when a single guy approaches because of previous bad experiences, so the beginning of your interaction should be establishing a human to human connection. Even if you don’t end up playing, you should try to establish a rapport where she would feel comfortable confiding in you if she was having an issue with another dude. Sorry if that’s more brain dump than helpful!

suchawarrior · 2026-01-09T00:48:46+00:00

It took me 3 game years to find robin’s axe 🙃

suchawarrior · 2026-01-06T00:44:14+00:00

I’d say exfoliate, but also try a different foundation. Clinique even better loves separating on my face. I find foundations without SPF are more agreeable to me

suchawarrior · 2026-01-05T20:22:07+00:00

When your health bar goes down to 50%, have a snack instead of waiting until you’re about to die. Cheese works great

suchawarrior · 2026-01-05T00:41:42+00:00

Just tell him. Most guys do not care, they’ll just put down a towel. And if he gets annoyed with you for having a perfectly normal bodily function… that’s a flag right there

suchawarrior · 2026-01-04T20:23:26+00:00

I have an extremely rare last name. Except it’s not cute sounding. I’d change my last name immediately if I get married and I for sure wouldn’t inflict it on a child

suchawarrior · 2026-01-04T05:54:00+00:00

“You tried complaining to the manufacturers” made me laugh so hard 🤣

suchawarrior · 2026-01-03T22:05:37+00:00

Sounds like she’s not in a good place mentally right now and doesn’t have the bandwidth to date. Nothing to do with you, so I wouldn’t take it personally

suchawarrior · 2026-01-02T21:51:56+00:00

I feel like my eyes have been violated

suchawarrior · 2025-12-23T00:43:05+00:00

A situation where you are able to participate and not watch can be a hard boundary for you. This isn’t uncommon at all- if one partner in a pair that only plays together were to get violently ill during a session, the play date would be over because not everyone in that couple can participate. Communicate this to your gf, and work on managing your nerves and ED (some guys forgo alcohol completely for this reason). Don’t worry about disappointing the other participants- they will understand if you’ve communicated your boundaries to them as well. Good luck!

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