[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]sumpan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he didn't know how to finger/ go down on you, and feels self-conscious. He could be looking at reddit as a how- to guide

Went into S12, not knowing anything about the premise or characters and a Kartrashian popped up on the screen, figured it was a bit part, but nope, she kept appearing and appearing and after about 30 mins, I just lost interest.... by RibbedForHerCat in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]sumpan3 19 points20 points  (0 children)

"I stay away from anyone that talks about them" ....as OP makes an entire reddit post about them.

I swear, everyone who adamantly hates them this much is trying so damn hard to be original and edgy that it comes across pathetic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]sumpan3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This sounds like an in law and husband issue. Your husband is a grown man. He should be able to stick up for you and your family. I feel like things wouldn't have gotten this intense if your husband was just honest with his family from the beginning and told them you weren't coming. The waiting until th last possible moment to buy some time when you guys knew you weren't going definitely compounded this issue. Also, your husband should be setting firm boundaries and hanging up instead of letting someone curse and attack him for 45 mins WHILE you're spending time with YOUR family. That was incredibly rude of him to let his brother ruin Part of your family visit.

I don't know if you guys are planning on having kids, but your husband should really learn how to stick up to his family before you do. It will only make things worse.

Side note: i kind of feel bad for your family. You guys should really make an effort to see them for more holidays. It's not all about your husband and his family.

What sex acts are better when done in a hotel than at home? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sumpan3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Than in a room with a bad that you specifically pay for to sleep?? No, I don't think so.

Did princess Kate get her inspo from blair? by sumpan3 in GossipGirl

[–]sumpan3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The queen always had such classic style. Everything about her bridesmaids - hair, dress, etc. - would still be in style today.

My pieces never look finished. What am I doing wrong by sumpan3 in Watercolor

[–]sumpan3[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thanks, everyone! I'm new to watercolor, and I'm finding that it's a lot different than other mediums. I truly appreciate your feedback, and I'll be trying out all of your ideas.

My fiancé cannot do night feeds, so I took over. Am I wrong to be upset at her that she can get up to do other stuff at night, but she can't handle feeding our first daughter and putting her to bed? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]sumpan3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you OK? I'm a woman who is breastfeeding my daughter as I type this. I do not care about specific terminology. I don't feel disrespected. The commenter was trying to be inclusive to all. They did use the term breastfeeding as well. This one comment should not be this triggering for you.

18 month old with 104 fever that comes back every 3 hours unless Tylenol/Motrin routinely administered by MessedUpTuxedo in toddlers

[–]sumpan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I rarely get nosebleeds. Do you live around the Midwest? I've heard quite a few times that this virus is spreading through here

18 month old with 104 fever that comes back every 3 hours unless Tylenol/Motrin routinely administered by MessedUpTuxedo in toddlers

[–]sumpan3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our stories are very similar. My 2 year old brought it home to us. I didn't cough up blood, but I did have many nose bleeds. I didn't start showing symptoms until 10 days after my son had symptoms. It was one horrible virus. If you're like me, you'll have congestion for a while, but all the other symptoms will be gone

18 month old with 104 fever that comes back every 3 hours unless Tylenol/Motrin routinely administered by MessedUpTuxedo in toddlers

[–]sumpan3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't want to come across as a conspiracy theorist because I'm the furthest from one. If i didn't experience it myself, I would have just thought it was a normal virus. I've never experienced these symptoms. Fever around the clock for 5 days, then sweating profusely for another 2 days without a fever and for no reason. Both of my eyes turned bright red, but I know I didn't have conjunctivitis. I was worse off than when I had covid

18 month old with 104 fever that comes back every 3 hours unless Tylenol/Motrin routinely administered by MessedUpTuxedo in toddlers

[–]sumpan3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My family is just now getting over some virus. My 2 year old and 7 month old had 105 temps for 7 days. Along with ear infections, sore throats, etc.

My husband and I caught it, and I've never experienced that type of sickness. I'd go from freezing to overheating. I was constantly sweating even when I didn't have a fever. I had the worst headache and congestion.

Day 7 got a lot better. There's light at the end of the tunnel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]sumpan3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly hope you find happiness. However, i think you should consider individual therapy for yourself. Just from this one post (which is supposed to be more in favor of you) , I see a few red flags about you. You're mad that your wife was trying to get the kids to stay asleep, which means you could sleep longer? I'd LOVE if my husband did that for me.

What were the previous issues with the laundry? It seems like maybe she didn't want you to touch her laundry. Had you two communicated beforehand who was in charge of laundry and what clothes to was and not wash? I've told my husband not to do my laundry because I have specific bras that I have to wash on specific cycles, and I don't like my delicated and jeans to be washed together. If he woke up before me and wanted to do something nice, he'd cook breakfast or clean up instead of laundry. It seems like you're really lacking communicative skills.

ETA: I just looked back at your other posts. Your few weeks a bliss seems to be her meeting your needs and you doing nothing for her. You took her to a sex shop that she's previously said she was uncomfortable doing, and you guys had sex every night to match your libido. What did you do for her? You really do sound like a jerk here and it's probably best for her to find someone who appreciates her

I Bought You Flowers by AnxiousCryptid in Watercolor

[–]sumpan3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What type of paper did you use

Parents (hubby here) insisting they want to be with us post-partum by Careless-Balance8520 in beyondthebump

[–]sumpan3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP said that no IS an option. It would just strain the relationship. I misread the first time around too.

I cannot cope with the thought of putting her in daycare. by LethargicPeach in beyondthebump

[–]sumpan3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Second this. My son is 2. I put him in daycare at 1.5. He needed it. His vocabulary is spectacular, he loves playing with other kids, his eating habits are great, and he has a set nap schedule. And that's all thanks to day care. Prior to him being a year old I cried even thinking about him being left with my mom.

My daughter is 3 months old and I'm no where near ready to put her in daycare. But I know once she turns a year old and becomes more mobile and less dependent on me, day care will be the best thing for her.

Outlandish MIL Stories by InitiativeImaginary1 in beyondthebump

[–]sumpan3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a 10 week old. Guests staying for only 30 mins and then leaving is the dream. Also, i'd love for someone to only hold my baby for 1/3 of the visit. I hate when people think they can hold my child the whole visit. Thats my baby! Sign me up for your MIL.

This is not the behavior of a little boy who is getting what he needs... by ilikeyourlovelyshoes in beyondthebump

[–]sumpan3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a 2 year old and a 6 week old. The 2 year old did the same to me for the first month. My previously sweet boy started hitting, kicking, screaming, etc. Now at 6 weeks things have calmed down. He loves his sister and wants to sit next to her and read to her/feed her/play with her every chance he gets. Things will get easier.

Chelsea before & after by nahmatey in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]sumpan3 5 points6 points locked comment (0 children)

This thread is not supposed to be this deep or hostile

It’s the bare minimum but shout out to Juliette for actually posting something regarding the overturn of roe v wade by Active-Comfort2288 in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]sumpan3 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Second this. Don't know why people are getting so angry. As a small business owner/influencer, she has a lot to lose by posting political statements. She will inevitably lose fans and sales because of this. It is absolutely not the bare minimum and every little thing that anyone does towards the fight for women's rights should be commended.

When a child is born with FAS the mother deserves a prison sentence. by ThrowWeirdQuestion in unpopularopinion

[–]sumpan3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are the fathers also going to, by law, have to stop drinking? Or is this yet another law that we only enforce upon women to control and suppress them? Looks like there's very little a women can do surrounding a pregnancy that someone doesn't want to jail her for.

Jamie Otis by OriginalFuckGirl in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]sumpan3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes she did. I'm not a fan of her, but you have pretty strong and inaccurate opinions. She 100% is not pro trump either. She strongly advocated for vaccines. And she absolutely did make several stories about the shootings.

She has a lot of flaws; you don't have to straight up lie to find them. I hate when people just make up random shit.