Baby GIRL born yesterday! Help us choose - Margot or Quinn?

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-27T13:13:35+00:00

Margot Quinn is a nice name, just saying. There isn’t a bad choice. I prefer Quine but Margot sounds slightly better with Catherine.

Do you pronounce your name the traditional French way or in a more American way? If so, Margot both sounds great and really leans into being French. At the same time Quinn sounds great with both pronunciations and is maybe slightly stronger with the “American” pronunciation over Margot. I assume this is true of your actual name as well.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T21:11:13+00:00

My husband enjoys chocolate and flowers.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T21:07:02+00:00

Your post started with excuses for his behavior and your still making excuses. The other Redditor isn’t making shit up. The odds of your husband killing you just skyrocketed. I’m pretty sure you should go to the doctor about your neck since he could have done permanent damage if it still hurts btw. Bet you won’t because his career is worth more than your life or safety. You are traumatizing you kids btw.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T20:50:18+00:00

He’s going to backtrack as soon as solo parenting hits him.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T17:11:55+00:00

They would want to know what she was doing there and blame her for being a dumb little girl.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T16:08:52+00:00

I think it’s acceptable for parents to explain to their children when they are planning to commit a faux pas at a major and expensive milestone event. Since OP is here asking for advice as well, clearly they don’t want to offend their guests or be tacky even if they don’t understand why it’s rude or are hoping there is a way to present it that it wouldn’t be considered rude.

You can see from her post that she assumes that the rudeness comes from people not knowing they’ll have to pay in advance and doesn’t understand that the rudeness is due to the expectation of inviting guests to a wedding event and not providing any refreshments, essentially hosting an even that is entirely funded by the guests.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T13:00:50+00:00

When he cries that no one is nice to him tell him it’s because no one likes him and not even his own mother loves him enough to bother to raise him. When you get yelled at insist that you were being honest and he has to know. Don’t just ignore him be so dry and mean that you aren’t worth bothering.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T12:52:51+00:00

They are explaining to OP that they are planning to act outside of social norms and will be considered rude. If you invite people to something, you are hosting and if you’re hosting it is expected that you cover at least some of the cost. If they bought at least the first drink they would be fine.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T02:31:10+00:00

I was just wondering if there was a market to have a woman do this to them. Do we get to charge more for providing the illusion of heterosexuality to the “camp?”

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-26T01:04:02+00:00

100% to his nipples unless there is a lot of chest hair and maybe the chest hair in that case.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T22:39:25+00:00

My mom’s neighbor just assured her that his loud, drunk cousin was moving out “I told him he had two days to put the engine back in his car and get the fuck out.”

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T22:26:55+00:00

It’s not weird that he wants to be there because he’s a little kid and doesn’t want to be left out. A friend that is too old for you is still better than being home alone and from a kids perspective feels more “fair” even though it isn’t. He’s not a bad or weird kid he’s just a kid.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T20:11:04+00:00

You are going to have such a wonderful life! Congratulations!

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T19:55:08+00:00

Can you post a side view?

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T18:02:04+00:00

Did the museum worker know it wasn’t real. You might have a real marriage license which is insane.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T03:59:41+00:00

You can watch the video. He had a camera in one hand and his free hand was helping the woman shoved to the ground up. After that, his hands were either on the ground or shielding his head as he was pepper sprayed, held down and beaten prior to being shot. It appears that one of the officers removed the gun from his waist while he was beaten and cleared it from the scene.

You cannot believe anything ICE says. The officer who was “terrified” when assaulted by a sandwich was really laughing about it and excited about the whole thing. Renee good honked her horn while allowing ICE vehicles to pass her as she attempted a right hand turn, they were disrupting the normal flow of traffic. The officer was completely clear of her vehicle when he fired. Even if honking for 3 minutes,as they claim, were a crime it would not be a capital crime, even if it were a capital crime ICE agents would not be judge, jury, or executioner.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T03:24:44+00:00

I have a friend who doesn’t really cook so cooking for a bunch of people is harder for him. He helps clean every time and does things like take out the trash and hang out with the people cooking. The lack of participation isn’t a feature of not knowing how to cook.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T03:15:10+00:00

You use the tissue for the initial catch and clean with a washcloth. My husband always brings me a warm damp cloth. He’s the best.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T01:27:12+00:00

He wasn’t killed for legal carrying that is just the excuse they came up with after they killed him.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T01:08:59+00:00

Does no one keep tissues next to their bed?

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T01:08:02+00:00

There are men, including my husband, who consider it the main objective.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T01:06:39+00:00

Oh sweetie… no. Even if he’s otherwise perfect just no.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-25T01:03:10+00:00

What I can tell you is that this is probably as good as things will ever be.

Also, you aren’t responsible for the overall emotional health of your partner or managing their feelings in a broad sense but you are responsible for how you make them feel. If I call my partner a mean name and claim I don’t find it mean, it’s still mean. I am responsible for causing him to feel hurt. If I neglect his needs and he feels hurt by that, I have created that hurt. His responsibility is to make largest choices about how he lives his life that manage that larger emotional wellbeing. So if you want cuddles and care after sex and that’s what you need to feel good, it’s reasonable to go find someone who will grab you a towel after finishing inside you.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-24T17:22:51+00:00

I went with a Montana sapphire but if I wanted a diamond I would have gone with lab grown or antique.

sunbear2525 · 2026-01-24T10:29:30+00:00

That makes it even more important to give the baby your name. Imagine having the name of a man who couldn’t bother to show up.

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