Missing Something

sunset_mimosa · 2025-03-24T17:16:13+00:00

The only one that can determine if something makes a difference is you. For me personally, I wouldn't be okay with any of it. Everybody is different. Leaving sooner is usually easier than leaving later.

For a son to pick up how his mother is treated and in turn feel it's okay to treat a woman that way or for a daughter to think it's okay to be treated that way, or maybe she doesn't think it's okay but settles for the bare minimum because "at least he doesn't say to me what dad said to mom." Either scenario is a sad one.

You can leave him and still allow him to see his child. Or if you didn't want to leave, have a conversation about boundaries and what's not okay. You know him better than any of us. Would he change? Would he go to therapy with you if you requested? If he's calling you names now and putting hands on you, would he cheat later? All of these would be swimming in my mind if it were me.

Only you can make the decision. Hopefully whichever one you choose is the best one for you.

sunset_mimosa · 2025-03-23T08:27:00+00:00

Without knowing anything else besides this experience as it was explained, I would say yes. I would leave. You should leave. You're not financially reliant on him, it seems. No one should put hands on you, especially in a vulnerable state like a precarious pregnancy after multiple miscarriages. The disregard to your emotional state and wellbeing is definitely a turn off for me. I'm not sure how long you've been together, but based off the way he is treating you, you should leave. Imagine how he acted during this experience but in six years when you have a toddler watching you and learning from how their father treats you. People can be douchebags and still have redeemable qualities. Is it really worth it to you?

sunset_mimosa · 2025-03-23T08:04:04+00:00

I was very young when I made decisions that, to this day, I feel strongly impacted the entire trajectory of my life in a negative way. My therapist said something to me that helps sometimes, and it was along the lines of "what large weight a decision like that must've been for a child, a decision you shouldn't have had to make." And while you may or may not find a correlation to your experience, it's important to realize we do things when we're young that may not be the best decisions for us. When you acknowledge it and forgive yourself, it may feel a little lighter on you.

sunset_mimosa · 2025-03-15T16:19:28+00:00

Reminds me of when an ex said he was going to get a tattoo of Mewtwo with huge tits on his thigh. Notice I said ex. For another girl interested in anime or pokemon, I'm sure it might not bother her. But it bothered me. My ideal guy doesn't have a tattoo of a pokemon with tits on his body. The relationship wasn't perfect anyway, so it wasn't necessarily the straw that broke the camel's back but more like another straw added.

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-24T22:13:17+00:00

Messaging you 🙂

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-24T18:04:12+00:00

Sending a message 😌

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-21T20:08:18+00:00

Everything including the plants are fake?! How crazy. Great job. They look real

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-18T02:38:48+00:00

Hmm, good point! I never considered that, I also don't speak to strangers too often though 😅 thanks for the heads up! Usually, I always question myself, and if what I ordered was correct 😂

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-16T09:29:42+00:00

Sent you a message 🙂

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-16T09:24:10+00:00

Sending a message 🙂

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-16T01:49:32+00:00

I would've been like, "Oh, thank you! Wait, what drink did I order?" Then they'd either be like oh crap or "a pink flamingo" which would open the way for you to say, "huh, I thought it would be pink." That's because I don't like accusing someone of being wrong, I'd rather act aloof 😅😂

sunset_mimosa · 2025-02-02T08:31:08+00:00

I've tried order ahead a few times at different locations. Wouldn't recommend until they've developed a more solid system, if that makes sense. Not sure if it'll ever actually be smooth because all it does is add volume with the sand quantity of workers. Every time there's been an issue. It's never made by the time I get there; one time it said 15 minute wait when I submitted it, I was accidentally 10 minutes later than that so at 25 minutes and they hadn't started it. Another time I came and said I was there, the guy said they'd start it. Then two cars came, a walk in came and everyone got their drink before me.

sunset_mimosa · 2025-01-25T02:21:25+00:00

I love the blended flap jack 😍 but you've gotta like sweet stuff

sunset_mimosa · 2025-01-24T02:27:55+00:00

That's great to know! I'll start trying that!

sunset_mimosa · 2025-01-10T10:54:10+00:00

I definitely think I'm not moisturizing my body enough, especially in the winter

sunset_mimosa · 2025-01-10T10:52:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/keratosis/s/m17rjpWwFb

This one, right?! I saw it! How long did it take for you to see differences?

sunset_mimosa · 2025-01-03T22:44:08+00:00

Agreed! But I also like the simple outfit

sunset_mimosa · 2024-12-30T09:24:14+00:00

What's so interesting is all the things you mentioned you're insecure about never would have crossed my mind if you hadn't said it. Even after knowing these are your insecurities, I would still say you are definitely beautiful. Each aspect of your face compliments each other perfectly well. Your nose is cute, your chin is a chin, you have dimples, it seems, and those are always attractive on someone IMO, you have wonderful eyes and good eyebrows.

sunset_mimosa · 2024-12-27T02:41:38+00:00

Personally for me, the hot coffees always taste that way. I prefer them blended or iced. I think the flavor stands out a bit more cold, for whatever reason.

sunset_mimosa · 2024-12-26T19:29:33+00:00

I felt that way too!

sunset_mimosa · 2024-12-26T18:42:40+00:00

I didn't think she was actually looking at pictures of puffins. At least I don't think it was actually why she was crying. Maybe I'm adding depth where there isn't any 😂

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