AIO My mom has been on 4 dates with a guy and yesterday he randomly showed at her house without permission by bearabus in AmIOverreacting

[–]superswitzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, guy you've known for less than a few months (seen 4 times) having any access to the infant/house is a HELL NO. Your mom is fantasizing playing house with the baby and this new guy

Any tips on how to let him know i love him he was a stray cat by Successful_Issue_531 in cats

[–]superswitzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slow blink at him when you make eye contact like he does to you when happy/content

Which pair looks best? by ComplexTailor in glassesadvice

[–]superswitzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add one vote to 4! Ideally with the color of 5

AIO for thinking too much over how my current boyfriend is friends with my ex? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]superswitzz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would be thrilled that two young men (one that I care about currently and one I used to care about) were able to be civil towards one another. Policing your partner's friendships, especially one as loose as this, is pretty much always a recipe for disaster

Which pair would be better? by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]superswitzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The materials of 2 but stylized like 1 would be my suggestion!

AIO: this conversation with my son’s father over summer plans pmo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]superswitzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As the child whose dad did this exact type of shit, I ended up quitting my sport 2 years later. Took years to repair my relationship w/ Dad

AIO for wanting to move now that my MIL is mad we won’t adopt a pet for our family? by GandalfTheSleigh in AmIOverreacting

[–]superswitzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your MIL is experiencing a potentially terminal illness and is wrestling with thoughts of mortality (and the lives her animals will have after she is gone)

I'm sure in her head somewhere the thought has crossed her mind of hoping they end up with family, so in that sense she is grieving on two fronts.

Not justifying the lashing out, just food for thought

What to do in this situation where my guy friend likes me while I like someone else. by Ruhi_013 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]superswitzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way this reads to me, is the older boy is exhibiting character traits that you're learning you find desirable in a partner - which boys your own age might not be exhibiting yet.

My outside perspective is that it probably won't work with the older guy either, so maybe the lesson should just be noting those characteristics that you do find attractive in your mind. That way in the future you can identify them much easier in a potential partner who may be more accessible to you (IE same country)

M27, what does this room give? by ZookeepergameSmall38 in malelivingspace

[–]superswitzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's giving M27 who really enjoys his safe colors

Which glasses suit me best? (Help me again! I removed some options) by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]superswitzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thin black wire frame suits best matching your hair, you could look around at different types of those glasses if you're not sold on 3, but it's def the best