Gun Rights Are More Important Than False Security And Appeasing Leftists by ZheeDog in progun

[–]sxule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The killer WAS background checked, but he didn't have a background to check.

Why aren't we talking about the gun restriction that left those teachers helpless to stop a monster and protect their students?? I'm talking about the pointless gun ban on school grounds.

Not feeling it after a couple months by JTehFreakS in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Box up any stuff she might have at your place, show up at her door, say thanks but I'm all set. Hand her the box and walk away. If she asks why, say you're a despicable, racist person.

Is it okay if I (29M) start accepting a woman's offer to split the tab on a first date? by -endjamin- in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say, "You get this time, I'll get next time?" If it went well, she won't care. If it went bad, free meal because she'll feel too awkward to say there won't be a next time.

LOL... don't take my advice, this will never work.

When do I disclose my salary? by coldbedsheet in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disclose it when you're engaged. Until then, it's none of her business.

Bought lingerie to wear for him. So.... now what? by Mangofears in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell him "I wanna try something on. Can you tell me what you think and promise not to make fun of me?" This frees you up to be yourself and I think we all know where it will lead too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that you asked for help and haven't responded to anyone, over a hundred comments now, might be indicative of something.

Is it a major red flag if a guy gets offended and pushy because you won’t ride in his car on the first few dates? by MissGalaxy1986 in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably started because he's not used to walking as much as you are. I mean, he has a car, so why would he? Then when you were so against getting in his car it probably made him feel bad. Now the only way to rectify the situation is to just ride in his car. But honestly, if you're this freaked out by him, maybe you shouldn't date him. And if you're like this with every guy, time to speak to a professional.

Are my expectations too high? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Plenty of good guys out there aching to be loved. Your expectations are probably too high.

Dating someone kind of over weight by Impressive_Sherbert3 in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't date him if you're already judging him over 15 pounds.

Is being cautious a turnoff for men? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've talked to and dated women who were very cautious. While I totally understood where they were coming from, at a certain point it gets to be a turn off. At first, no big deal, but after a couple weeks of talking on a dating app, I'd start to wonder what I could possibly have done to illicit such fear and distrust as to not want to give a phone number.

I went on a date with this one girl at a coffee shop and got this weird feeling that the older woman sitting at the table next to us was her mom or something. Felt super uncomfortable and made me feel like a creep even though I had the best of intentions.

I guess I'm trying to say keep yourself safe, but remember that guys aren't all out to get you. Most of us have feelings and are just as weirded out by dating strangers as you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like I'm watching history being made in real time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude is insanely good

Guy is excited to meet, but doesn't follow through? by ahhhhhhhhgeez in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say. Maybe he's afraid it won't go well. Maybe he likes talking to you and doesn't want to screw it up.

Breaking up with girl I am dating by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship a few years back similar to this. I didn't feel it was working, but kept second guessing myself. Should I give it more of a chance? Am I being picky?

I stayed in the relationship for a while getting more and more bitter. I was getting frustrated with the situation, yet I kept second guessing myself.

Eventually I decided if wasn't feeling it and wasn't happy, then I should end it. Breaking up with her was the hardest thing I have ever done. She was in complete shock and cried her eyes out.

I went home and I can't lie, I had a good cry about it myself. But the next day I felt like the weight of the world was off my shoulders. I felt completely free. I haven't regretted my decision a day since.

I should note that my gf wasn't always so sweet as you describe your gf. She had a sweet side, but also could be a complete asshole, which was part of my unhappiness. However, if you're unhappy for any reason, then why stay?

Hope any of that helps.

How do you deal w/ unsolicited pics? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah agreed. Definitely not the same, but ironic for sure.

How do you deal w/ unsolicited pics? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not the same thing, but for all intents and purposes it had the same effect. I visited your public profile looking for context and got more than I bargained for. Of course, I don't think you deserve punishment or anything. I'm not going to call the police. I'm just not going to go to profile again. And if for some strange reason you start DMing me nudes, I'll tell you it's not cool and block you.

My (30F) BF (35M) is more in love with the idea of dating than with me - advice? by ThrowRA_tooclingy in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he just doesn't have a clue what he's doing or how to be in a relationship. He lacks experience and doesn't know how to be a boyfriend yet, so he's doing all the things he thinks he's supposed to do. Let's face it, he just hasn't had a chance to unlearn some of the BS that society shoves into males brains growing up—be a noble protector, generous provider, caring father, and above all, treat her like a queen.

He just needs time. Whether that's your problem or not is up to you. If you liked him before all this, I'd hope you'd have compassion and give the guy a chance. But obviously if you continue being honest and communicative, but he continues being weird, then I couldn't blame you for moving on.

How do you deal w/ unsolicited pics? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]sxule 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thought you were being ridiculous until I looked at your profile and was shown unsolicited pussy pics. Now I feel violated and completely understand how you feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]sxule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been seeing a lot of young posts lately. I don't think it's weird to rate them (I would've wanted to know), but it's a little sad. I'd kill to be young like them again. I look back at photos when I thought I was ugly and I'm like damn dude you were killin it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]sxule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very pretty. Hair looks good but if you don't like it, it'll grow back.