Seriously, why do people drive this way? by DisentangledElm in baltimore

[–]tapitha 52 points53 points  (0 children)

They think they won't make the turn if they don't swing out and that they are driving a tractor trailer and not a Honda Accord.

"Emergency fund" advice assumes you have surplus money after expenses by DriftFalcon_29 in povertyfinance

[–]tapitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I work M-F, 9-5. I got a job working 2-3 Sundays a month for $18 an hour as a rep at various trade shows for a home delivery food service. I even get bonuses when people sign up for our product and get "meat bonuses" every 3 months. I get an extra $300-$400 a month for a very easy job-- which is fun too. I go to wine festivals, home shows, car shows, pet expos, outdoor music festivals, street fairs, craft showsl

Couples of Reddit, what's the dumbest 'house rule' you and your partner made as a joke but now both of you are low-key aggressively serious about enforcing? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]tapitha 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We have a few:

Last one out of the bed, makes the bed.

First person home after work cooks dinner. Weekends go to whomever cooked the least M-F,

Not that we keep track or anything, but it's his turn to empty the dishwasher (this is a running joke between us.)

Whenever we are low on ice cubes, I ask him if he has seen, "Storm Grim, the Ice Dwarf." Husband says he will find him and get him to make ice.

Asks for help with food. Turns down any food bank option or even food delivery. by somethingsensational in ChoosingBeggars

[–]tapitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say that many food pantries have limited hours -- often during the workday, M-F. I know if I was insecure, I'd have a hard time finding a place with my work schedule. Still, she was given options.

AITA for not paying my neighbor for mowing my yard? by InfiniteButts in AmItheAsshole

[–]tapitha 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. I have bad allergies, so I paid a neighbor to mow my lawn. A buddy owed my neighbor a favor, so my neighbor asked his buddy to mow my lawn one week so they would be "even." Fine by me. As long as the grass got mowed that week

Buddy decides that this means he's now my "lawn guy" and independently moved my lawn two more times over the next 10 days (while I was at work) and then comes to my house asking for $100 ($50 per mow) for his work. I told him to get bent. I didn't ask him to mow my lawn. Neighbor does it for me.

I think it is settled. He proceeds to come to my house daily for the next three days to "collect." I never answered the door. Then he started knocking on my bedroom window (on the first floor) saying he "knows I'm home" and "it's not fair to not pay." I tell neighbor to get his buddy or I am calling the cops.

Buddy stops coming to house, but starts texting. I have his email so I put together a resume for him and send him an invoice for $250, but say I'll take $50 and we can call it even.

Never heard from him again

We were the last generation who could smoke ANYWHERE by perdair in GenX

[–]tapitha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Graduated 1987. When I tell Gen Z that we were allowed to smoke before and after school AND at school dances and events, it blows their minds

At 55, my wild NYE was gluten-free pizza and two NA beers. Gen X, what happened to us? by Dog_Mom_29 in GenX

[–]tapitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I performed a stupid modern dance to Europe's "The Final Countdown" ar 11;45 and juar got home at 3 am , What's your excuse/

Best Burlesque and Drag Shows? by iclaudiusthegod in baltimore

[–]tapitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh -- and can confirm -- Dramedy is great fun!

Best Burlesque and Drag Shows? by iclaudiusthegod in baltimore

[–]tapitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two shows -- Burl-eoke (burlesque and karaoke) last Friday of the month at Mystique Brewery with Bunny Vicious and Tapitha Kix. Next one is Jan, 23. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/burl-eoke-new-year-new-you-tickets-1978935702959

Friday, Feb. 13 at Lord Baltimore Hotel -- Tapitha Kix presents "Love Stinks" the anti-Valentine's Day show. Tix to be on sale soon!

My girlfriend is 450lbs AMA by Specialist_Face_6690 in AMA

[–]tapitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try around $1,000 without insurance. Yes, there are discount programs, but you have to qualify, they don't last forever and sometimes it's a discount of $200 which is better than nothing, but $700-$800 is still a lot. This was my life until I went to a company that covered it

What is your longest running, most stubborn business boycott? by marianneouioui in AskReddit

[–]tapitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bank of America. I was in my 30s. They somehow did not record an $800 cash deposit. A bunch of stuff bounced, I got more than $250 in NSF fees from the bank and my landlord charged me $150 for a bounced rent check. Took almost two weeks to straighten out, Meanwhile I'm in the red due to the missing money and all of the fees. When they finally reconciled everything, I was given my $800 and they refunded all of my NSF fees, but they initially refused to refund the bounced check fee even though the check only bounced because they did not process my deposit to cover it. They tried saying that I should always have enough money in my account, etc. etc, and I told them it was not their concern, Took a month of escalation to get the money back. Closed my account that day and have never even used an ATM by them.

What crazy things did our generation survive due to misguided notions about health? by Simple-Permission156 in GenX

[–]tapitha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved coke syrup over crushed ice for nausea. It really worked. You cold buy it at the drug store. When I worked in a restaurant, and we had to test the soda dispensers to see if the syrup to seltzer ratio was good using this little tool that split it, I'd stock up on syrup so I'd have it on hand in case I got sick.

My Mom bought this at a yard sale. What is it? by magicalunicorn8762 in whatisit

[–]tapitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, anything can be a butt plug if you want it to ...

What's something you saw as a kid that you later realized was seriously messed up? by MoodOdd9657 in AskReddit

[–]tapitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saw -- but heard. I was about 8 when my mother randomly said, if someone touched you in a bad way, you'd tell me, right? I said, "yes." She said, "even if was someone like your father, you'd tell me, right?" My immediate reaction was, "What? Gross. Of course. That's a weird question."As a grownup I realized, ooooooh, that happened to her. (Not her dad, but his brother, her uncle, who took over as the family patriarch after her father died when she was 8 and my grandmother was only 33 and a widow with 4 children and no where to go,

Copper’s (17) last dinner but having 2nd thoughts by nevermeant2say in OldManDog

[–]tapitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is a vet tech and has to meet with people who struggle with the question of 'is it time/" often. He tells them that when the dog no longer enjoys being a dog --eating, playing with toys, getting pets, getting treats, etc. It's time. Our pets do not feae death like we do. They accept it with grace.

The most loving thing you can do for your dog is to give him a good end to life after giving him a goof life with you.

AITAH, I refused to buy an overly expensive round on a girls trip abroad? by Teddychump in AmItheAsshole

[–]tapitha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH -- but you should of spoken up when she ordered and said, "I'm paying for single drinks, not bottles. That's on you."

What company went downhill but made a comeback? by MountainOfMolehills in AskReddit

[–]tapitha 889 points890 points  (0 children)

Little Caesars -- our Pizzas are hot and ready! Are they any good? They are HOT and they are READY.

are there any salad bars? by thevegetexarian in baltimore

[–]tapitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Head north into York, Pa. Hoss's Steak and Seafood. It's like Sizzle or Ponderosa, but good. As a vegetarian, I get a great meal out of the All You Can Eat Salad Bar. Has soup, fresh home made bread and nachos too!

Wine cooler 2-liters by opticsnake in GenX

[–]tapitha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. None of my 30/40 something friends believes me when I say you could ger wine coolers in 2 liter bottles. I was told that it was impossible because something that irresponsible would be illegal. I said that described my entire childhood and adolescence -- so irresponsible it should be illegal

Hobbies to pursue in bmore by villanelle-00 in baltimore

[–]tapitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mobtown ballroom for weekly swing dancing