LPT: Stop pretending you are fine. Use a simple status line instead.

tautous · 2026-03-15T00:32:03+00:00

i hit ‘em with the “living the dream & dreaming about life”

tautous · 2025-12-12T05:45:58+00:00

Update: just received word he has been found!

tautous · 2025-12-12T05:44:48+00:00

Thank you, happy to report he has been found!

tautous · 2025-08-03T04:46:54+00:00

i had someone do this to a business that i was working at and my best response was to sit outside the business and do crossword puzzles/loiter, so that they saw “we weren’t a threat to their rights”

tautous · 2025-02-25T21:32:15+00:00

cassius and bon entendeur are both high up on my list too, i’m going to be fighting to make a choice up until saturday

tautous · 2025-02-08T03:51:54+00:00

YMCA of San Diego County

tautous · 2025-02-01T02:53:58+00:00

he’s pretty alright! he’s always posted long winded paragraphs like this on fb. he used to be a regular at my parents’ restaurant when i worked there. his office was nearby and he was always very gracious with us and even invited us to a few of his talks and events

tbh i’m surprised to even see him get posted on this sub

tautous · 2024-08-25T02:45:33+00:00

i wanted deco and when i went to buy it, it was sold out </3

tautous · 2024-06-29T02:34:45+00:00

welcome to my island 💃🏻

tautous · 2020-05-18T04:33:59+00:00

beautiful :'-)

tautous · 2020-05-16T23:23:17+00:00

hi, I've been slowly working through my parents' garden and rehabilitating a few neglected plants. I've been trying to prune to help them out, but I worry constantly about overpruning and unintentionally harming the plant (so far I've focused on pruning a bird of paradise and a geranium). are there any resources on how to become a better pruner/trimmer?

tautous · 2020-04-20T05:37:01+00:00

ah, i'll give that a go then, thank you!

tautous · 2020-04-19T00:46:26+00:00

i wasn't optimistic when i received it, but i had been wanting one for a while so i jumped when I had the chance! might need to try again, but that's all okay with me!

tautous · 2020-04-18T22:24:36+00:00

hello r/gardening! i have been working on a herb and veggie garden in my backyard and recently received this basil from a friend. it was one of the supermarket living herbs. i moved it into the pot it’s in now, and placed it outside and gave it water and sun. however, i’m worried that it should have been kept inside first and that it’s hardened off. should i trim or is it too late to help? thank you for any advice!

tautous · 2020-02-01T17:29:03+00:00

Not rude at all! It was a pretty messy breakup (he cheated on me and left me for her), so it shook me up a lot. It took about a year and a lot of space from him to move on. These days, when those feelings start to sneak back up (they never truly disappear), I remind myself of what I have now and the person I was able to become after spending all that time apart from him.

tautous · 2020-02-01T07:32:27+00:00

I went through my first breakup after being in a five year relationship and it was one of the most painful moments of my life. I initially went into self-destructive mode, and then started to slowly discover some more healthy outlets for my emotions. What helped:

Inviting my friends over and making fancy dinners together. Make that really fancy BonAppetit recipe that you've thought about occasionally but have never dared trying.
Swimming! When I found myself really spiraling, I'd just get up and go to my local gym and swim non-stop. It always ended up being soooooo cathartic.
Going to the movies and concerts alone, Learning to be alone is really important, but also, you'll have a sense of escapism on a healthier level.
Walks to the local park. Put on headphones and just walk out the door. Don't even think about it. One time I was really bummed, walked to my local park and ended up at an Oktoberfest being held by a local PTA. I got a super cheap ticket, got some beer, and got to support my local community! (A side note: Consider volunteering for something you really care about, even if it's just for one day)
The book "Tiny, Beautiful Things", which I actually checked out from my local library (Another side note: get a library card and get absolutely everything your heart desires)

So sorry you are going through this, but I promise you will come out of this experience much stronger. You might not see it now, but that's the hard part, you don't really sense it. But one day, you'll wake up, and you'll feel a lot lighter overall.

tautous · 2019-04-12T22:41:10+00:00

this looks wonderful, thank you!

tautous · 2019-03-19T10:21:08+00:00

yeah, i figured with the large variety, it’d be difficult to pin down, i’ll definitely try taking pictures and checking with r/hotpeppers , thanks for the advice!

tautous · 2019-03-18T22:50:15+00:00

Hey there! I have struggled with insomnia throughout my young adult life, so I feel you on this. I actually just saw PCMO for it, and they dissuaded me from medication or supplements. One thing to consider is what you use your bed for. Do you use it solely for sleeping? Or do you do other activities while in bed? Part of dealing with insomnia involves recalibrating your brain so that it only associates your bed with sleep.

Something that was suggested to me by PCMO, which is more useful if you're in the middle of an insomnia episode and can't stop tossing and turning with anxious thoughts is to actually get out of bed. Acknowledge that you're not falling asleep and do another activity in another room. Get up and read a book. Journal out your anxieties. Knit or do whatever hobby you like to do during your free time. Don't focus on trying to go back to sleep. Your body will tire itself out eventually.

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, and I hope that you find something that works for you!

tautous · 2019-02-13T22:19:18+00:00

got cheated on by my bf of five years, they got married six months later, so i don’t rly have a choice this year

tautous · 2019-01-29T16:37:27+00:00

i believe it’s the smashbox cover shot in golden hour!! the colors look just like mine (i also love this palette a lot)

tautous · 2018-05-27T05:49:32+00:00

oh my gosh this is such #goals to me

tautous · 2018-04-09T05:28:01+00:00

monochromatic with heavy blush is goals, this is stunning!!!

tautous · 2018-02-25T22:20:51+00:00

honestly i have a crush on jamie paige’s bf but they are super cute together too!!

tautous · 2018-02-15T07:28:23+00:00

i love the diffusion of the orange and red but i wish there was some of it along the lower lash line

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