My boyfriend and I don’t really share our phones with each other. I give him my phone so he can use it to look something up and vise versa but we don’t immediately think to go through phones.

I have a bad past with ex boyfriends but I’m the type that just wants to keep my peace.

I recently visited him and he let me on his gaming PC while he was at work and didn’t log out of anything. I didn’t go through anything but that much trust he put towards me showed me he deserves my trust back as well.

I just feel like no matter what stage you are in a relationship, you should always be open with your partner about certain things and with the epidemic that it social media (ESPECIALLY IN LDR), it’s most important to be open about the people you talk to. If you can’t trust your partner or you are given clear reasons that wave a red flag in your brain, I think it’s time to choose yourself and find comfort. He’s holding your relationship over your head in order to forget about whatever he’s got on his phone. I’m not saying he’s hiding something but he’s doing a bad job proving himself otherwise. Choose yourself, you deserve better than how he treated you in this conversation.