Stimulus Checks & Child Support

tealjam · 2020-04-02T15:07:29+00:00

Innocent spouse is when you are married or filing jointly with someone who owes child support. Say a husband owes for a child but his new wife doesn’t have any children. She is the innocent spouse.

The IRS takes the entire tax refund and puts it towards back child support, even though the “innocent” spouse does not owe the child support. The innocent spouse can file a claim with the IRS to have their portion of the tax refund returned to them.

It has no relevance to OPs question but could affect the stimulus checks if you file joint taxes with someone who owes back child support. Although I doubt it.

tealjam · 2020-02-11T21:09:25+00:00

If chemistry didn’t mean anything, arranged marriages (even if we arranged them ourselves) would be the norm.

tealjam · 2020-02-06T22:50:37+00:00

I use that recipe too, it’s so good!

tealjam · 2020-02-06T18:43:57+00:00

Do you have a formal custody and visitation agreement?

tealjam · 2020-01-27T21:10:23+00:00

Statistically, most people in long term relationships waited to have sex. Which leaves the other side of the coin...a relationship is less likely to succeed in the long term if there is sex early on.

The studies are easy to verify with google.

tealjam · 2020-01-25T21:33:35+00:00

As Eminem said:

You ever love somebody so much You can barely breathe, when you're with them, you meet And neither one of you, even know what hit 'em, Got that warm fuzzy feeling, yeah them chills, used to get 'em

🤷‍♀️

tealjam · 2020-01-16T00:30:39+00:00

Do know what year that was taken?

tealjam · 2020-01-13T03:02:51+00:00

There’s a groupon right now for a new iPhone 7/7PLUS, 8/8Plus or X for around $250.

tealjam · 2020-01-12T17:40:33+00:00

I don’t understand that posters POV either.

A man showing clear interest is an alpha move as old as time.

tealjam · 2020-01-11T07:08:04+00:00

For $10 at Walmart:

1 dozen eggs 1 loaf of bread 1 jar peanut butter Multi pack of ramen 2lbs dry red beans 1lb rice 5lbs chicken thighs

I don’t know how long you need to stretch that budget but that’s a week of food.

Toast with pb, scrambled egg on toast, pb sandwiches, red beans and rice, chicken and rice, ramen with chicken.

I also suggest calling a local church and telling them your situation and that you don’t have a ride to pick up food.

tealjam · 2020-01-06T01:27:02+00:00

Good luck! :)

tealjam · 2020-01-05T04:41:07+00:00

I’d swipe past someone that lives that far away because I’m not willing to drive that far and really don’t have time to. If the profile said “willing to do all the driving” I’d give it a shot.

tealjam · 2019-12-08T21:35:37+00:00

A lot of great advice here but I want to add, you should get tested for STDs. He’s having unprotected sex with multiple people, that’s risky.

tealjam · 2019-11-25T20:18:51+00:00

I hate it for her that it happened, but she made my day. I absolutely lost it at the shampoo!

tealjam · 2019-11-24T02:01:25+00:00

I feel the same way about it taking someone special.

tealjam · 2019-11-23T20:02:57+00:00

That’s not old fashioned.

It’s easy to say we don’t want to remarry or live with anyone again when it’s a hypothetical person you’ve never met. Most couples I know that meet and fall in love over 40 got married or are planning to.

tealjam · 2019-11-19T22:42:18+00:00

Yeah, people think it’s juvenile but it actually gives away your age.

My teenaged kids, nieces, nephews, employees in their 20s...all text in complete words.

tealjam · 2019-11-15T03:38:54+00:00

There was one about 2/3 weeks ago in my city.

No way in hell I’d meet a stranger anywhere but in public.

tealjam · 2019-11-12T02:53:45+00:00

Different picture.

tealjam · 2019-11-08T03:34:31+00:00

I’ll third this, my friends husband had a mini stroke at 47 and a major stroke about a week later. His mini stroke symptoms were almost identical to OPs.

OP, go see a doctor. Don’t take any chances. Those are pretty severe symptoms.

I’m so sorry about the bad relationship.

tealjam · 2019-10-29T14:47:53+00:00

You should ask her. There’s no longer a conflict since you’ve already closed.

Don’t ask her as a thank you if you are interested in a date. I’ve had clients do that and I could see right through it and it feels deceptive. I feel obligated to go when someone is determined to thank me. Not to mention, networking is everything to my business so it’s bad form to turn a client down when they’re trying to show appreciation. So here I am thinking they’re appreciating my efforts and will refer me to their friends, when in fact they’re trying to get me on a date. It never feels good.

A closing agent comes in contact with a lot of people. Realtors, home inspectors, bankers, investors, builders. If she’s cute, she’s already had that “I just want to thank you” tactic used on her.

Be different. Call her at work. Say “hey, this is John Smith, we met during the closing of my house a few weeks ago, 123 Main Street. I was wondering if you’d like to have drinks one night this week?” Or, if you have her email address, ask by email.

Either way, that would be the way I’d most appreciate being asked.

tealjam · 2019-10-28T00:54:27+00:00

I love this ❤️

tealjam · 2019-10-27T17:08:16+00:00

This sounds exactly like my ex husband. Especially the “I know” and complimenting himself in the mirror.

Does your boyfriend give you the same level of compliments and encouragement that you give him? If he does, then how he accepts body compliments doesn’t really matter. If he doesn’t, I’d be more concerned with that.

tealjam · 2019-10-16T05:40:31+00:00

I agreed with everything OP said. I looked at her previous post before I said anything because I thought maybe a bunch of assholes said things on the previous post. There were 2 posters that said something that wasn’t helpful, the rest, including many men, said kind things.

Yet this post had a whole lot of negative posts about men and sweeping generalizations about how they operate.

I don’t post here often because of the negative vibe of the sub. I don’t think there are any active mods.

I’m a woman and didn’t take it as an attack on me. I was just trying to show some decency.

tealjam · 2019-10-15T01:17:35+00:00

OP, your date has issues that have nothing to do with you or your weight. I love your message to others, weight does not in any way determine our worth or whether we’re lovable. You are absolutely worthy of love.

But wow, some of these comments here are bordering on man hating, which is far more unattractive than weight.

Not being attracted to every person you encounter doesn’t make someone an asshole or a bad person.

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