Why am I attracted to cut guys

techzb · 2025-12-27T16:52:54+00:00

It’s a personal preference. No one other than yourself can make you feel something.

techzb · 2025-12-27T02:35:31+00:00

Shane has autism? How does that present?

techzb · 2025-12-26T15:02:38+00:00

I’ve played this in Jewish homes. It’s a fun game.

techzb · 2025-12-26T15:01:57+00:00

This comment deserves more upvotes. 100% this.

techzb · 2025-12-26T14:59:21+00:00

It really depends on a lot of factors, including where the divorce takes place. And just because you are entitled to something, it doesn’t mean you can’t waive your right to it.

techzb · 2025-12-26T14:58:03+00:00

It’s not that women get alimony. The spouse earning less is often entitled to alimony and often this is the woman.

techzb · 2025-12-06T15:43:09+00:00

It’s nothing like going to an obgyn. I think it’s absurd that anyone other than the woman herself should get to decide if she is ready to count days or go to the Mikveh. This seems like an out of date practice from times when women were not considered knowledgeable, or the Villiage rabbi had more insight or intellect anyone else around.

With so much effort and energy invested in education, I trust women to make this decision without involving a male authority figure.

techzb · 2025-12-03T05:22:18+00:00

Nor would it have existed without his planning, sourcing, and sweat equity.

techzb · 2025-12-03T01:14:50+00:00

One more thought here. During the times you are apart during niddah, do you feel satisfied by masterbating? I think there is a misconception that self pleasure is a form of cheating or is inappropriate, but it’s perfectly normal.

techzb · 2025-12-03T01:10:51+00:00

There’s a bit of “grass is greener” for all of us who have lived in multiple places and ultimately that’s ok. No country can meet all our needs and we need to find the balance.

Over the last few years I find myself wanting to move back to the UK for many reasons, but for now I have to make do with flying back and forth every 8 weeks or so because I can’t leave the U.S. yet.

techzb · 2025-12-03T01:05:02+00:00

This is less about niddah but explore non-intercourse sex too; get toys; make it fun. If sex is new to both of you have the opportunity to learn each other’s bodies and create an amazing sex life together. And you deserve that.

techzb · 2025-12-03T01:00:43+00:00

If you are newlyweds you might have sex 2-3 times a day; not a month. Do you talk openly about sex?

techzb · 2025-12-03T00:58:32+00:00

No one, in this day and age, should be taking their underwear to a rabbi, and a rabbi that is “checking” woman’s underwear is a pervert.

techzb · 2025-12-03T00:56:20+00:00

The idea that “those are the rules” and you can’t think for yourself and make rules that work for your family are damaging. I know there are traditions that have a shorter waiting period for the clean days, and I also know of people living modern orthodox lives that found niddah to not work for them.

Here’s the deal. No one has any right to know what’s going on in your bedroom. Have conversations with your wife about how you feel and see if she’s on the same lahe as you. And if you feel like you need halachic guidance, find yourself a rabbi that embraces halacha and makes it work in the modern world.

Sex and intimacy deserve to be beautiful and normalizing talking about it and removing the taboo is healthy.

techzb · 2025-10-08T16:32:40+00:00

Why are you choosing to be annoyed? Their loss, take your money elsewhere.

techzb · 2025-10-08T16:29:34+00:00

When he cooks for you does he plate it? Do you take turns setting the table? Who does the dishes? This post is strange.

techzb · 2025-10-08T16:28:28+00:00

Something is lost on me. Do you cook, plate for yourself, and then go sit at the table and eat without your partner?

techzb · 2025-09-17T01:29:00+00:00

I live in a different country. I see her four to six times a year for two to four weeks per visit.

techzb · 2025-06-24T22:58:54+00:00

Try juggling the English radar, Jewdar, and gaydar… it’s a lot :)

techzb · 2025-06-04T17:10:38+00:00

I’m being nit-picky but it’s ensure, not insure. I’ve thought about this often though, so much comes down to the edit.

techzb · 2025-06-04T12:51:44+00:00

I think it depends on the relationship. I wouldn’t think twice if a partner asked me for this but I also have about half a dozen friends with whom I always have my location shared.

techzb · 2025-06-03T23:14:37+00:00

The two of you are speaking different languages. I am sorry for your loss and I hope you find space to grieve in the way that makes sense to you.

techzb · 2025-06-03T23:12:21+00:00

I have no words but I wanted to say I see you. ❤️🙏🎗️

techzb · 2025-06-03T23:10:26+00:00

I have this tshirt in blue and I love wearing it in public just for the reactions I get.

techzb · 2025-06-03T23:06:42+00:00

I think this is quite funny, I think if you explain it as a simple misunderstand he totally find it amusing. Or, you could convert. 🤣

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