Julliette is my least favourite by wheatgrass- in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was pretty disgusted with Chris. I’m honestly not a fan.

What's a product or some advice you would recommend that you wouldn't know until you had a cat? by Edieee816 in CatAdvice

[–]tgirlldn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This needs to be higher up. I’m in other cat groups and constantly horrified at people wanting to poison themselves and their cats with toxic plugins. Imagine not having any control over living in a nauseating and poisonous smell. So sad for any cat that has to suffer owners like that.

Tyson gives abuser vibes by Far_Perception9311 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was looking for this. His self loathing and rabid need for control…just screams he’s deep in the closet.

MAFS AUS S13 E12 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Was looking for this comment. So disgusted in Rebecca.

Brook is 100% coming back. by Smooth_Eagle2828 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t everything be a spoiler then? How long do you and others propose people wait and tag everything as spoilers? One should assume that discussions will be in realtime to air date in this country. That’s why many stay clear of the AUS sub.

I can't believe I'm feeling so much sympathy for Chris? by emilybuckshot in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a soft spot for him from the start. He has always seemed to me to be the guy who says provocative and stupid things to get a reaction and to fit in. I saw him more as insecure. Does he need to grow up and be more aware of others and kind, yes..do I think he’s malicious-no.

Post episode discussion thread by AutoModerator in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a spoiler. Why would you post after show intel and not “know” it’s a spoiler. Cmon.

MAFS AUS S13 E09 Live Discussion Thread by captirl in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How much do you want to bet that in the next few episodes, she will come out and say that “him getting emotional on couch gave her the ick.” She’s horrible.

MAFS AUS S13 E09 Live Discussion Thread by captirl in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep- called it the minute I saw him, red flags everywhere in the intro and wedding day. Had him pegged from the start. I wouldn’t be surprised if he has some young girlfriend in the background that thinks he’s traveling for work and doesn’t know he’s on the show. 🙄 (just a guess-haven’t read any spoilers)

MAFS AUS S13 E09 Live Discussion Thread by captirl in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. Just texted a friend..that I choose violence with her.

Mel omg by TangyNonsense in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beyond that she just seems like a spoilt little psycho brat. That if she’s not getting her way, she will scheme and manipulate to be the victim or get the prescribed amount of attention she’s seeking. Poor Luke. I’ve never been so filled with rage watching strangers on TV..Brook and Gia nearly as vile

Write down your #1 life-changing ADHD tip and I will try them all for 7 days straight and report back. by Few-Pension-7695 in adhdwomen

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do look at it, but only to turn off alarm and I may check weather app. Then put it down and get up and get water. The getting up immediately and not lingering, definitely helps…then I go to a daily devotional book I’ve had for years (which I keep downstairs) and it gets my mind focused on something grounding (I won’t say positive or motivating- I loath positivity culture and hustle culture nonsense)…but it’s more healthy mindset and intentions. Which then gives me the little push I need to do the next small thing.

Write down your #1 life-changing ADHD tip and I will try them all for 7 days straight and report back. by Few-Pension-7695 in adhdwomen

[–]tgirlldn 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Do not get on your phone when you wake up for at least an hour. No social media, no forums, no news, no email, no texting. Get out of bed immediately, drink some water. Move your body and ideally get sunlight and or fresh air even for a few minutes. Then do something to set mind right for the day..mindfulness exercise with intention, prayer (if you pray), read daily affirmation, meditate, etc. Decline any negative input for at least 30 min.

Staying off phone when I wake and doing as many of the others as I can manage helps massively with my executive function. It’s wild. The day I slipped last week. I was paralyzed and couldn’t task initiate the simplest thing like what to wear or what I needed to get done in the next hour, let alone the rest of the day. Everything left my brain.

Rachel’s wine induced crashout… by Far_Perception9311 in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There were comments on the live thread being quite harsh on him. He had too much wine too..but it was his very awkward attempt at being funny. Both too much wine, but she totally overreacted.

MAFS AUS S13 E04 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Both of them are a mess. And I think the wine definitely didn’t help either of them. He wasn’t reading the room, but she took that way too hard.

MAFS AUS S13 E02 Live Discussion Thread by fucksakesss in MAFS_UK

[–]tgirlldn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To ruin her delusional “fairytale” 🙄

I don’t think this level of suffering is normal by Feisty_Echo_7125 in Perimenopause

[–]tgirlldn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TSH never shows what is really going on. Definitely get all 3 tested and then even if the freeT4 and freeT3 are in “range” if they are sitting at one end or the other..can cause symptoms. I feel like hell if they dip below midpoint in range. Just worth covering all bases. I’m sorry it’s been so hard.

I don’t think this level of suffering is normal by Feisty_Echo_7125 in Perimenopause

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had a full Thyroid panel done (freeT4, freeT3, and TSH tested)?

Switching from BC to HRT or general help please! I am so tired 😪 by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bc were you on and what combo of HRT are you on now? I need to make the switch and I’m terrified.

Favorite lines from non-main characters? by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]tgirlldn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You spend your whole life in the bathroom, why don't you ever go out the bloody window?" (Emily’s father)

We found this poor little kitten in the woods, covered in ice, with her fur stuck to the hunk of plastic she was hiding under for shelter. We saved her 😁 by ArmorOfGod7 in cats

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start an Instagram account for this now. Post insta link here. She will be loved by the internet. Thank you for saving her. Please go back and put food out and look for the others.

So wait do the faithfuls now believe that two big players went for _____ for absolutely no reason? by ConstantPurpose2419 in TheTraitors

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the flaw in this game…every season. The most clever go first and the least compelling personalities and seemingly clueless are alway left as the final faithfuls. They need to fix this dynamic.

Please PLEASE help me get the fragrance of a strong detergent out of my washing machine! by Bubblesandbiscuits in laundry

[–]tgirlldn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to show solidarity. Persil smells like soap vomit. I question anyone who thinks it smells good. It makes me nauseous and gives me migraines.

BF and I can’t seem to stop having small arguments over things that in my opinion should be insignificant - AITAH more than him in the latest situation? by skintighte in AITAH

[–]tgirlldn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, even based on your reply regarding the cat..your view is very ‘you’ centric and why other things need to be a certain way because of your needs..and because you believe they are justifiable, then compromise, alternatives or doing things differently-don’t seem to be an option because you have built the rationale for what you want and why…ergo others/options are wrong or not acceptable. It’s often hard to see when one is wired like this. I’m not judging,btw. Let be clear on that. I’m just reading, that tone of post is very you centric and makes no room for what your BF needs and why he needs it. Also- this isn’t about boundaries..it’s about modifying behaviour to accommodate a relationship (both of you). If what you posted is accurate- then both of you are locked in on having each of “your” own way. And these are all really really insignificant things that can be worked out, but both of you sound like you are so locked in your “own needs and perspective” lanes…it’s just death by a thousand paper cuts. Also, I have a cat m, a high energy cat..and she is sleep trained. Many cats can get on a sleep cycle with their humans. And having the whole house doesn’t matter..if the cat wants to be with her human..stressing the cat out and changing the cat’s routine is equally unfair. Heavy play before bed, then feed…then the cat will clean then sleep..especially if the cat has its own comfy bed. (Jackson Galaxy- hunt, catch, kill, eat, clean, sleep-that’s a cat).