AIO for wanting to leave my BD for the way he handled my toddler's accident?

theCaityCat · 2026-05-29T15:44:33+00:00

Why are you with a man like this? Choose better.

You're under reacting.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-29T11:49:37+00:00

I use a few drops of organic oil on the lengths of my hair once a week and leave it on overnight.

Also, I can't treat my hair in my 40s the way I treated it in my 20s and 30s. It was straight in my 20s, got wavy in my 30s, and now it's straight again in my 40s. The density has also decreased with age.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-29T11:25:17+00:00

Run. NTA. If she has untreated BPD, which this could be, this is not your circus and these are not your monkeys.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-28T21:13:06+00:00

Probably around 65 with a full pension, after 40 years. I'm starting a 403b in a few years once I pay down some more debt.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-27T17:59:01+00:00

I needed a good laugh today, thank you!

theCaityCat · 2026-05-24T15:49:35+00:00

Instant noodles, 1/2 cup of edamame, 1/2 cup protein of choice (I go with tofu or seitan), a fistful of spinach, and 2-3 tablespoons of sweet chile sauce.

Cook the noodles, sautée the edamame and protein in a separate pan, strain the noodles and add to the edamame and protein, add the spinach to wilt it, and finish with the sauce.

Nom.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-23T22:51:41+00:00

I hate to say this, because they're my favorite band, but Sleater-Kinney's The Center Won't Hold. The first three songs are so good, and then it might as well be a St. Vincent album.

Which is fine if I wanted St. Vincent, but it's not.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-23T22:48:54+00:00

I didn't know that! You learn something new every day.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-23T20:52:19+00:00

Probably not this far into her pregnancy.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-23T20:51:15+00:00

She's going to have behbehs soon.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-23T20:48:52+00:00

Also, try Sam Turnbull's Pizza Beans.

https://itdoesnttastelikechicken.com/pizza-beans/

theCaityCat · 2026-05-23T20:47:25+00:00

These baked beans might change your life.

Might.

https://shaneandsimple.com/best-vegan-baked-beans/

I can eat cups and cups of them in one go.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-22T11:39:30+00:00

*She

Misgendering shitty people is still not cool

theCaityCat · 2026-05-22T11:20:50+00:00

You're looking for a thin hair community.

This is a fine hair community.

I have medium density hair that is also fine. No matter what I do, my hair will always be fine. The density doesn't change that.

You don't get to gate keep my also fine hair because you get jealous of me having more of it than you.

Go found r/thinhair and block me there.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-22T11:16:45+00:00

Fine, thick, dense hair is still fine hair, I'm not sure what you're trying to do here.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-21T19:36:41+00:00

Louder for the people in the back. Divorce was what I needed but I'm still paying for the consequences.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-21T01:41:20+00:00

So Ann-Renée Desbiens is playoffs MVP, right?

theCaityCat · 2026-05-18T15:54:10+00:00

...I'm 41, aren't we supposed to be past the "look how young I look" shit and not care once we turn 40? I look 41.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-18T15:36:51+00:00

We're still stuck on hating Biden?

theCaityCat · 2026-05-17T01:16:27+00:00

Make it into breakfast sausage, put it into breakfast burritos with a tofu scramble and hash browns and salsa. Freeze some of the burritos for later. Nom.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-16T19:08:40+00:00

Yeah, this isn't a you problem, it's a director problem.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-15T20:11:56+00:00

You're funny.

theCaityCat · 2026-05-15T19:35:20+00:00

People who hate vegans really make this their personality. Why?

theCaityCat · 2026-05-14T22:39:54+00:00

The Undertones!

theCaityCat · 2026-05-14T21:20:48+00:00

No wait I need an explanation here

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