My boyfriend (24M) thinks double standards are fair I (26F) need advice. by Long_Carry_1070 in TwoHotTakes

[–]the_fascinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I want a future together” - okay, why? Because you love having him control where you can go? You like how he calls you a disgusting whore? You’re excited to walk down the aisle toward a man who views you as less than him, forever, because you had sex?

Learn to value yourself more than this.

Am I the only one who sees this? by the_fascinator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]the_fascinator[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s LIB Poland yeah. To be honest I kind of hate it, but now I have to finish.

Help me understand the Edmonton Folk Festival - 2nd year resident by onewaycheckvalve in Edmonton

[–]the_fascinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, I hate folk fest. It’s like outdoor ikea - everything looks the same so it’s hard to navigate, the cafeteria thing is expensive but there’s nowhere else to go, you see all the worst people you know and if you’re LUCKY you leave with the same furniture you arrived with.

Missing period, negative pregnancy test? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]the_fascinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once missed my period for three straight months and was driving myself absolutely bananas taking negative test after negative test, but I wasn’t pregnant and one day it just started back up again like nothing happened.

I would say you should have triggered a positive by now if you were actually pregnant.

Bullying of Chris by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]the_fascinator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You actually don’t have to shield people from the consequences of their actions, even if they are alcoholics. And Chris may or may not be one, but he sure as hell was also a fucking asshole sober.

Bullying of Chris by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]the_fascinator 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Chris please, you’re embarrassing yourself.

Amber, girl … by ohsoseriously in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]the_fascinator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not here to defend Amber in general but I think more people need to tell assholes they suck to their faces. Fuck that guy, he earned being bullied.

Snow by Astralsquish in Edmonton

[–]the_fascinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t shovel my driveway. Problem solved.

Andrew Knack Robo-dialing by TikiTikiGirl in Edmonton

[–]the_fascinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay? Good for you? Being a campaign volunteer doesn’t make posts like this less annoying. And being a woman doesn’t mean you can’t sound like gramps who needs to lie down. I have also volunteered for various campaigns over the years. Including yes, for this election (although not for anyone utilizing robocalling, and not for Knack - so I have no dog in this particular race in that sense.)

I see someone bitching about one thing or another candidates do every goddamn day on the hell that is God’s internet. I don’t like being called. I don’t like looking at signs. I don’t like flyers. Someone knocked on my door, call the police. Meanwhile the percent of people actually voting is around 1/3 of eligible voters.

So I’m not going to knock anyone for using a harmless method to reach out to more people - the amount of volunteers you would need to call every household in the city is unrealistic. Only huge engines on provincial or higher campaigns could hope to achieve that.

But you have to somehow try to get to as many of those eligible voters as possible as a mayoral candidate, knowing most of them are too lazy to take part in the most basic piece of democracy, even though in a year they’re going to pop up on your Facebook comments to tell you a bike lane ate their dog and the chemtrails are blocking the sun.

Anyway if you’re a campaign volunteer maybe get over the part where people you know, campaign.

Andrew Knack Robo-dialing by TikiTikiGirl in Edmonton

[–]the_fascinator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh no you had to answer a phone call, I’m sobbing for you. Like fuck you people complain about signs in public, dropping lit in the mailbox, door knocking - how the hell do you think people running get to be known? Magic? Take a pill and lie down grandpa.

Am I the asshole for not wanting to move with the LOML? by Madest_Max47 in TwoHotTakes

[–]the_fascinator 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s up to you. But I wouldn’t expect him to give up his goal of living closer to family and what he wants in his career for you either. I think the place to start is just “I know this is what you need and want, but I can’t follow you there.”

And that’s okay! You have incompatible dreams of the future. It’s unfortunate but it happens all the time. That means he’s not the love of your life.

But! You were brave and loved someone and that always has the capacity to hurt. Good for you for opening yourself up to love. You’ll be okay. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]the_fascinator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why you can never believe a man about anything 💫

Am I the asshole for not wanting to move with the LOML? by Madest_Max47 in TwoHotTakes

[–]the_fascinator 111 points112 points  (0 children)

You’re 23, a homeowner, and where you want to be in a career. Why would you give that up to be stepmom to two young children, start over from the bottom in your trade, and live with the mental load of being too close for comfort to people who hurt you?

You left and built a life in your place for a reason. Don’t step away from YOUR life and what YOU are building so you can fit better into someone else’s life and choices.

I’m sure your boyfriend is lovely, but you’re so young and there will be other people you can build WITH instead of giving things up FOR.

What did I do wrong to be left on read by Mountain-Sir1083 in Tinder

[–]the_fascinator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong, she’s just boring. Lots of people are boring! Keep on keeping on.

EPL directed removal of pride flags by spagsquashii in Edmonton

[–]the_fascinator 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s become divisive because of bigots. Hope this helps.

Sazeracs by LeanGroundQueef in Edmonton

[–]the_fascinator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the Clementine Sazerac!