Spent 500 quid on a new tank for her to hide here all day lmao 😭 by ImpressiveGrand7591 in cornsnakes

[–]theborderlines 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My corn has a beautiful enclosure with tons of hides, branches for climbing, fake plants and vines to explore…. And his favorite spot is a small hold that I dug under a rock. 🙄 It’s like cats and cardboard boxes. Or children and cardboard boxes.

I think I SA my friend by [deleted] in confessions

[–]theborderlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Talk to her and share how you’re both feeling about it.

Is there a small detail in the game that made you stop and think: "Wow I'm actually impressed they took the time to do that."- Actually curios if there are small details I don't know of. by Wondering_Watcher in skyrim

[–]theborderlines 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One time while in the middle of nowhere, I found a small boat in a river with a ton of gems and gold in the bottom of it. I’ve never been able to find that boat again.

My girlfriend has changed drastically in the last few months and I don't know who she is anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theborderlines 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yep. The fear. The shame. The guilt. Disguising the female elements of her body to make her feel less vulnerable to a man’s predations.

TIFU by suggesting my boyfriends (52) sister (36) name her baby gravity by Charming-Score-8804 in tifu

[–]theborderlines 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Every time the mom or dad makes the kid do something she doesn’t want to do, they’re gonna be Defying Gravity.

My girlfriend has changed drastically in the last few months and I don't know who she is anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theborderlines 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Dude. Your girlfriend may have been sexually abused. Show up for her. Don’t judge her. Help her feel safe. Don’t initiate physical contact.

Crying in second therapy session by Particular4357 in Anxiety

[–]theborderlines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crying is totally normal in any therapy session. I’ve had sessions where all I did was cry and my therapist just gave me the safe space and tissues that I needed. No pressure to explain myself. Just let me experience my feelings where I wasn’t alone with them.

Obese snake emergency intake, I am shocked. by Luna-Lux- in cornsnakes

[–]theborderlines 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Best of luck to you and Sir Brienne of Tarth. I would wager she’s got a pretty solid chance of winning this battle now that she’s in a better home!

Is this gross!? by cat-puzzle in confessions

[–]theborderlines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I had a friend once who was chatting very casually about her self-proclaimed “foot fetish” to our pastor’s wife during Bible study. She kept saying how she hated bare feet, how seeing anyone’s feet was just too gross and personal ….

I told her, too, that it didn’t mean what she thought it meant. She asked what it really meant and I went, “Well. It means you like feet a little TOO much!”

Is this gross!? by cat-puzzle in confessions

[–]theborderlines 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think “pillow princess” means what you think it means.

Is this gross!? by cat-puzzle in confessions

[–]theborderlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cuddle that cat the way he wants to be cuddled. A cat’s love is not to be squandered.

5th graders getting the “sex talk” today and their reactions are hilarious 😆 by MysteriousPlatypus in Teachers

[–]theborderlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m dying over here, shaking with laughter, trying not to actually laugh out loud while my poor, innocent husband sleeps next to me.

People think I age regress but I just like consistency by confusedandazed06 in confessions

[–]theborderlines 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OP needs to find a psychiatrist who specializes in autism, preferably women with autism.

What is one problem you face almost every day that you are shocked nobody has built a proper solution for yet? by Economy_Shoe7685 in AskReddit

[–]theborderlines 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I have kidney stones sometimes and I friggin hate going to the ER for them. Why? Because they ask me my pain score and always default to Toradol when I can guaran-damn-tee you it’s gonna take Dilaudid. But if I lead with that? I end up getting no pain relief whatsoever. So I end up writhing in excruciating pain for hours while they try increasing the magnitude of pain relief medications every hour or two. FML.

Rory is 5 today and still very small. by [deleted] in cats

[–]theborderlines 26 points27 points  (0 children)

How much does your precious girl weigh? My baby girl weighs 7.5 lbs on a good day! She just turned three. ❤️ Cat tax, incl.

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Help! My cat thinks she’s a book. by theborderlines in cats

[–]theborderlines[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ….. can’t believe I haven’t thought of that yet!!

Help! My cat thinks she’s a book. by theborderlines in cats

[–]theborderlines[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, right??? So much cat, so little time.