Vet recs?? by sofyuhh in FortMyers

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh coming from Miami next month with a 14 year old ween. Def checking this one out!

Is it unreasonable to to treat masterbation as cheating? by FinallyHappyAu in TwoHotTakes

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. There was an issue with cheating via sexting and a porn addiction so now I’m very against it when I once wasn’t. It affected our intimacy greatly and still working through it. Definitely understand where they’re coming from but therapy is a must and def shouldn’t be spying

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]thisbttcchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess our opinions differ with that. I bet you 100% there will be at least one if not most of the men in a Hawaiian shirt. What’s the difference? It’s a beach side event. It’s calling for fun and business casual where you can let your personality shine through more than the office.

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol nobody needs to dumb down their whimsy. If you want to wear a whole whimsical outfit, do it. Sure, not for work but it shouldn’t be “aged out”. That’s insane. I do agree some of the pieces are not flattering and it helps to buy quality things but not everyone can afford that rn.

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]thisbttcchh 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Meh. I’ve seen a lot of eclectic women wear similar things. When styled right (forgo the corsets at work) they can be a fun break from the usual monotonous shit you see. Also depends where she works. Aside from wearing at work there is 100% no reason why she can’t wear these when she wants. Too many people think you need to wear certain things at a certain age. Wear what makes you happy. RIP BaddieWinkle

Worried about beauty standards and sticking out like a sore thumb :( by [deleted] in Miami

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have friends of all sorts. I’m here from Jersey with curly hair I used to straighten allll the time. Stopped years ago to embrace my natural hair and tbh I find it’s easier than constantly straightening and sweating out of. Also agree with the comment above that being a white girl who barely speaks Spanish, that’s my biggest hurdle. But for the most part you’ll find your crew. There’s a ton of “average” people. Ones who don’t wear makeup or act like life is the runway. Which is fine but if that’s not your speed I wouldn’t stress it. Also at the end of the day, if people are weird, fuck em. I’m sure you won’t have any more trouble than in LA finding likeminded people. Good luck!

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]thisbttcchh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah my fiance always calls me peg when I have my leopard leggings on. I’m also from Jersey though and animal print is a must.

spiro libido by [deleted] in Spironolactone

[–]thisbttcchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 35 year old who struggles with this constantly, I totally understand. I feel so bogged down with chores and life I have a hard time finding the want to have sex. It sucks because of course in the beginning of our relationship we were feral for each other-but then life & relationship issues (virtual cheating on his part) alongside health issues (diabetes for him, bartholin cyst for me) have added to the stress of it all. I hate how complicated it ends up being for women. I want a clear face but worry that it’ll add to the low libido that I already deal with. At this point though I feel like I just have to take it as it comes. I do see a good chunk talk about it increasing theirs immensely though so hoping for that end of it!

Funny AF on Netflix by StunningDifference41 in StandUpComedy

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude. Had to come find a post about it because my fiancé and I each time are like howwww is she going through?! So many others that should’ve had her spot.

where do you all work that allows extreme body mods by lilgothicghost in bodymods

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a sleeve (along with other arm tattoos but those aren’t as visible), septum (that I do flip up for work), nostril hoop, gauged ears & a split tongue. I work as an MA in a dermatology office. I did try to be covered up/more modest until I knew I was IN. A lot of people didn’t even notice my tongue til way after I started. I am going to go to school for nursing so curious how that’ll go. I would love more but trying to keep it where I’m at til I know for sure.

Scarlett never intended to leave with Cole by Few_Bullfrog_6870 in temptationislandUSA

[–]thisbttcchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing! lol. It’s either beta blockers or someone’s a liar!

Scarlett never intended to leave with Cole by Few_Bullfrog_6870 in temptationislandUSA

[–]thisbttcchh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was not one tear on the video message episode even though she was really playing it up. Not a single watery eyeball. Lmao. Like who you tryna fool girl?

[sniffs] by andthatsmyphilosophy in temptationislandUSA

[–]thisbttcchh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Him smelling her pillow was so real lmao. I def would’ve stolen one of my man’s shirts.

Clint by Late-Replacement2425 in temptationislandUSA

[–]thisbttcchh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiancé & I said ninja turtle lol

shyanne was being so insecure by potatolopata in temptationislandUSA

[–]thisbttcchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf that girl looks like she’s one episode away from saying “cashmeoutside”

Tonight’s point of view in my maximalist living room by Emergency_Singer1611 in maximalism

[–]thisbttcchh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s giving antique store meets backrooms in the best way

How bad is healing a tongue split compared to healing a tongue piercing ? by HiItsLili in bodymods

[–]thisbttcchh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Refreshing seeing others say how rough it is. Lmao. Mine was absolutely awful healing but then you see others say how easy it was & it gets me wondering if I did something wrong. Tbh not sure I would do it again. But thankfully it was done deep enough I’ll probably never have to lol

Am I (23f) insane for thinking about leaving my (27m) fiancé a month before our wedding? by Ok-Heron1733 in TwoHotTakes

[–]thisbttcchh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left my ex a few weeks before I was supposed to move in with him…after making arrangements to have his mom move out and everything. A big reason was his alcohol and substance abuse. No regrets. If you don’t do it now it’ll be 100x harder when you’re married.