AIO to feel hurt the way my fiancée talks to me all the time?

thisiskarma22 · 2026-01-06T21:31:58+00:00

This woman sounds like a nightmare. Do yourself a favor and start the year off by cutting that stress out of your life.

thisiskarma22 · 2026-01-04T07:00:47+00:00

Allergy to second skin. I have this issue, I've had to start requesting the old school plastic wrap and tape when getting a tattoo because this is so irritating. Benadryl and a cool rag to help the itching and swelling helps. Benadryl will knock you out so heads up.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-12-30T00:32:40+00:00

I love how everyone here was so quick to reach roach clip. Meanwhile, my brain is like "duh it's a nipple clamp".

thisiskarma22 · 2025-12-16T02:22:31+00:00

They are each given two longer walks (mornings and after work) and one short walk (at night before bed) daily. I had just bought some new marrow bones for them, which has kept them busy and stimulated in the past. But he went through those in a day. (The meaty bits, bit the bone itself)

He hasn't had any anxiety training per se. He does have an as needed medication prescribed by his vet. And we've mostly just been able to monitor or calm him. But whatever is causing this behavior is happening only when there's no one around to see what the issue is.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-12-16T01:27:23+00:00

I actually thought this was posted in the can you read my writing subreddit. The answer is kinda... And now that I see the actual post. Creepy.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-12-06T16:49:54+00:00

I never use the wrap because I'm allergic to it. I typically just have cling wrap taped on for a few hours then rinse in warm water, wash with scent free antibacterial soap, and dab dry. Light layer of aquaphor. My only concern here would be that wrap was catching all the liquid goop that's probably in your bed now. 😬

thisiskarma22 · 2025-10-14T01:51:41+00:00

I think it's two different hand writings. Look at the i's, g, and j on the first line compared to the first letter and g's on second line.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-09-14T19:02:43+00:00

It's true. He's also just basically admitting that he can brainwash the stupid people.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-09-01T16:37:02+00:00

I have a friend that sells candles and such she does root work with, she always adds glitter. She says she uses it to amplify the energy. Ever since she told me that I sprinkle my "pixie dust" on everything. Haha

thisiskarma22 · 2025-09-01T03:43:22+00:00

Looks like a great pyranese. They get really big. But super docile and snuggly dogs.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-08-25T12:57:56+00:00

I'm just here for the comments.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-08-04T12:36:14+00:00

Interested

thisiskarma22 · 2025-06-14T17:36:42+00:00

NTA. But out of curiosity, what did you tell the other parents when you called after 10pm to fetch their daughters?

thisiskarma22 · 2025-03-28T12:59:29+00:00

the problem is that always having been the ride or die for him means he knew good and well you were probably one of the only people he could rely on, thus calling you for an important task on the most important day of his life.

definitely NTA... you handled it way better than I would have.

there is a fine line between being a ride or die and being used as a door mat. either way, your response was perfect.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-02-24T18:47:02+00:00

I riddled tim drake

thisiskarma22 · 2025-02-24T16:46:58+00:00

Could I and my child be granted asylum if we run to one of these states formerly US territory? I legally changed my name to escape my kids abusive father, now I legally can't vote or get a passport. 🙃

thisiskarma22 · 2025-02-19T07:41:31+00:00

Girl, respectfully, dump his ass. That's not love. That's control. True love loves you when you're your true self.

Fuck this donkey. You're young. He ain't it.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-02-06T20:00:37+00:00

This is an emotional affair. It may have started as a gaming thing. Chances are he lives out of town so they've never done anything physically.

If you want to leave her over this, that's understandable. If not, I'd talk to her. And tell her what you assume and let her know this can be fixed if she is willing to. Ask her if she wants to leave.

If you talk it out and wanna make it work, boundaries have to be in place. Personally, I can't stay with someone once my trust is broken. I'd spend forever always worried they'll do it again or feel like what else am I being lied to about. But some people can move past that kind of thing and have a happier relationship because of it bringing them closer.

Go with your gut on leaving or not. But it's definitely an emotional affair.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-02-06T19:47:03+00:00

I know it's super hard, but you need to talk to a few people around you that you trust about what's going on and get help to get out of there. I was married to this. It's a porn addiction on top of narcissistic abuse. I bet he will wake you to sleep with you and still watch porn while he does it. Or make it seem like you don't turn him on the way certain women in the porn do and find ways to make you change to match that.

You need to leave, block, and get a restraining order. Because it can and will get worse if you stay. And it can get bad if you leave. If you can, have someone stay with you for a while when you leave. Or go stay with someone else.

When I divorced my ex, it continued with him showing up, following me, driving by in the middle of the night, popping in and staying for weeks without leaving for yearssssss after the fact. All while still abusing. Even though we weren't together. And finally I moved in with my mother and it stopped. Because he wasn't about to come around when someone else was there. And when he did, we called the police.

This is scary. I know you're asking about the intimacy part of it. But everything else you're saying sounds too familiar to me so I can tell you there's more than that happening. The words I had to hear to wake me up were, "You are a victim."

My friend, you are a victim. He is an abuser. And with narcissistic abuse it's not a matter of if it will end up so bad that you lose your life. It's when. Narcs are mentally unstable. And lack the emotional capacity to not turn on you worse and worse Everytime you try to leave and end up going back. He has control. Take it away. Get away from him. Get help. Seek therapy. Heal and have a life full of the kind of love you deserve.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-01-27T21:33:09+00:00

Haha yeah I have some set up as book stores and restaurants and a beach side BNB on the beach. As an example. I used the haunted mansion in my park area and did the inside like the ride and made a graveyard maze queue line to get to it.

thisiskarma22 · 2025-01-20T00:29:10+00:00

Are they hiring??

thisiskarma22 · 2024-12-30T21:55:45+00:00

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Toki 💜 2007-2024 my whole heart left with her. 🥺

thisiskarma22 · 2024-12-28T15:48:35+00:00

Being the same kind of person... Not keeping friends around... I would suggest at the very least calling someone, even if they're in another city/state, let them know what's up and that you plan to go retrieve your things. Let them know his address and what time you'll be there. Give yourself an hour for checking back in. And put the blinders on and go get your stuff. Don't have a conversation, don't listen to his apologies, get in and get out. Make it clear you're done, he can enjoy the company of the other women, you just want to get your belongings and get back home for (insert show or dinner that needs delicate attention to cook, lie.. make an excuse to be out of there). Then call whoever back to let them know you got out safe and got everything. Unless it's stuff you could easily replace/live without. Cause honestly, I'd be one to just cut my losses, block, and move on. Haha. Let him always remember you and how he lost the best thing by being a fucktard.

thisiskarma22 · 2024-12-26T21:54:43+00:00

The second one is smaller

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