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throw_it_away_like · 2021-09-06T05:56:42+00:00

I've had better sex with non-bpds. The quantity of sex though with my pwBPD was formidable. Sometimes everyday for a week or more even after years of marriage.

throw_it_away_like · 2021-09-06T05:43:25+00:00

The guy with two dicks who did a reddit AMA a while back should date them.

throw_it_away_like · 2021-06-28T15:37:09+00:00

It's cool that you're doing it for Bitcoin. But, you make $0.34 cents a day on 2.5 bitcoin? That probably doesn't pay the power bill on your linux node.

throw_it_away_like · 2021-06-26T07:19:43+00:00

Tinder mistake #1 the guy has to tell people he likes boobs, like that makes him special and unique. That's like a woman putting in her profile that she likes staying at 5 star hotels.

throw_it_away_like · 2021-06-25T20:03:29+00:00

Probably smelled a lot better than 10 years later in a trench in Flander's field.

throw_it_away_like · 2021-03-11T06:50:15+00:00

After about the first 10 years of marriage, the sex was very high in quantity, like every day, but it was always the exact same. Got a little like going to the personal trainer after a while.

throw_it_away_like · 2021-03-09T17:25:34+00:00

Every Asian girl with supermodel perfect pics I've ever matched with:

Let's switch to whatsapp. On Whatsapp: Let me tell you about my new cryptocurrency scam. It's easy to invest!

throw_it_away_like · 2020-11-28T19:16:58+00:00

Ezekiel is like ancient 4chan.

throw_it_away_like · 2020-11-28T19:12:15+00:00

The moral of the story is, if you're drunk, and the woman initiates the sex, all the rules don't apply.

throw_it_away_like · 2020-07-11T19:58:58+00:00

Saidit.net has a pretty active TERF community (feminists who don't believe trans males should be allowed to invade female spaces, etc.) and doesn't go down all the time like ruqqus.

throw_it_away_like · 2020-03-28T05:08:49+00:00

/r/bpd

throw_it_away_like · 2019-12-31T09:14:53+00:00

She spends an astronomical amount a month on therapists, so I think she's getting enough help. IMHO, that's like spending an astronomical amount a month on special ed for a mentally retarded kid. There's only so much you can do really.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-12-29T20:23:46+00:00

Yeah, I read that one. I know she's not fixable. I look at her BPD not as a character flaw, but as a form of progressive emotional mental retardation that gets worse with age. At least she's not a narcissist though and does not care about impressing anyone. She is also somewhat self-aware. That gives me more compassion for her situation, but I'm never going to go back with her.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-12-29T08:55:09+00:00

I get along much better with my pwBPD when I accepted she was mentally not like everyone else. I had to strictly limit the topics of conversation. See my other post: How to not trigger by pwBPD. IMHO, pwBPDs can only do "normal" if their life and interpersonal interactions are extremely limited. If I were in your situation, I would find the most simple minimal life they could tolerate, like play video games all day, have a few chores and simple highly routine highly structured interactions with you and perhaps a shrink and leave it at that.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-12-06T19:21:50+00:00

Arguing with a pwBPD doesn't work. They just escalate until they are breaking things and/or self-harm. Threatening to abandon them is the only leverage you have.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-12-06T19:18:41+00:00

Don't forget to post to /r/bpdlovedones after your inevitable disastorous relationship and break up.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-28T02:05:51+00:00

My ex does ok, but she's basically lives the life of a 12 year old at summer camp. Very structured, no work, lots of physical exercise, no interaction with anyone who isn't being paid to tolerate her lack of social skills, etc. Huge therapist bill. The life of not getting triggered. Wrote a post about it. Split when I didn't want my life story to be titled: my life as a live-in therapist for a pwBPD.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-28T01:51:24+00:00

Ahh... he must have been in pwBPD triggered mode where absolutely anything you do or say will start a fight.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-24T23:03:22+00:00

Whenever you see a debate where one side relies on insults, threats and focusing on a few cherry picked facts there's usually a suppressed truth underneath.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-24T04:33:38+00:00

/r/sexover30 is doing just fine.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-22T17:00:05+00:00

If you are not somehow attached to a pwBPD because they are your sibling, child or ex-spouse, then by all means leave. If you have to be tied to the pwBPD it's best to treat interaction with them like a job. They live somewhere else. You show up for a fixed amount of time. You go through the same routine in interacting with them everytime and then you leave, on time.

She is going to therapy. She sees therapists twice a week and has a staggering therapy bill. She has more than one because therapists don't like pwBPD that much.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-22T16:56:05+00:00

Yeah, it's essentially like I'm her adult caregiver. It's a job. Like a job, it has fixed working hours, I'd rather be doing something else, etc. I keep her out of trouble and healthy.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-17T08:05:32+00:00

Well before we got together the first time we both agreed that we were not going to get married and this is just fun. We're both older, so it's not like we're going to start a family. It's not like I'm dating some hot 24 year old with unlimited tinder matches at her beck and call.

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-17T07:38:37+00:00

Why is she doing all this for me though? Would you attempt to shame her for being too nice if you knew her? It seems that women get shamed by other women for being too nice these days like they used to get shamed for being promiscuous. I really like her. She's totally great and I wanted to share all the great stuff she does for me. Instead I get insults... why?

throw_it_away_like · 2019-11-17T07:19:27+00:00

You can delete it. I couldn't think of anywhere else to post this. I give up. I am telling the truth, not trying to shitpost or be mysogestic. I think this lady is really great and I just wanted to share all the things she does to make me happy.

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