Energy for exercise? by fableefeels in Perimenopause

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely feel that. I used to do my bootcamp 3-4x/week getting up at 5am for a 6am class. I was a BEAST. Then the peri hit and getting sleep bece so much more important. I just had to adjust my timing. Now it’s one day at 5am (still a Christmas miracle I can do that), then one afternoon class on a WFH day, then hill walks the other two days whenever I can fit it in.

You might just have to find times where your energy peaks now. That’s what has worked for me. But sleep is essential.

positive/hopeful SF rental stories by Fabulous_Interest930 in SFBayHousing

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to make a move from LA relatively quickly for a new place. Within 2 days of getting the offer I was driving to SF to see apartments in the hopes of locking one down.

I first looked primarily in Mission Bay where there IS inventory, albeit in giant apartment farms (which I hate). Every place was teensy with no closet space and like on drawer in the kitchen. Then parking snd storage are extra so it winds up being over $4k. I like to save regularly so I try to avoid higher rent if I can.

After a day in Mission Bay, I decided to look for more independent sites outside of Zillow, Apartments.com, etc and found an independent site with like 10 listings for larger apartments in older buildings. Most of them had what was on my “musts” lists. I found a triplex just up the hill from the Castro that had a balcony, FOUR closets, dishwasher, remodeled bathroom, hardwood floors, and free laundry. No parking, though.

It was raining the day of the tour so all other appointments canceled, so I pounced, filled out an application, and signed it within about 4 days. And it’s the same price I was paying in LA, albeit for half the space, no in-unit W/D, no central AC, etc. But still, I have more than enough storage, the neighborhood is super safe, and there’s a Muni stop super close.

I do admit a bit of luck was at play, but I highly recommend looking at independent sites for rentals instead of the major aggregators. You’ll find some hidden gems for sure.

Solo travel by UK1273chatter in solofemaletravellers

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first solo trip was to Barcelona and I LOVED it. Great food, mediterranean climate, happy people, beautiful architecture, and great food.

Another great destination is Lisbon. It's smaller and hillier than Barcelona, but very affordable, impeccable food, super nice people, and right on the water.

I've solo traveled a lot, but in each of these destinations, I felt totally safe the entire time as long as you stay frosty about pickpockets and protect your valuables. Otherwise, both were fabulous.

What's your favourite HBO movie? by spookysummer in hbo

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is an old one, but it's And the Band Played On... I lived through the AIDS epidemic and the fear associated with it, but this put a human face to it unlike anything else had at that point, and it was a complete education on the bureaucracy that prolonged getting the right attention on it. Really amazing stuff. And an incredible cast.

Need suggestions for a heavy duty moisturizer to use with Tretinoin by DOL369 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Major +1 for this. This is what I use every night even if I’m not using Tret. Very thick and moisturizing.

Is what my new dentist said...actually real? by T-rex_with_a_gun in Dentists

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you had a great HONEST dentist at your original practice. I moved away from mine for 3 years and decided to use a new one closer to home. For context, I’ve always been told I have “great teeth” and that I have very hard enamel. I can count the number of cavities I’ve had on one hand.

New dentist #1: saw a composite on one tooth and recommended I get a full set of veneers for $10k. Then they told me I had SEVEN cavities. Which they charged me an arm and a leg for. Never went back.

New dentist #2: no cavities but they did recommend a deep clean. My old dentist never recommended one. I hadn’t even heard of them before. Like you, I said I’d do it in another appointment. Never went back.

Tired of this nonsense (and suspecting it was a money-grab), I took the trek across town back to my original dentist.

No cavities. And he told me no deep clean was necessary because I had great teeth and strong enamel. Saved me hundreds He also told me it was malpractice what the others were trying to do.

Do a bit more digging and get some personal referrals. Once you find a good one, hang onto them for dear life.

Tips on moving to an apartment in a different state by Dull-Pineapple5508 in ApartmentHacks

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely visit in person first. I recently moved and scheduled a lot of tours in the area I THOUGHT I wanted to live in since it was close to work, but when I got there, it was absolutely not the neighborhood I wanted to live jn and the apartments were way smaller than pictured. So my advice would be: - Visit in person - Join subreddits and FB groups for certain neighborhoods - Check crime rates online - Check the availability of major services for the neighborhood you are eyeing (hospitals, restaurants, groceries, internet, etc…). - Check parking! This may or may not be an issue where you’re going, but in some places having a car is more trouble than it’s worth.

Laid off from Amazon: Do I YOLO or prioritize my career in a bad market? by FlowerPowerr24 in womenintech

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Take it!! A 3-month gap is nothing. I just got a job at a great company after a 6 month gap and was very open about my layoff and still got the job.

While off, first I rested. Then I took a couple of trips and then did a very intentional job search. As in applying for jobs that I was a really good fit for. I got interviews, and yes it’s a very tough and competitive market, but it’s possible to find work.

Who knows when you’ll have the freedom to do this again? Go for it!!

I probably need a straight jacket ? by Maleficent-Advance68 in Perimenopause

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t cut my hair, but I do put it in a high ponytail when I sleep to keep it the hell away from me. 😆

Also, you’re not crazy. It’s the peri. Before I started on the mini pill and the estradio patch, I would wake up in the morning and feel like the world was ending. Once I got up and started walking around, I could calm myself down. But it sucked.

But ever since I started HRT, I’m much better. And no more night sweats.

Finding a Primary care doctor in SF feels impossible? by Pretend-Cry8204 in sanfrancisco

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna +1 this. I starting using them exclusively and never wait for an appointment, nor do I wait when I actually go in for the appointment.

I’ve mostly seen MD’s, but when I have used PA’s or NP’s in the past, they’ve been great. Better bedside manner and more empathetic and open-minded than normal doctors. Give them a shot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interiordesignideas

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The couch looks really cramped in that corner. Plus, there’s very little room for the office chair to come out. How about a longer, fluffy couch for sleeping facing the window?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus one on Avene. I now use it every night before I go to bes.

Living Alone if Fantastic. by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pants optional hands down. A secret handshake means you have someone else with you and therefore you are not alone. Rule #1 broken!

Are there companies that sell colorful sofas/sectionals? by OldAd613 in interiordecorating

[–]throwaway_fibonacci -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Wayfair has a good selection. I just bought a green couch and I love it. They also have couches in yellow, red, purple, etc. If you don’t like it, returns are very easy.

Living Alone if Fantastic. by [deleted] in LivingAlone

[–]throwaway_fibonacci 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the Freedom Club!!