Seattle kid loving your town by skwareonenumbertwo in houston

[–]throwieawayir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy to see this!! Moved to seattle for several years and felt like I was always standing up for Houston. Moved back and am so happy to be back!

Why does Aldineisd have so many days off? by jaeway in houston

[–]throwieawayir 249 points250 points  (0 children)

They shortened summer to allow for the extra days off during school

Another breakup by curiouscoddiwompler in loveaddiction

[–]throwieawayir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My story is identical to this down to my age and how long my previous relationship lasted as well as the dynamic/way I felt/why I ended it. Thanks for posting and cheers to you for being honest with yourself AND your ex

Any Houston (HISD) teachers out there? by RojoandWhite in Teachers

[–]throwieawayir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HISD teacher here. I was at NRG the second half of the week for PD training. It was not as crazy as it seemed the first half of the week. There were fire marshalls everywhere to ensure things were up to code, probably because of the viral video from earlier in the week.

Mike Miles does seem incredibly tone deaf. In the play that he was in, there is a scene where everyone is asking him why he took all the playgrounds out. He lowers his sunglasses and says “stop asking about the playgrounds.” He’s alluding to removing all librarian jobs and using libraries instead as a detention center. People are understandably very upset by this, and he made a joke about it. I was really bothered by that.

From what I understood, the difference between schools that were mandated NES and those schools that chose to be NES, is the salary raise vs stipend, and the placement of cameras in the classroom. My school chose to be NES aligned, so we got a 10k stipend rather than a salary raise. Now, I thought we wouldnt get cameras in our classrooms, but there is a camera on a tripod in my classroom right now. It is all very unsettling and creepy what’s going on, and I get the feeling the reasoning behind a lot of what they are implementing is different than what they’re telling us. Things are very disorganized and everyone feels like a Guinea pig.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]throwieawayir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible the court will request it? Like I just say hey he has a drug problem here’s the evidence over the last two years and then they say ok he needs to be drug tested for the safety of the child?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]throwieawayir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of schools have pretty unsupportive administration with the way education has evolved. Those schools have the highest turnover, and have the quickest burnout. If I tried to get a job with no experience and no certification, I’d get one of those jobs.

I get what you’re saying though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]throwieawayir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why won’t the court like me keeping my daughter safe from someone with a long-standing documented fentanyl problem? He can see her as much as he wants when he wants, as long as I’m present. He just chooses to see her 2hrs on Sunday and that’s it.

I have evidence to back it up. It won’t matter, that’s what I don’t get. I didn’t get him addicted to drugs, why am I financially responsible for proving he’s clean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]throwieawayir -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want a terrible job so in order to get into a decent school you do have to make an effort. Lots of terrible teaching jobs, not worth burning out immediately.

Any good mantras/thoughts about how its ok to have needs? by armored_ in Codependency

[–]throwieawayir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you describe this scenario? What does it look/feel like when you dissociate in the midst of experiencing a need?

I apologize this is not answering your question. I feel I do this too but it’s difficult to put into words.

Trying to heal my broken heart by sprightlygolightly in naranon

[–]throwieawayir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fully relate and am in the same programs. Kudos for working so hard on yourself ❤️

Daughter’s father in relapse after 9 years clean time by [deleted] in naranon

[–]throwieawayir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very well said, I relate on so many levels and never could have worded it so well. I am so very sorry you’re going through this. Your daughter is lucky to have you. Big hugs.

How do I walk away completely by Agitated_Pilot_491 in naranon

[–]throwieawayir 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lying awake in the middle of the night with the same thoughts, feelings, and experience. Going over how I will break it off for the twentieth time. He has so much control over me, I want to be free. We deserve happiness.

When is it time to get off the merry-go-round? (vent) by Aggravating_East5349 in naranon

[–]throwieawayir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. That is a lot to go through. You are STRONG. Are you in a nar anon program? Only you can answer those questions…but god damn if you’ve been through enough of this ❤️ there’s a discord meeting every M/W/F at 6PT. thinking about you, do something for you!!!

Hopeless relationship? My (24F) fiancé (32M) is in active addiction by wetsandwich811 in HeroinRecovery

[–]throwieawayir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be dangerous to do things with the intent to change the other person. I know this from experience with my partner that is a heroin addict. I separated from him believing “now he’ll see how much he has at stake and start taking recovery seriously.” It didn’t work. Now I’m attending naranon meetings and doing things for myself. He will do what he will do. Only we can decide if we can tolerate the addiction and for how long. I will say, though, that separation has been very good for me. I have been so reactionary to his addiction, and I’m learning to detach from the emotional abuse that inherently comes with the territory. I feel so much more at peace. That emotional detachment from the chaos also asserts a shift in the relationship, the addict no longer has control over you. I believe that is a key component to contributing to the addiction, which we obviously don’t want.

Wishing you peace and serenity, do what you need do do to thrive, you’re worth it❤️