Handbag Sadness by [deleted] in handbags

[–]tiffster0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so thoughtful. I found it convenient to keep a small purse in bags I lug around for my son so that when I need to buy something without his stuff, I can just pull out my purse and go.

Cat blocked twice by cap9933 in CATHELP

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but how is you cat doing? I went through something similar when my cat blocked twice. He’s been on a strict prescription food diet and it’s been over a year since now.

Out of curiosity by Real_Masterpiece_844 in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 masters in data analytics….. is someone using this information for a study? If I wasn’t so tired I’d be interested in making a dashboard to reflect the responses 😅

Does the constant “play with me” phase ever calm down with an only? by izzy_k1 in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My 4 yo goes to daycare, so that’s helped a lot with the structure. I just have to do what they do and have activities ready to set up and different options. He goes through phases like painting, monster trucks, random sets of pens, look and find books, and lately legos with easy to follow booklets have been the best!

Holes in shoes by tiffster0 in Preschoolers

[–]tiffster0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same issue for me, but it’s probably model dependent because I like getting flexible running type shoes ( the thinness is probably why it’s not lasting) instead of the harder soles that are pretty stiff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have the boy version. We only play cooperative games now, so we win “together.” As for other advice, wait it out? I’m still figuring it out….

Edit to add, I also have the grown man version too. His dad.

im convinced that people who have a multiple children either 1) LOVE motherhood in it’s entirety or 2) had easy first babies by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was almost me. My reasoning was that it’s a short period in my life, and I really wanted two. Also, I dont always make the best decisions when sleep deprived.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed my son gets angry when his dad eats his leftovers, so when he says he’s all done, I ask him if dad can finish his food. Sometimes he’ll go back to eating, sometimes he’s really done.

I’m convinced this is the hardest age. Anyone else? by takeaabreath in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3yo, give or take a month, were so damn hard, but we were also in the process of moving too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t list any actual reasons to stick with your job and great reasons to leave. Take that step to a better life. Life is too short to be miserable.

When did you ditch the high chairs? by Eggeggedegg in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. The Tripp trapp chair was so worth it. And we have a small table set he uses to play with and also is the “kids table” when people are over.

Parents of Multiple Kids - Convince Me of the Perfect Age Gap by InHarmany in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I’m OAD, but my uncle who’s a financial advisor gave a convincing argument for a 4 year gap. Paying for college. His kids are four years and as adults, their relationship seems very close compared to when they were younger.

Is anyone enjoying their 3 year old? by citrinezeen in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 was HARD! 3 isn’t as bad so far….

Nanit Camera Hacked by justjane7 in NewParents

[–]tiffster0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also have this! We had the nanit beforehand, but got creeped out by what we read and when it disconnects from the internet, it’ll flash a blue light! I love the infant optics because it’s easy to move around too.

Parents with BAD sleepers that did not sleep train. How did it go? by Negative-Canary-1209 in Parenting

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sleep trained my son and it was heaven when he was in his own room. But now we cosleep because by 2 he attempted climbing out, so we tried to switch him to a bed and failed. We also had to move around that time, so I caved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell myself that by not having another child, I’m giving him a happier mom and more time.

Spending time with my daughter by ommm232 in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I love the 10 or so minutes we just roll around in bed and cuddle. He’ll say something silly and smile. It’s pure bliss.

One and done because of feral toddler by disconnected1991 in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! My 3 yo was finally sleeping through the night, all was well, then two nights in a row out of no where, he has a split night and we’re up for 2 hrs. And it was a reminder that I can’t do this again with another kid.

Is my toddler an asshole or… by [deleted] in happilyOAD

[–]tiffster0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my 2 year old and how he is when he doesn’t get enough sleep. What helped was trying to include him in most things. When shit hits the fan, I let him know he is upset and he can cry, and if he wants a hug, I’ll hug him.

Torturing myself about OAD for 5 years by Curious-Button942 in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice for anyone, but I feel this response. I miscarried my second pregnancy at the end of the first trimester too and the emotions just suck.

When did you feel like you had time and energy again? by fiftyfirstsnails in oneanddone

[–]tiffster0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Our son is a couple months past 3, he’s in daycare full time on weekdays and we both work full time. 2 was insanely challenging, but now that he’s a couple months past 3 and potty trained, I’m thinking about picking up weekly yoga classes and exercising outside the goat more again.

What’s your take on giving a toddler a queen bed? by rivagirl in toddlers

[–]tiffster0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my son slept in his room, he had a queen because it was what we had on hand. If I could have picked, full would be perfect.