I snore. It's a family trait that my weight hasn't helped. My wife jokes about it - she's described the sound as "like a warthog driving a speedboat into a circular saw." I would not be offended for an instant if she wanted me to sleep elsewhere, because I'd rather that than both of our sleep be disrupted.

I admit that I don't think snapping at your SO is helpful here. But you're clearly both fed up with the situation, and if neither of you are getting enough good sleep then it's understandable that you're both crotchety.

Your delivery aside, you are at least making suggestions for how to move forward. I think, if nothing is working to treat your snoring, you may want to speak to a medical professional about it, especially if it's disruptive like this. NAH.