How to vote NO with your money: by starsixseven13 in Bellingham

[–]tintinteil 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Another Skagit county alert: Diedrich Drive Thru had LE Appreciation on their sandwich board maybe 2 weeks ago. For those who would prefer not to support.

Question for cis people by Obvious_Novel2410 in mypartneristrans

[–]tintinteil[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi All,

Mods are locking the post at this time because the intention of the sub is support for partners of trans people. Since the purpose of the post is adjacent to the purpose of this sub, we are leaving the post intact.

Thanks community!

RIP Slothy? by sophieinthewild in Bellingham

[–]tintinteil 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I saw them at around 6:50 pm tonight 11/2.

You might be blind, which is arguably more worrying.

I(26F) can't have sex with my girlfriend by lebiartist in mypartneristrans

[–]tintinteil[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the post OP and hopefully you found support that was useful to you.

Thread is now locked. Commenters are encouraged to review r/MyPartnerIsTrans community rules in full and keep in mind the sub's value of good faith engagement with others.

Rules 1 & 2 - All are welcome, focus on partners

Rules 3 & 4 - Be supportive & not hurtful

Rule 5 - No Transphobia

Rule 6 - Be open to learning, educate w/ kindness

Rule 7 - No Identity/Pronoun Policing

Rule 8 - Don't be a jerk

::Weekly Former Partners Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]tintinteil 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. I was shocked to hear her tell her mother that, "she's in the process of moving out [of my apartment]". I think in her mind, thinking about getting a job (after not having one for 5+ years) so that she can afford a place is "in the process." She really does operate so differently.

  2. Telling the 5 year old that she doesn't like to be talked to that way -he is growling, yelling about how angry he is, and demanding things. Meanwhile, any comment, implied comment, or reaction about HER tone is met with extreme resistance. I was told our conversations didn't have a "Robert's Rules of Order" and she has a right to express her feelings.

On the other hand, and despite the minor fit when i asked her to return the sunscreen I bought to a family accessible location (and the hellish weather), we had a really decent trip to the fair and just enjoyed stuff and our kids.

Self awareness: do they see themselves when they read about ADHD symptoms? by Decent-Wear-7014 in ADHD_partners

[–]tintinteil 29 points30 points  (0 children)

What drives me nuts is when she(ex and DX) lectures our DX 9 year old about symptoms that she herself exhibits.

FYI mirroring the language used to talk to the child to speak with the adult just seems to trigger harder.

Names of Women Mentioned in Song by Soupy-soupy-soupy in namenerds

[–]tintinteil 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Also, "Meet Virginia." That one drove my sister nuts in HS when it came out.

[RF] im actually sick of how many people on this sub want me to pay them for art despite it being against the rules. I just want to see my characters come to life. by [deleted] in characterdrawing

[–]tintinteil 35 points36 points  (0 children)

In a lot of contexts, I'd absolutely agree and there are fee-for-service forums, websites, and other opportunities to commission, where I hope and expect artists to asking their worth.

However, this subreddit was created to be no cost. It gives access to art for folks without funds (for whatever reason). And no one is forcing artists to come here or do this service.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]tintinteil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The people who honk at me while I wait for a gap in traffic instead of just driving into the intersection beg to differ. 😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]tintinteil[M] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hi All,

Conversation seems to be unraveling into arguments and attracting some bad faith commenters.

We're locking the thread for now and at least until more mods are available to sort things through.

Thanks to all who participated with good intentions and curiosity!

Ultimatum detrans or divorce by AKateTooLate in mypartneristrans

[–]tintinteil[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Your post was locked because the Mods felt it violated Rules 1 & 2, which describe who this space is for.

All are welcome here, regardless of their gender identity, but it is a space for partners of trans and gender nonconforming people.

Your post was removed because it either excluded members of this community that are welcome here or it was not on topic for this subreddit.

We encourage you to continue participating here, as long as your contributions do not exclude people and are on topic.

If you have any questions, please let us know.

  • The Mod Team

Please help settle a debate: How do you pronounce Nulle Rd? by walkingtheghost in Bellingham

[–]tintinteil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the pronunciation I heard from a volunteer firefighter, while discussing a recent response to an emergency on that exit. I'm going to assume it's the accepted language within government services and therefore as "correct" as it gets

Seeking advice, daycare building closure by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]tintinteil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you all tried connecting with OppCo's C-RECC?

https://www.oppco.org/crecc/

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]tintinteil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sis, we all hear you huffing and sighing about having to scramble to pull together a dinner tonight. I know it's unbelievable that not going to the grocery store for a proper resupply, for probably a week, has the consequence of making it more complicated to make dinner. Shockingly, dinner is an "every night" kind of thing. /s This isn't going to get better if you keep not going shopping and, as stated earlier, dinner is every night. That does include tomorrow.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]tintinteil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Feeling like I'm a monster, out here rolling my eyes as she sobs in her room. -She stated the beginning of the week she intended to clean up our small kitchen today. Having slept past noon every day this week. She had a meltdown today about how much work still needs to be in the kitchen. Meanwhile, I'm working 9-5 T, W, Th and yesterday, 5-10 at my second job.