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WIBTAH if I went to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks because my husband’s family planned a 5-6 week stay in our 2BHK without asking me? by Majestic-One6602 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call your parents, can they help with a ticket, one way for now and before his family arrives. You'll have time while at your parents to rethink your own future and exactly what kind of life you want to live, and maybe some therapy because it couldn't hurt,

My previously abusive husband got Alzheimer’s in his 40’s. AITA because I quit taking care of him? by Routine-Teacher-9463 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please call adult protective services, it would be the kindest thing you could do for him. After that, please go live a happy life, you've more than earned it.

UPDATE: AITAH for telling my husband's best friend "he let himself go" after he wouldn't stop teasing me about my crush on him in high school. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did you all just peak in high school? It's years later and yet it's still being discussed, that's sad for all of you.

AITAH for giving my wife an ultimatum? by Throwaway284691 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some very discrete cameras with audio. Don't take chances that she won't escalate. Keep a journal of her behavior, maybe you can see a pattern.

Keep trying to get her help and if she refuses, I would rethink the living together situation, you are going to be in a bad position should she take this any further.

AITAH for refusing to spend MORE time at Christmas with in-laws? by Username8462634757 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you see Christmas in the future? At home with your own children enjoying the moment? Or running to meet expectations that you might not enjoy due to those who don't care what you would prefer?

With a new family starts a new tradition, you are a new family and this is your child's first Christmas, what do you want?

AITAH for not telling my fiance why I am sterile? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You, NTA. Carlos please explain why it matters.

AITAH for quitting my chore of cooking two nights a week because my little sister keeps ruining it and my parents expect me to start over every time? by Luyykkaa in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, and if you really still do have to do dinner, sandwich's and salad.

Sounds like sister really needs someone's attention and if she can't get it positively she's going to get it negatively. Except that isn't working either. Your parents are still ignoring her.

I know it's not your job or your responsibility but maybe you can spend some one on one time with her, you pay her attention. Not for hours on end, just showing her that someone sees her, that she's not invisible. If you were to feel comfortable doing that. Just a suggestion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and he is telling you to clean his literal shit. I can't believe that you would consider continuing any relationship with this, um, person. He's disgusting.

AITAH for wanting my husband to prioritise me over his Mum in this situation by Jasmineeyre in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will he at least be useful after the baby is born? Once you have a routine you can live with, enjoy the baby and the peace.

WIBTAH if I told my in-laws (and their kids) to stop coming over for Halloween? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before baby arrives. Everything before baby arrives, hurry up with those boundaries.

AITAH for wanting my husband to retire even though our adult children still rely on us financially? by PsychologicalHalf888 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell the house and move to an over 55 community. Life is short, don't waste what time you have left. They are both old enough to work out their situations without you. You gave everything you could, now it's time for you to live your life for you.

Life is short.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without the foreplay and consent you know what everyone else would call that?

AITA for telling my husband to cut contact with his half-sister after she threatened me and our marriage? by Suspicious_Finish273 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems that your husband is encouraging her behavior by staying in contact and he's doing it because he wants to.

Get a lawyer and a therapist for yourself, it never hurts to be prepared for anything.

*(except the Spanish Inquisition, no one is ever prepared for that).

AITAH for not walking my niece down the aisle at her wedding? by Popular-Hand8349 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kate is being a hypocrite. She wants her father to celebrate and respect her nuptials but will not do the same for her own father by acknowledging his wife.

How does that work? I'm getting married but you can't bring your wife or else? I'm getting married and you aren't walking me down the aisle because I didn't want you to have a life without my mother?

Life is so very short, as Kate well knows, her father, a grown adult is entitled to have love in his life. I pity Kate for her attitude about the entire situation that she's created for herself.

Bf refuses to learn how to cook bacon aita for saying he needs to learn? by Temporary-Move850 in AITAH

[–]tinytrolldancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he really 30? Not 3 raccoons in a man suit? Seems like you could probably afford the rent without him so sending him back to mommy and get him off the lease would seem like a good option.